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Have you ever experienced loss? How did you cope?

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Have you ever experienced loss?

How did you cope?
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>>34109884
You pretty much forget about it after a couple years.
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>>34110493
So memories of dead relatives, siblings, parents, good friends, memorable people just magically vanish one day. No, they come back and sometimes hard at night when you're alone with your thoughts .
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I get over it because life is like that. Sometimes you get something and sometimes you lose something. And losing something and feeling the pain of losing can be a good lesson and mile stone in your life.
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>>34109884
>tfw you get over your dead mom in 1 week
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My mom past away when I was a sophomore in high school, I'm now a sophomore in college. The first few hours after their gone is traumatizing as fuck knowing that the one person who raised you and woke you up every morning for school and breakfast is no longer there. But as the months and years went by I learned to cope with it. It was real hard and I had my days but overall i have grown up and learned from it. The worst part about that time period was when all the people from my school who hated me pretended to like me after my mom passed away, that next year following, they went right back to treating me like shit. Some world we live in huh?
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>>34109884
Loss is a meme

Normies mourn so much because its the only opportunity where they can wallow in their sadness and not be judged by other normies.
Loss is nothing else - just a loss. You couldve lived your whole life without what youve lost so theres no point in mourning.
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>>34111033
>BAAAW MY MUM DIED PLS NOTICE ME
get a blog faggot
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>>34111046
>Could've lived your whole life without your parents
>Without your dad's sperm and mothers egg
>Could've lived your whole life without being born

Edge-tastic
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>>34109884
started yelling and crying in my car while driving

broke into tears while driving home from work

only for a bit though
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>>34111071
>the world is a nice place
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>>34109884
Lost my mother when I was young.

I don't really cope. I am 100% confident if she was alive my life would have been much better. I would be much happier too. But most of all, I'm just sad she had to go. I still talk to her outloud as if she was next to me. Only when I'm alone though
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My powersupply fried today and my expensive pc completely broke. I'm having a hard time to cope since im a poor student and cant afford a new one and now i have nothing else to do than hang out here on my phone.

Life is cruel
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>>34111966
I've just to come to this realisation too recently. All through childhood I thought I was strong for "coping" with it, but looking back and at what I've become; it's painfully obvious how much better everything could've been.
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Lost my son.

First week I was just in a daze. Numb. Could hear people talking but couldn't understand what they were saying.

After the first week unbelievable grief set in. Weeks of it. Couldn't function.

After that life slowly restarted. 11 years later my eyes still leak.
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>>34111071
this is a shitty thing to say even for 4chan standards
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Wife 11 years ago, actually getting close to 12 now
Coping? I just never moved on and cry sometimes, daughter's the only reason I didn't kill myself
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>>34112213
Holy shit, I could never imagine, I'm sorry that shit happened to you
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