Hello /r/,
me and my gf want to get into oral sex and would like to start on a good note. Many of the sites online have a shitty attitude about the whole thing and try to be funny/snarky, rather than helpful.
I had a few infographics on the topic saved from chan, but my folder is on another computer that I won't have access to for some time.
Could you please post infographics/links to websites that explain the act in a neutral way, or atleast that don't make one of the genders feel like doing oral sex is their god given duty?
We would like tips for both him and her.
>>14952991
Whats up anon, you should forget infographics and websites, reading an article isn't gunna make you much better at oral sex.
I'll try and give some simple tips for both sides
>male giving
>play with other areas first, breasts, inner thighs, lower stomach. Start off slow and wet
>the more you enjoy just having her in your mouth or putting your tongue inside her the more natural your movements will be.
>ask her how she likes it and how it is feeling
>its your first time for christ sake the more you communicate the better it'll be
>use your hands at the same time.
female giving
>don't focus on the head too much, the shaft and of course balls need love
>again, wetness is key
>ask him what he likes/wants you to change during
>start of slow and sensual, he'll ask you if he wants you to speed slob his nob like the 'movies'
>key to a good blowjob is giving a good handjob at the same time.
You're welcome
Someone who pretended not to be a virgin for ages and just about got away with it.
>>14953149
I know something about pretending, pretending I slept with over 30 girls while it's actually 1 tenth of that and no one ever doubted it.
So synopsis of your advice is, begin slow, enjoy it and create a feedback loop.
Also in the movies is a bit tricky as my gf never watched any porn, though I guess we could try watching it together.
>>14953252
You've slept with 10 girls but never gone down on one of them?
>acceptable if they were all hoochies
Yeah, start slow, try and convince yourself its the best thing on earth while you do it (and vice versa), seeing a girl on the end of your meat looking like it's her last meal is definately gunna make it good even if her technique is off.
and yeah, feedback is the most important.
>always thought it was about licking the clit and licking just inside labia etc
>current girlfriend said hell na
>gets off when I stick my tongue in as far as I can
>most girls might not like that shit
>only found out cos I experimented/asked