Toxic Monogamy

>>135365094
Some of these points are actually valid though. Not saying polygamy is morally permissible, but a lot of these are valid points for normal couples.

>>135365404
foot in the door principle

gj cuckin yourself

>>135365094
That person is a degenerate piece of shit who will die alone and without children.

>>135365537
What are you saying? It is important in a relationship to not lose yourself or to sacrifice your principles and just become one person with your partner. That has nothing to do with multiple partners. It's just a good lesson on its own.

>>135365404
But those are not problems stemming from the relations being monogamous they originate from the fucked up millennial me me me culture.

The same culture that promotes un monogamous relations for the same selfish reasons.

>>135365837
Totally agreed. The points which I consider valid in there aren't part of "toxic monogamy culture" but rather a toxic culture as a whole.

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>>135365837
Ironically enough, plenty of millenials(like the ones posting this) seem to believe monogamy is self-centered even while trying to justify their own promiscuity

>>135365094
what a retarded communist drivel

>>135365094
Whoever wrote this is a retard who doesn't know how to have a healthy monogamous relationship. This list reflects emotional immaturity and narcissism, not necessarily having a thing to do with monogamy.

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>>135367186
this

>>135365094
Why do you listen to Tumblr?
None of them have any experience on being in a relationship.

>>135365094
You mean I only get one girlfriend at a time?

>>135365094
Human nature is toxic!

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>>135365094

>>135365404
>How a basic foot adoration turned me into a cum-gargling cuckold by (((you)))

why don't you pay a visit to reddit to see what happens when you start to think like that.

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>>135365094
It's like someone almost stumbling upon a redpoll but then missing the point.

>>135365094
>the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity
That's the entire fucking point.

>>135365094

Sometimes I just can't wait for the violent end times when these faggots bodies will be broken open.

>>135365404
all of these points are strawmen

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>>135365094
WHAT IS THIS NEW KIKE SHIT?!?!?!

>>135365404
>Some of these points are actually valid though.

They're really not a valid reason to dismiss the practice of monogamy though. What they are is issues that couples sometimes have to work through, because you know, love and relationships take hard work.

These tumblr SJWs have never had to work for a goddamned thing which is why they don't recognize a problem for anything other than external oppression.

>>135368777
u fuckin Ju

>>135365094
>That commitment is synonymous with exclusivity
I wonder how happy this person will be in 10 years?

the whole monogamy/polygamy thing is a load of bullshit in the first place. the human heart is a giant slut. monogamy is melding this into purity through work, polygamy is seeing it as it is.

>>135369166
They also place no value on a long term relationship and treat it as a trap instead of an asset

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>>135365722
>>135365404
>It is important in a relationship to not lose yourself or to sacrifice your principles and just become one person with your partner.
wow u are pathetic

>>135369861
who hurt you anon? what was her name?

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>>135368015

They've got a point.

Not that faggot ass polyamory is the way to go but our relationship culture is completely toxic. I'm so tired of being devastated I'm just not trying anymore. Same applies to all other areas of life. The hindus figured out life 2500 years ago, freedom from desire and attachments. There's nothing but pain and misery at every turn. This is hell.

>>135365722
When you have children, you will lose yourself. You can't be a good parent without losing yourself. You will eventually regain part of yourself as they get older, but you will remain forever changed by the transformative ego-disintegration that is parenting.

>>135370485
pooing in the street doesn't make you free form desire

>>135370485
Read the Bible, clean your room, sort yourself out, bucko.

>>135365094
Just wait until the jealousy hits, and suddenly you embrace monogamy

>>135365094
Somehow I feel like this person is not going to follow their own points, but will make sure that her partner does. Some of them aren't even that wrong. Commitment is synonymous with exclusivity though. People only have so much time to spread around, and just about no one has time for more than one partner in any serious meaningful fashion in the western sense of how partnership responsibilities are. If you don't like western relationships, you can fuck off to the middle east and be part of a non-exclusive relationship with the man as harem-master.

>>135370584
>look outside
>see turd in street
>no longer horny

idk about that, anon

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>>135365094
No

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=236hSZmD_GQ

>>135365094
Sounds like Nanking needs to raped.

>>135365094

>be libshit beta male with used-up slut SJW wife and SJW friends
>try to be most progressive virtue signaller on social media and declare that i'm going to let my wife sleep with other dudes
>cheers from SJW crowd
>wife brings home first of many nigger bulls
>listen to them fuck through the walls
>seethe with rage and cry into pillow
>can't do anything about it or will lose status on social media

Liberals truly are parodies of themselves.

>>135365404
This, it's very honest. Humans are not naturally inclined to be monogamous, at least not over the very long term. For the short to mid term perhaps. But both sexes crave variety.