How do I defeat the fear of failing?

>>34091559
By failing

>>34091559
You can't fail at any task you never attempt. So never try anything.

>>34091559
by just being yourseIf lmao

>>34091597
I once confessed to my childhood friend in middle school and got dumped really hard, they evem bullied me. Afterwards I began to set up rules that enabled me to take care of failure and gradually hid my own personality. I did everything I was told up until recently when major depression hit me really bad and I began to act avoiding, angry and even shoplifted. I think what I fear the most is failing something I really want to do. I never tried love or anything social again. I think my recent outbreaks are tries to rebell against what I have become. I want to know who the real me is. My failures often result of my fear to fail. That's why I want to get rid of it. I think getting into a situation that will disrupt my daily patterns could help, but I don't know how I could do something like that.

please help me in that matter