Maybe being alone isn't so bad at all?

It's actually the most optimal.

>tfw crave a connection with someone but don't have a personality of my own so I'll never really connect with anyone

>>26259184
Crouton, you're such a g

My favorite tripfag, I love you man

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xPLtD6N9WO0

I'd like to be in a relationship. But if I cant have one, then I'm at least glad I dont have to tell anyone where I am or what I can do or who I can/can't talk to.

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>>26259166
This bait needs a relevant bait reaction pic.

>>26259166

Dubs of enlightenment. Ultimately, the trade off is you are alone, but you have so much free time, money you don't have to spend on dates, stress you're making her feel alright, etc. I'm debating if I even want a relationship anymore, might just leave that until I have all my college and certifications done, that is, if I still think I even want one. Ultimately I just want someone who's always down to hang out, talk about stuff, and hit up record stores. Whether that's a dude or a woman, I think I'd be alright with either.

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>>26259166
>tfw naturally introverted
>tfw I want to be by myself 99% of the time
>tfw girl likes me
>tfw I drop obvious hints I don't like her for the past several months
>mfw she won't piss off

>>26259505

How's she look?

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>>26259531
I've posted her several times on this board and I don't want to give off the impression that I'm trying to make her into a forced meme but here you go.
>What should I do /r9k/?

>>26259670


Take her out to dinner FFS lol. I was in a similar situation and after months I hesitantly agreed to hang out. Ended up really liking her and we started dating. Now a year and a half later we're broken up and I'm alone and I think about her all the time. It'll be fun, I promise!

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>>26259734
So basically just go out with her until she gets bored of me?
I've tried being aloof and distant but I think she mistakes it for me being a shy person or that I'm scared I'll say something that'll make her lose interest in me.
>I don't know if I can last a year and a half though.

being alone is much better than falling in love with a girl and having her tell you she loves you, only to dump you later. it's literally the most painful thing you can experience

>>26259868
The relationship ended 8 months ago. Nothing really much since then.

Yes, that's what you should do. Play it cool and don't get too attached, but by all means have fun and be intimate. Just keep in the back of your head it's going to come to an end more than likely.

>>26259868
she's not a bad looking spic chick.

you gay, son? hit it and quit it. don't gotta breed and mix.

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>>26259935
I guess might as well give it a try
>>26259937
She's 20, virgin, never had bf, won't give it up until marriage, and even though she has a kind and caring disposition her personalty is pretty bland and boring.

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>>26260007

>She's 20, virgin, never had bf, won't give it up until marriage, and even though she has a kind and caring disposition her personalty is pretty bland and boring.

AND YOU THINK YOU CAN DO BETTER?!?

How would I know? I've never really had anyone like me.

>>26260007
>sweet, pretty girl that likes you
I'm so sorry for you anon.

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>>26260065
What part of
>tfw naturally introverted
>tfw I want to be by myself 99% of the time
do you not get fool?

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>>26260245
And I thought "I" was the perfect candidate for a harem.

I suppose I still am, I guess.
Even inserting myself into your own situation, albeit the limited information given, I wouldn't have the nerve to succumb to the directionless lust I feel sometimes and cave.

Not at the expense of a living breathing person who likes me. I couldn't bear that. I can't into actual intimacy and closeness with people because I can't comprehend it.

I'd wind up embarrassing myself to depths I can't fathom.

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>>26260245
Literally 100% grade A autism

>>26260245
My honest opinion is that it depends on your anxiety. If you're social skills are bad, you have anxiety, AND you might not even want this... then forget about it right now.

But if you could feel okay around her and maybe enjoy hugs and cuddles, then there is a chance you'd like being with her despite not thinking so.

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>>26260245

WE ARE THE 1%

It's just hard to grasp our heads around it anon. Its so hard to believe it smells of bait. You're telling a crowd of starving Africans that you don't get hungry. It's hard to believe.

