Why not bdsm?

aye bby i got like a bunch of rope and blind folds and lube and dildos and other toys and candles and shit for kinky BDSM sex
you wanna cum fuk wif me?

>>34136606
If you're a weird autist about it and just try to meet girls online to come to your place then yeah you'll fail. Fetlife is full of losers who just message girls constantly. You gotta go the clubs, get into the scene. Thankfully the scene is full of autists.

>>34136703
>You gotta go the clubs, get into the scene.
yea go to the clubs, and chat up the womens about my extensive fetish gear collection
ask them if they've seen/read fiddy shades of gray
and generally just walk around advertising my wannabe rape dungeon

that'll get the bitches wet and carving me

>>34136737
The kink clubs you drooling retard. The places where people meet specifically to talk about and participate in this shit.

It's hard to explain how this works in reality. It's really just a more elaborate version of normal sex. She's completely passive and although you are supposed to have the power, the expectation is for you to act in a way that she enjoys. You're supposed to hurt her just the way she wants. It's even more work than normal, you have to make plans for what you're going to do and shit. Often you don't even get anything out of it, look at the OP for example. He's fucking fully clothed. His dick is not getting any action whatsoever, because it's actually all about her.

Women also have INSANE standards when it comes to dominant guys. Like, because he's supposed to be "dominant" their expectations rise 10 times. Every guy out there tries to be dominant but for almost all of them it's a shallow, easy to see thru act. It's very very rare for a "dom" guy to actually impress them. I've seen sub girls turn down wealthy doctor chads, attractive athlete chads, etc etc just because their personality was a tiny bit too nice.

>>34136737
>carving me

I mean if you're into that you could meet someone who'd do it.

>>34136759
ah yes the kink clubs
walk around them and tell all the pretty girls looking for chad I have the same exact fetish gear as chad
who's also in the club
yes. this will work even better now that I'm in an area where everyone also shares my fetish and has gear for it. I use to stand out and have something going for me
now I'm just some autist at a kink club trying to get women
this will work even better

>>34136777
none of this is true. they're looking for someone genuinely charismatic and interesting, that's all. if you are that, you can just be yourself, and they'll like whatever you do. you're trying to understand it from a sub bitch beta boy perspective, that's why you fail miserable. be impressive and do what you want, simple.

>>34136777
>not being fully clothed while your sub I'd naked
>not having your subscription wait for you to pull your cock out
>not finding a legit masochist who will take pain she hates but you love so she can make you proud

It does require some planning if you want to do something ornate, but you can hurt someone plenty with improvised stuff.

im a sweet domme and i dont get being a sub at all
i just treat my subs like slaves and act out my sadistic fantasies on them but im not into toys and all that bs

>>34136901
>act out my sadistic fantasies on them
What kind?

>>34136819
>Chad
>into kink

Chad and Stacy like casual degradation, Threeways, and a little slap and tickle. Legit whips, knives, needles, beatings, that shit is solely the realm of autists who've been isolated so long their urges have gone to extremes.

The kink world can be your home robots, just turn your sexual repression towards dominance instead of

>tfw no gentle dom mommy gf

>>34136943
Missionary position probably

There's no such thing as a dominant female. They're submissive by design

>>34136901
>not into toys

Think of them as tools, the better you beat a masochist the morend they'll need and crave you. It's physically addictive robots, you can make a girl crave you.

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>>34136946
>being a dom pleb
Doms are the ultimate normie tier shit.
Get the fuck off my board, wannabe Chad.

I'm a short ugly indian. I can't get a girl to reply to me online unless it's on seekingarrangement. Girls in bars/clubs don't want to talk to me and generally react to me with revulsion.

I fail to see how buying some sex toys is going to change this.

>>34136865

>this

If they think you're radically changing for them it will turn them off, "just be yourself " may be a meme but when you're a dom it really is a huge part of showing it.

>>34137044

I have good news for you anon. One of the most sought after kink figures in the Midwest is a 5,6 Indian man who everyone wants to play with cause he's an expert with a bull whip. Girls line up to suck his dick cause he can open them up from 10 feet away. It can be yours anon, just put in the effort.

