Dear Non-BPD People...

We are not about control, manipulation, lies, we are about fear. We love you, possibly more than most people can feel love and are in sheer terror of losing you, this is the control you speak of. Don’t turn your back on us (unless you are in danger of your life, but most BPD’s I have met hurt only themselves). For when you turn your back on us, you have reinforced the idea that we are unworthy, hopeless, and cannot make it in this world. In my experience, most of the conflicts that arise with BPD’s and Non-BPD’s is miscomunication. Be clear about what you mean, extremely clear, because what you say is perceived by us as something different. Be reassuring. Don’t say, “I can’t take this right now,” simply start the sentence differently… “You have every right to feel the way you do, but can we talk later. I will call you back at such and such a time.” (continued)

Be validating. Don’t ignore a text or a phone call, we have been ignored all our lives and feel invisible. Don’t tell others that we are “crazy.” We are a lot healthier than most people walking around ignoring their feelings, we are learning how to cope. Don’t tell us we are being overly dramatic, overly sensitive, we are not dramatic, our feelings are real and yes, we are overly senstitive, but is that such a bad thing? I am proud to say that I am sensitive, I am proud to say that when I love, I love with all my soul, I am proud to say that I do understand you, but can you even try to understand me? I am not here preaching about how BPD’s should be catered to. As an analogy: if we had cancer, would you say “I’m tired of taking you for your treatments, fight this on your own?” For some, BPD is as terminal as cancer. As long as they are in treatment and learning to cope, be there because one day that bird that is banging their head against the cage will fly free and you will miss the opportunity to fly with them…

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Please educate yourself about ways you can help people with BPD

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8-NfELf71Y

Please don't give up on us ):

>>136685324
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8-NfELf71Y
Hooktube this
https://www.hooktube.com/watch?v=i8-NfELf71Y

>>136686193
But its important to support BPD activism from the source and give them much deserved views and respect.

Kill yourself

>>136686326
You must be mad at a BPD person that wronged you, but whatever they did to you, i can assure you that everything they did to you hurt them so much more than it did you.

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>Be validating. Don’t ignore a text or a phone call, we have been ignored all our lives and feel invisible.

- still being this delusional
- still trying to tell me what to do

holy shit reading this gives me flashbacks of BPD people I've known

saged. get the fuck out

>>136686502
>i can assure you that everything they did to you hurt them so much more than it did you.

still trying to make people feel bad for doing absolutely nothing wrong

absolute cancer

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>>136686628
Please don't be like this.
BPD people need support from everyone.
We need much more kindness than everyone else because of our childhood traumas.

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>>136688660
Fixed spelling errors.

>>136686518
People need to change just a little bit to accommodate individuals with BPD.
Its not hard to give positive afirmations, and we are always gracious for support and respectful care.

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>>136685051
I got BPD and you're a faggot. kys

>Fag flag
>Openly admits to having a mental disorder
Imagine my surprise.

>>136690205
Yes i am a proud faggot.

Does KYS mean "okey's"?

Please share what you think can help us, and your experiences.

>>136685051
I recently ended things - and things was a long, drawn out, on-again off-again relationship ranging from wonderful to woeful with all in between punctuated by crazy-girl sex that was alas all too addictive to go back to - with a BPD-afflicted girl and I feel like a weight has lifted from me.

Good luck with your affliction though.

>>136690999
She must feel awful, when people give up on BPD people, it reinforces that they are not worth it and a burden ):

This is why im an activist.

>>136691438
She may well do, but she had seven years to stop shitting on me and wearing me down - so if she was expecting abandonment, she had a long time to get ready for it.

By god it felt good when I was up on the pedestal, as opposed to on the hate-cycle, though.

>>136691658
You literally abandoned her, thats what BPD people fear the most, you made her life so much worse teaching her that everyone will give up on her...

Nobody should ever give up on BPD people.
They deserve unconditional understanding.

>>136692512
Yeah, nah. I'm indulging your trolling because actually typing this is cathartic, but long story short, I met her at a time in her life when her father - with whom she'd had a fractious relationship but recently reconciled and was enjoying having back in her life - had died while she was on holidays on the other side of the world.

One of the things in life I'm proudest of is the role I played in helping her pick up the pieces of her life and went from an utter wreck to a successful young woman - she's got a great job, a wide circle of friends who respect her as opposed to a few close friends that used to take advantage of her, and a good outlook on life, but eventually I was treated like shit one time too many. Remember the first principle of first aid is to make sure there's no danger to you - took me seven years to figure that out.

>>136685051
But what if the BPD person has very negative effects on the partner in the relationship and he/she starts manifesting psychological problems himself?

>>136694035
People with BPD dont know how to react when they are stressed or feeling intense bad emotions.
Always support mentally ill people.

>>136694256
Just don't have to support them with your dick if you stand to lose it.

>>136694256
Not always easy if you have some mental problems yourself and can't deal with some situations.

>>136685051
Kill yourself

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Is this pork cooked?

>>136694770
>t.thread

Can't you BPD niggers hang out together so you don't bother decent normal people?

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>>136685051
Commit suicide in a painful manner

>>136694256

My BPD ex gf literally tried to accuse me of rape and domestic abuse when I did no such thing.

It took me secretly filming her hitting me and threatening to ruin my life if I didn't do *everything* she wanted and showing that film to the police to get her out of my life with a restraining order. On top of all of that she literally tried to murder me!

Fuck her and fuck you, OP. Fuck everyone with BPD!

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>>136695686
This sounds horrible, im sorry for what happened to you, but people with bpd feel intense stress and do what they can to not feel scary feelings. If you gave her positive affirmations and respect there would of been anything to worry about.

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>>136685051
>But step back for a moment, really look at us
No. Stopped reading. Fuck off and shove your bpd or whatever up your ass. Get the fuck off /pol/ and take your gay shit to /sol/ or if you can't handle that go the fuck back to where you came from. No one cares.
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>...we may come across as manipulative...

You do.

>>136685051
ugh
go get beat up by your drug dealing boyfriend you stupid cunt

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