Lately, I've been delving in to prostate stimulation, and I really don't know what I'm doing, to be honest. I don't know what it is im supposed to be feeling, I don't know really much about anything. I'm hoping I can find some advice here.
I've been using a prostate stimulator toy made out of silicone rubber, Dr. Joel something or other brand. I've been making sure I'm using tons of water based lubricant, trying to relax myself, and tying to just enjoy things, but nothing is really happening. Nothing feels horrible, but it isn't good either, you know? Sometimes it feels like I have to pee, and from what I've read, that's actually a good thing, so I usually continue to try and work that area. But is there something I should be feeling to know like 'yeah, I'm hitting the right spot'? I just don't know, and it's rather frustrating.