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i dabble
bisexfag here, shockingly men are way more into this stuff than women.

>>34137130
Men have higher sex drives and are less frigid in my experience.

>>34137130
>that flexible cane looking thing

Nice anon, is that a sjambok? Bisex dom here too, girls look cuter when beaten but men can take more so I love beating them too. Also male subs aren't used to getting attention so they're way more eager and appreciative.

Do you anons like boipussy? Cause I've found more than a few sissy boys in the scene.

>>34137122
>I have good news for you anon. One of the most sought after kink figures in the Midwest is a 5,6 Indian man who everyone wants to play with cause he's an expert with a bull whip. Girls line up to suck his dick cause he can open them up from 10 feet away. It can be yours anon, just put in the effort.

Sounds like horseshit.

I don't see any practical pathway here for actually MEETING WOMEN which is the hardest part.

Would make more sense to just pay women and be done with it.

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>>34137186
nail on the head. i've had men beg me...

>>34137189

I'm impressed you know it's name, got it on sale from cold steel for like 10 bucks.
Yea I've had more male subs than anything, females are hard to come by round my parts, and just don't have the same stomach for it.

>>34137220

There are these things called munches that are basically just for people to meet, and that's on top of the bdsm clubs. These are not generally dance and bar style establishments anon, in fact most will kick you out if you drink. These are places solely for kinky people to meet and play with other kinky people. Any decent sized city or town tends to have a scene anon. I've met way more women and men through the kink scene than I have just talking to random people.

>>34137282

>10 dollars for a sjambok
>flogmebaby wants 40 for one

Well I know what I'm buying today, that's less than my weekend drinking budget.

>>34137357
it was on ebay, in Canada where I live so shipping was free as well.
It was a hell of a good find, became the pride of my punishment implement collection.
the control you have with it is amazing. you can snap someone incredibly lightly...or hard enough to break skin with the flick of the wrist.

>>34137310

Well I'll look into it, but I am absolutely sure the same laws of the universe will apply.

>Be tall
>Be white
>Be good looking

Or else pay.

>>34137413

where do you live? I'm in Toronto.

>>34137310
Not everyone has great social skills like you.

Taking a blind jump, meeting complete strangers at a "munch" who may or may not accept you can be daunting to say the least.

What if they're just the normie kink tier (who saw 50 shades of grey and think kinky is wearing a blindfold)

And I'm at the other end of the spectrum (choking, waterboarding, domination, electric, predicament bondage, time locks, torture etc)

>>34137453
Alberta here

i have a friend who's fat and uggo yet literally has like 5 average to above average fuck buddies because he knows them japanese ropeshits

i dont have the personality for that shit, wish i did

>>34137431

You ignore the op anon? Ugly, autists, even fucking poo in loo Indians. If you have the right gear and skills you can find play partners. It's an important thing to remember though that you need proof. Need to show subs you know what you're doing. So myou advice is this

1. Get photos of whatever talent you decide to develop and put them on a fetlife, think of it as a resume for playing with you. LinkedIn for your dick.
2. When you first get into it offers to play will be slow. You gotta build a rep, so take any offers for play. Fatties, older women, even guys if you can be into it.

>>34137310
i've looked at fetlife and my city only has one group, and it looks extremely cliquey. they make it perfectly clear that you make one of their social faux pas and you'll be viciously expelled by chads.
and there were ALOT of potential said faux pas. like one was if you're not an attractive male, you better show up with a female.

>>34137465
That's certainly a risk anon, do some research before you go and you can minimize it. In college I wanted to go to a munch but I looked at it and it was all students into what you're talking about. But then I decided to go to another one less student focused and I met people into crazy shit. Met the guy that showed me how to brand people right.

>>34137598
Yeah, I'm in Scotland and I just checked out Fetlife too, there's one group, but they're all a clique of tightly knit members.

>>34137643
>how to brand people right.

How do you do that? :3. Asking for a friend...

>>34137555
>Fatties, older women, even guys if you can be into it.

Nope.

This is what I'm talking about. The number of slim attractive young girls in a community like this will be negligible. 90% of the people will be fat/old/gross/men.

