http://www.reddit.com/r/gaming/comments/22rlna/a_plea_to_all_gamers_be_very_careful_about_how/ >I have problems, please adjust all of your lives to fit my preferences >If someone says I am bad at a video game, I need Valium or I will commit suicide >I can't handle the real world, or even the pretend video game world, therefore everyone who upsets me needs to change, not me
I honestly can't believe people like this exist. When did this become a thing? Why are more and more kids committing suicide over the smallest things?
>Why are more and more kids committing suicide over the smallest things?
Because they're being told that they're not supposed to fight back if they're being bullied, that they're the bad guys if they do, that the world is all sunshine and rainbows when the reality is the world is a mean and nasty place and it will keep you on your knees if you let it.
>>28729645 Enablers cause this shit. Don't enable your kids if you have them. My dad didn't. He always told me, if I had to defend myself from any attacker, he would look the other way on anything I needed to do to win.
Basically, if I got suspended from school for fighting a punk bully, I would face no consequences at home. He came through a couple times on that.
>>28729789 >>28730013 I only got in one fight and I was jumped in 6th grade. I remember it ended with me trying to strangle someone with a swing set chain. I remember the principle telling me it was unacceptable and no excuses and all this other stuff as I bled out my noise onto her chair. I remember being more worried about the chair.
Then my dad picked me up and when we got in the car he told me no one ever has to justify defending themselves, and as long as I wasn't picking the fight, I did good.
>One guy: You're mentally weak for allowing yourself to go through depression for a long time. later >Another guy: You are lying. Nobody who has dealt with depression would say something so out of touch. What a faggot. Everyone's fucking clinically depressed, we just deal with it differently.
I was picked on for quite awhile by a couple of guys. Punched one of them. I got suspended. They get parents called in and are not punished and told not to associate with me again. My parents get called in. I get threatened with expulsion if I do this again. I am older now. Kids need to get into fist fights over this again. Not run to teachers. Teachers are fucking useless when it comes to bullying and dealing with kids.
>>28730013 In juvie I got in the habit of slapping fools across the face. It's an excellent response to larger foes, as it startles them for a brief enough time to get in a strike that turns things into your favor. Of course, in a juvie situation, all the other nigs jump on you and you get kicked in, but at least you aren't a bitch. And getting beat up doesn't hurt that much. I imagine being seen as a wimp is far worse.
I remember when some faggot tried the prelude to the knock out game on me in like year 8 (11 years old.. 2003 at the time), I ended up bashing his face in with a fire extinguisher, we got both a 3 day exclusion but my mum said as I didn't start it I had no need to explain myself.
>>28729564 >I honestly can't believe people like this exist
Look around, son. /pol/ is basically what you described.
>I have problems, please adjust all of your lives to fit my preference Pretty much /pol/'s attitude
>If someone says I am bad at a video game, I need Valium or I will commit suicide Not necessarily video games, but whenever /pol/ is confronted with the realities of life and how progress happens whether they like it or not, they go apoplectic and "don't want to live on this planet anymore".
>>28730214 One time when I was 15, a gang of kids kept picking on me, about 12 of them? (I've posted this in another bullying thread so someone might recognise me).
Basically they ended up leaving me alone because even though I lost each time, I went down fighting, I always dished out a few black eyes and a broken nose or two when they'd all gang up on me. I'd just go ape shit going for the nearest person to hit.
I usually got around 4 or 5 of them, knocked 1 or 2 out, best I ever did was take out 6 of them because I used the staircase and threw them down one at a time because it was a narrow hallway which made their numbers mean nothing.
They left me alone because I quote "It's not worth it, kids a fucking lunatic".
>>28729789 >Some bully tried to start shit with me and I slugged him in the face >End up suspended for 5 days even though all the other kids and a teacher said that the bully was as fault >My dad didn't give a flying fuck and ended up having a grand old time since he a few days off anyways and we went on a roadtrip up to DC stopping at all of the civil war battlefields along the way >Find out a few years later from my mom he actually laughed in the principals face and said "Shit this is what paddling was for."
>>28730567 >Bully spits on me and kicks my shin >kick his groin and spit on him when he's on the floor while kicking his ribs in >everyone's looking at me because I'm quiet in class so didn't expect me to get in a fight or win one >i'm pissed as hell at that moment so say what the fuck are you all looking at, want some as well? >teacher asks what happened, everyone says nothing happened >teacher can't get me in trouble because everyone vouches for me in fear of me going mad on them
I was bullied when I was very young because I was cross eyes?
Will I care tomorrow? No Did I care now? No Did I care then? A bit, but I got over it fast and compensated by strengthening myself in other areas. Thats the fucking point.
It made me a bit stronger, a bit of a more integral person and im greatful really. Thats life, people pick on you for being a fucking weirdo, and its natural. Its a natural selection's way o saying reach this benchmark or prepare to be filtered out the gene pool.
Unfortunately when we are really young and still developing, it is a little ...emphasised.
