I'm dealing with a female shitlib normie who is arguing that monogamous relationships and traditional marriage are outdated, serve no purpose, etc. I'm looking for some sources/ammo to help argue this.
Her arguments:
>Marriage is on the decline/divorce up because people are realizing its not a good system
>Marriage/monogamy are risky because you put all your eggs in 1 basket. Better to have more partners so that even if 1 leaves, you aren't alone
>Marriage may matter for children, but I don't want those
>The last 10 men left me, I can't trust anyone
My arguments:
>Marriage is the bedrock of civilization and the wellspring of all social stability
>People's ability to pairbond declines the more partners they have. Marry young and for life.
>Marriage forces people to grow and learn to live with each other rather than always kicking the can on growing up by finding more partners
>The point of sex should be to bond with someone you are building your life around, not as just another recreational acitvity
Her arguments are from her personal experiences and peer culture. Mine are from a larger scale understanding of civilization, culture, and biology. So of course mine aren't going to appeal to her, and we all know she's wrong and an idiot. So I'm looking for arguments that can get to her, especially on an emotional level. And more importantly, get to the other friends of ours that have seen this argument (because of course, I won't change HER mind, she's a shitlib.)
(And yes I am autistic.)
>>135208111
The alternatives are far worse.
People who are married live longer, happier lives.
Both my uncles are unmarried. They're the saddest pieces of shit I've ever met. They're tired, old, depressed, obese, and just don't care much about anything.
The main reason they got married in the past were alliances between families, money and protection.
The first is no longer a thing in modern society and the state provides the other two. Women get everything they need without having to get into a contract with any man since the state forces all men to provide for all women with zero benefits. She's right in a way and there's no changing it unless some major movement forms counter to everything.
>>135208668
Financial stuff is certainly a issue, but not actually what we were arguing about. We were more focused on the mental, romantic, and even spiritual side of things.
>>135208111
Marriage is the intertwining of two souls, two individuals become one and act as one. Once joined, they create new life, and live for one another alone. It is the most meaningful relationship one can have with another human being.
But of course, this sad and pitiful women you encountered will never realize this, nor will she ever be able to attain this kind of relationship.
In my eyes, she is quite literally worthless, just an entity, a piece of meat.
>Marriage is on the decline/divorce up because people are realizing its not a good system
oh yeah, the good ol' statistics that came out of the ass
my recomendation, don't waste your time with degenerated people.