>>26260434
It's almost spooky.
The avoidant romantics live, albeit in seclusion, forgotten. Like the sith.

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>>26260377
I don't think it's anxiety. I've been like this my whole life and not once have I felt truly depressed or lonely. People have always described me as a cool minded, steadfast person.
>But if you could feel okay around her and maybe enjoy hugs and cuddles, then there is a chance you'd like being with her despite not thinking so
Just the thought of it makes me cringe. but maybe you're right. I'll give it a shot and see where this road takes me. I don't intend on being with her for a long period of time though.

>>26260465

They truly are the Sith Lords of wizardry aren't they?

They chose the dark side, not for what it offered them but because of what it kept them from.

>>26260489
I think you should at least try, you probably will never have another chance like that one ever in your life.

>>26259166
nah it's awful bro. imagine going a quarter of a century without that essential companionship you need to thrive and survive and be content with life*. seriously i think i'd KILL at this point to have one monogamous life-long relationship with strictly ONE female for the entirety of my existence. too bad women aren't wired for monogamy and modern society enable hypergamy and whorish behavior. ;_;

* = really wish I could be one of the rare anons who is content with being alone forever

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>>26260465
I think you're the only decent tripfag (that understands /r9k/ culture) we've had since the beginning of new9k. Keep on keeping on, brudda bear.

>>26260489

Believe it or not, that's the kind of relationship a lot of Mexican women are raised up to expect.

They marry and tend to the home, for a working husband to come home, eat and watch TV/drive them around to fulfill errands then get home and fuck if you feel like it.

Sure enough, most of them are miserable and some do cheat but at least in Mexico you'll be shamed for it by your entire neighborhood for it.

>>26260489
If you can keep a cool head around her and not worry too much, then it's definitely worth a try. Just be gentle if you eventually break up with her.

>>26260526
>what it kept them from
It kept from me nothing.

My emotions don't dictate want.
Primal urges do.
Urges I elect to ignore because they disgust me and bear no merit.

I want to be mute. Spiritually, I strive to it because it makes things easier.

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>>26260434
Her twitter feed pretty much confirms everything I've said.
https://twitter.com/JudiSauce
>>26260558
I'll do it not for any emotional attachment I may have for her but simply to get her off my back and someone to compliment me from time to time.

>>26260627
I've been here a while longer than you might think.
Also my refusal to be a tripfag and use a code just might make an addition to this decency.

>>26260662
>https://twitter.com/JudiSauce

Thanks, I'll tweet her this thread now

>>26260662
>https://twitter.com/JudiSauce
i'm not sure you should have gave some of her dox.
Perhaps you are Wizard Sith and this is part of your design.

Sabotage her by employing with the blind mischief robots to break her interest in you.
I've never seen this kind of gambit in person.

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>>26260648
Nah I have no intention of hurting her.
>Which is probably why all those hints fly over her head.

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>>26260715
30 seconds. Damn I smelled the hivemind a mile away.
The game is afoot.

>>26259166
you aren't alone you dumb idiot

>>26260680
Nah that's cool. Wasn't accusing anything. I have nothing against any poster as long as they realize how to properly use the website.

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>>26260762
>as long as they realize how to properly use the website.
An unfortunate commodity.

>>26259410
Go back to redit forever

>>26260784
real talk
newfags have destroyed 4chan

>>26260735
Good luck to you bro. Hope it goes well.

>>26260882
feels bad man
feels real bad man
been on /r9k/ since 2009 and it sucks ass that we're a delegated newfag containment board now

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>>26260900

Still, I'm I may /b/ an oldfag, but I'm not going to use this against Judi.

She seems like an OK girl, and I suspect OP is putting on a ruse to get us to spam her.

>>26260882
Post it on her twitter

>>26260882
Hmm, bad taste, a little friend.
Que sera sera.

>>26260947
I don't know this 'Judi' shit. I just hate newfags, bro.

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>>26259166

Maybe you're riggghhttt