It teaches kids to be normal, to learn how to conform to a societal structure that is mutually beneficial. Dont want to be a part of the society? Then society will push you out.
Obviously this is played out on a small scale model in the playground.
I had fights throughout school but not many, most times I was "attacked" it was too small of a thing to turn violent about, so I left it. Same with my friends.
But eventually I got my chance. >Turk bully who picks on younger years pushes me into door >Turn around and flinch to make him jump >he jumps like a bitch and is embarrassed >I carry on walking feeling that I responded well >he kicks me in the back as im walking away >turn around and punch him with the fury of 5 years of passive behavious >falls to the ground half concious, head spinning >Has to walk around school with a black eye for the next couple of weeks
No one ever hassles me again for the rest of school. Happened to my best friend too, when some skinny nigger started wacking him with a tennis racket, so my friend beat the living shit out of him. Never hassled again.
I dont support the use of violence, but by gosh does it work.
>>28731047 I remember some scrawny little shit in the year above kept chucking shit at me so when I walked over to him looking pissed off, all of his "friends" ran off and left him, next thing he's standing in a puddle of his own piss saying sorry as I threaten to deck him.
>>28729564 >WAHHHHHHHHH SOMEONES ASKING FOR CIVILITY WAHHHHH I SHOULD BE ABLE TO BULLY AND HARASS ANYONE I WANT BECAUSE I'M HARDCORE WAHHHHHHHHHHH FUCKING ASSHOLE TELLING ME TO NOT CALL HIM AN ASSHOLE HOW DARE HE STUPID NIGGERFAG WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH CRAWWWWWLLLING INNNNNNN MYYYYY SKIIIIINNNNNNNNN
>kid bullies me at skool >I fight back but he beats me up >threaten to knife him >his best friend comes over to try and talk me out of it >tell him no >bully comes over and is clearly shitting himself >tell him next time we meet his spleen is gonna be spilled >he's not there the next day >or the week after >he changed schools
>>28729789 >no one will ever pick a fight with you because youre too nice >tfw still fantasizing about beating the shit out of some guy for sexually harrassing my date or brutally murdering someone for attempting to kidnap one of my sisters
>>28731144 >WAHHHHHHHHH SOMEONES ASKING FOR CIVILITY It's called having a fucking backbone Yes people should be decent to each other But you shouldn't be so damn fragile that if someone is mean to you you seriously contemplate suicide.
>be me >fifth grade >new kid tries to bully me to establish himself >we fight >I get my ass kicked in >play victim because fuck that guy >he gets suspended and never comes back
>few years later see him >oh shi- >he's clearly pissed as hell but doesn't hit me >tells me that he was expelled because of me >had to see a shrink >bounced from school to school >made no friends >probably on a dickload of pills >actually says the words "you ruined my life"
>mfw now I'm typing and remembering this story
so not mad. sorry Nigel, shouldn't have fucked with me
Not improving. Lowering it to your shitty standard.
Here's a hint faggot - those kids with their problems and issues have the potential to do far more in this world than you ever will. Because they're actually fucking facing what the world has thrown at them.
No one in this world gets an easy fucking ride. Don't pretend they do.
>>28731345 I'll say most people from Essex are actual cunts, but no, like with anyone else, I won't write off 100% of a group. It'd be ignorant to write off everyone from a group without having even met them.
>>28731356 I wouldn't even give him the honour of the label parent, he's just biologically related and that's it in my eyes. I'd never call him father if I spoke to him again. He lost that right a long time ago.
Still, I've done great without his help. I'm as manly as they get, my natural test level for example is 1300
>>28731578 >those kids with their problems and issues have the potential to do far more in this world than you ever will pro-tip: no they dont people who are weak will not accomplish anything people who are dumb will never contribute to society etc.
>>28731714 I'm the guy with the dad that fucked off, I'm also English, never had a problem with the fights I had- How it was in my school was if you won the fight you gained a shit load of popularity and respect regardless of if you should've won it or not.
Everybody knew me to the point someone would say hi and I'd have no clue who they were.
I was also the kid that was never awake in class, so the fact that "that guy" (me) was such a good fighter was an even bigger surprise.
I mean yeah that was in school but I've never lost a single fight in school or college. Haven't had a street fight yet though so I can't say if I'd do well or not on that. My last fight was at 19 in college.
To be fair this one time I was the douche but he got violent first, I said to some Indian dude that he loved curry as a joke and he got violent, I ended up kicking his ass and suddenly everybody respected me a hell of a lot more.
>>28731999 >Which is odd, because I'm also an exteemily gentle and kind individual.
I'm usually quiet and more of the observant time, the way I see it, I only bother doing things that I need to do, so I didn't care to do much other than sleep through easy classes (all of them, still passed everything), so people assumed I'd be some fragile little pussy, then the fights happened and everything changed not long after starting year 7. I went to a secondary school where no one from Primary went to, so no one knew what I was like if I had to fight.