Then all the wannabe doms are going to be vying for these minority of attractive girls. So you have to work on fatties and men instead.

Nope nope nope.

Rather just pay.

>>34137739
It's called cell popping anon. You take a long piece of metal with a blunt tip (do NOT use something sharp, you'll just cause damage) like anew anatomy probe and you heat it to the point of it being red hot over a flame (something like a carpenters torch). Then, you wait a second for the red hot to fade and press it to the bottoms skin. You'll smell burned flesh and often hear a small popping sound as the water in the skin is flash boiled. You use this method to draw patterns, as simple or as complex as you want.

>>34137598
I had to travel about an hour to the closest city to find a group that fit me but when I did it was great. Absolutely worth it anon.

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>>34136557
I have real police handcuffs as my job bring a security guard but nobody ever wanted to use it with me. They do hurt tbqh and they're actually heavier than you'd think

>>34136557
BDSM is fucking disturbing to me. I'm pretty sure anyone into it has some emotional baggage that they've sexualized to cope with.

It's really annoying how commonplace it's becoming.

>>34138137

So you can abuse fat women and men?

Are you a tall white chad?

>>34137882
Well that's your prerogative anon. I'm just saying for anons that are bi or like big ladies or are just sadistic enough to enjoy hurting someone even if they aren't your cup of tea physically (this is why I beat fatties even now) then it's something that can work.

>>34138428
>tall white Chad detected.

>>34138176
Careful with those anons, they can cause damage. Better than zip ties though those things can really fuck you up.

>>34138327
I'm a king Manlet (5'10) and a social autist and I play with pretty young girls.

>>34138303
Is turning your issues into sexuality worse than turning it into crippling depression or anxiety?

>>34138519

You're a tall white guy living on easy mode. Probably decent looking too.

>>34138673
I mean things can still be easier if you're tall or attractive. Just like in the real world you can be rich enough to make up for not being Chad, in the kink world it's easy to have traits that make up for being a robot and most men in the kink community are autismo to some extent.

>>34136557
you don't really need any expensive fancy equip to start a bdsm lol; lots of bd porn ive seen revolves around obedience drills, postures, etc.
Subs just like being dominated. You dont even need to hurt or have sex with them. But i guess being confident and assertive isnt smth many robots can do.

>>34136777
>Every guy out there tries to be dominant but for almost all of them it's a shallow, easy to see thru act.
I'm a female and I play the role of a dom exclusively but I have noticed this. It's sad to see guys who would make good subs try to be a dom just because they think its what all women want. It's not. Look at other roles in the BDSM comunity and choose one that actually suits you and what you want. Don't pretend to be a 50 shades of grey guy if you aren't.

Because I'm extremely submissive and not attracted to girls.
I'm also a guy and repressed tranny

>OP goes to a board meant for betas
>Suggests that they should be alphas

OK, OP. Piece of cake!

>>34138519
this but im 5'11'

Because that's not how I want to have a relationship with someone. People are weird. The idea of working in an environment where everyone is trying to step on each others throats to make money is intriguing to me, I enjoy it. However, I prefer more typically romantic personal relationships. I wouldn't do what he did, but apparently Pablo Escobar was very loving and affectionate to his family, people he didn't have a personal relationship though were expendable to him.

OP is always some tall, handsome white guy with these types of posts. NO surprises.

>>34140041
>submissive
>needs to be feminized

You'd be someone's prize piece of ass anon. Do it.

>>34139948
You don't need toys to do bdsm. I only use toys with my sub when we have time for a scene, or canes for discipline, most of our stuff is done with bare hands and protocol. But this thread is about ways for robots tof do well in kink and having toys is a great way to get people at scene events interested

>>34140442
Um... Thanks?
I'm sorry, but desu me being 'feminized' would turn out shitty.

>>34140478
i see, i see; just that i get the feeling like the mainstream thinks bdsm = rubber catsuit +ballgag + whips;
normies just cant see past the caricature

>>34140035
There are like 50 sub guys for ever domme woman. It is a losing strategy.

>>34140569
Ah, good man. This shit is mostly mental, that's the important part of it.