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Help with talking to girls

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I know this is r9k. But I hate the generic answer of "girls are human too. Just talk to them about what you would talk to your friends about." That doesn't help though because I have no friends so I don't have experience with that. And people say to talk about interests but my only interests are in listening to music, and as far as I know no girl cares about music. And I can't talk about anything else since all I do is spend my life wasting away on my computer. So please r9k, teach me how to girls.
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If girls find you attractive they'll talk to you and laugh when you say stuff that would creep them out otherwise.

To talk to a girl, just get some attractive genes. Thats literally all there is to it.
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Be attractive and stand high in social value (have lots of friends). The second can be swapped out for mysteriousness at times, but mystery can only last so long.
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>>34053032
what do I do if I'm a 3/10 and have no friends due to no redeeming values?
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>>34052976
>my only interests are in listening to music, and as far as I know no girl cares about music.
Fuck off they all like "listening to music". It's the most default normalfag thing I can think of when it comes to listing your hobbies.
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>>34052976

The trick to talking to girls is this. Shut the fuck up. Just ask them questions and let them talk. The less you say and the more they feel good / important the better. If they ask you a question, answer it in less than 10 words and ask her a follow up question related to what she was talking about.

Most women are not deep, so you do not need to be prepared for a philosophical conversation. Just keep her talking and don't say anything creepy. Go practice on omegle or something.
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>>34053127

Then learn to be social. If you have no social skills women won't be interested unless you're rich or extremely good looking.
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>>34052976 http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Girlfriend-When-You're-Autistic

i hope this helps op
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girls run on feelings, not logic. If you're running out of things to say that means you're putting in too much effort to try to make the conversation last and you're ultimately just desperate to get her to be your friend/fuckslut/whatever. you're trying to create an attraction that isn't there. This is the hard cold fact about girls. There isn't a pick up line, series of questions, or any other cheap tactic really. To be honest with you, this is why people wih good looks and money and muscles are good with women. They FEEL good about themselves and in turn make the girl feel good about herself just by being around them. Theoretically, you could be a NEET nerdy virgin who only plays videos and STILL get a gf IF you truly love your life and yourself enough. This is also why guys will tell other guys to work out or to not focus on women and better themselves instead. It's the easiest path to make you feel better about yourself and emit that attractive scent that is so desperately important in a conversation with a women. While there is a variety of factors that contribute to talking to women, this is the main driving force they're attracted to: How much do you love yourself.


This is mainly why robots are doomed. They're terrified and angry and refuse to look at themselves deeply instead of blaming the world for their despair. The world has always been a shitty place since the dawn of time but people have found a way much like 4chan in general. But change is hard. And HOW to change is a question I can't answer for you op. It's a uphill journey I've been on for years with many defeats and few victories.

Ultimately, making girls like you is not the answer to your problems OP. Being unable to make conversation with women is more of a symptom of something wrong with you, not the cause. Or maybe I'm a sperg and this whole post is cringe.
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>>34052976
I'll be your friend if you wanna practice talking to girls
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