Where the fuck do you people live in? I was raised in Bosnia, started school in the last year of war, and I can remember giant freaking logs parallel to eachother being put outside the windows to prevent fragmentation shards entering and killing people. Oh yeah, and the air raid sirens when we would in a state of panic run out of the classroom and hide in the basement. Yet for all these years, elementary, middle and high school, I never witnessed, let alone experienced "bullying". We had fights, but it wasn't like serious. It was... dunno, a fun way to kill some time, there wasn't much to do back then apart from soccer and killing lizards with a stick.
Its why the whole anti-bullying campaigns never worked here in the UK.
They just have it all wrong. They dont really understand what is going on. People provoking one another with insults etc and with it then escelating to violence was just people trying to climb up the social hierarchy of the year group. Literally everyone was at it at my school, the people at the tip top (giant fucking gorilla nig, huge sultan teir turkish kid and some borbidly obese irish kid) would pick on anyone and try and start fights all the time, just to show whos boss, people under them, the self proclaimed "gangstas" would also be provocative all the time, trying to remain near the top, then the normal kids under them, who would pick on the weirdos and weaklings at the bottom to stop themselves slipping into their catagory.
>Despite your best attempts to stop it, it would seem. What? Posting my opinion on some image board is hardly trying to stop it.
>What you're doing isn't working. I'm not doing anything.
>Hell, if anything I'd say you're making it worse. You mean all of these bitch teachers who are teaching kids to run to someone else with their problems and allow themselves to be walked all over for their entire childhood, leading to manchildren who havn't been able to experience childhood when they should have, and more and more faggots because they aren't turned away from the path of homosexuality during their "im confused, who the fuck am I" phase that tonnes of guys go through
I wasn't high up, I was in the normal kids tier. I had a large group of friends, a lot of people were in the tier, and they were all friends, we resented the people above us, calling them chavs (despite the fact that they were nearly all black and turkish) and constantly picked on the emos and freak circles below us at the bottom of the barrel to stop ourselves being associated with them.
Overall I had a pretty good fucking time in that tier of the hierarchy.
Negative reinforcement doesn't work. There's a reason us animal trainers stopped doing it ages ago. Don't get me wrong, a dangerous fuck needs to be put down, but beating and mashing people without being provoked turns them into pic related, not Alpha McCoolguy.
Im blaming society m8, can you not comprehend anything im saying.
Children, want to bully one another, children want to self regulate, which is what I support. Obviously there is a line, and that is where teachers come in, if someone is literally retarded by definition, teachers should look out for them, but down right poising thier minds to the point that they believe everything is acceptable and no one should ever be picked on (aka discriminated) is what is leading to so much shit in society.
>>28732501 That must've sucked, in my school it was like 99.99% white, we had about... 3 non whites in a school of 1600 pupils, and 2 of them were indian.
I had my best friend and a few close friends, only like 5 people but everyone else was acquaintance-tier and knew me because I never lost a fight, my most known fight was against a dude twice my size and was on the rugby team and when I won that one everyone was shocked as shit.
I enjoyed a lot of peace thanks to my place in the popularity ranks, I could've easily been a total douche and got away with it if I wanted to.
>>28732548 That feel, I remember it like it was yesterday despite it being almost 10 years ago.
I like that we finish at 16 not 18, I wouldn't've been the man I am today if I hadn't left at 16, went through some character defining shit at college.
This one time I utterly crushed the ass hole in our year that no one liked, he used his ADHD as an excuse to pick fights, he started on some poor little fucker in year 7 (we were year 10), so I told him to stop, he swings for me and mises, I decked him, his head bounces off the lamp post in the middle of the playground and he's unconscious.
My grandfather took me aside the first time I got suspended for fighting back against a bully. >they only pull that shit because they think it's fun. >so what you have to do is take the fun out of it. >bite, kick, poke them in the eyes >show them that you don't think it's any fun at all.
>>28732849 Fair enough, I usually showed no mercy once I got started. It took like 3 teachers to pry me off of some fucker who slapped my girlfriend for not letting him grab her tits. I went ballistic on the bastard.
>>28732860 I honestly can't imagine how shit that must've been. To have that many of them outnumbering the white group.
I bet the blacks would've jumped into a fight with like 10 blacks vs 1 white guy or something cowardly. In my school we had a strict 1 vs 1 unspoken policy.
Niggers being cool, that idea is genuinely foreign to me. That must've been awful.
>>28732966 i live in a 99% white area, and the chavs are exactly like how u describe blacks, 10 vs 1, i've had it, it's not pleasant, i can handle my own but i'm not neo from the matrix.. its not even a poor area, i have no idea how they got liek that
I was called 'fat-head' for months by a kid who ironically had a fatter head than me, and visible moles too. One day I just snapped and punched him on the ear.
He ended up with a red ear that was swollen for like a couple of days; and after that pretty much all the bullying ended. I started making friends and came to be someone who could be friends and have a lot in common with pretty much anyone.
Keep parading British schools as 'Muh Fight Club' though m8s.
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