Pros:
-Get to skip pregnancy and your wife getting fat
-Save on 3-4 years of paying for your kid if you adopt past toddler-age
-Get to know ahead of time that the kid isn't a downy
-Give an otherwise doomed white child a fighting chance at a future
Cons:
-Raising another man's sperm
-???
Let's assume for this discussion that the child in question is a white Eastern European
>>134801556
The only good adoption is of white babies by whites who cannot conceive. Period. End of story
>>134801741
What is yoyr reason for wanting to adopt?
>>134801556
>save money
This is not correct
>>134801809
Wife hates the idea of pregnancy, that's the big one. The other factor's we are considering are basically what's listed in the "pros" section.
>>134801556
Adoption is great, only if the couple can legitimately not conceive for medical reasons. That doesn't apply to homosexuals though. They shouldn't be able to adopt.
>>134802100
Replace your wife.
Don't you have the wish to promote your own genes? I do.
>>134802015
Explain?
>>134801556
It's literally cuckoldry.
>>134801556
No. However it is a charitable service and shouldn't be looked down on. I think you're fool if you adopt a kid over the age of 2 and don't expect the kid to have major issues down the line.
>>134801556
>not passing your genes
>redpilled
Pick one
>>134801556
>>134802395 is the correct answer. "I don't feel like getting pregnant" is a horrible excuse. >>134802601 is also right though
>my wife's son
>my neighbor's son
are they any different
It's only redpilled if you raise a child of the same ethnicity as you and your wife, that way at least the kid is related to you by the blood of your own people.
>>134801556
>white kid
>white parents
>adopted at birth
>mom is an ovarian cancer survivor
>(infertile)
>escaped dirt poor rural texas family
>dad worked his balls off from basic sales rep to exec-level mgmt
>moved us twice so I could go to better schools
>attained higher education than anyone in my biological family
>closer to my family than anyone else I know
I owe my parents my life.
That said, I do think adoption is best for infertile couples. Men have a duty to pass their Y on, generally speaking -- every man before him did.
>>134801741
Basically this. Why someone would do anything different is beyond my reasoning. Honestly more people probably would adopt if they let you as a single person as well.
>>134802532
Costs money to adopt I imagine is anons logic behind it
Me and my wife will probably adopt. We've been trying for 5 yrs to get her preg. No luck. Got checked and they say we are fine. Just aint happening. If were 35 and nothing then we will. Obvi i want a white kid. But i look super mexican. So if i dont get a kid thats a little dark it will look like i am raising some "chads" kid. Not sure what to do.
>>134801556
Yes more people should adopt in that kind of scenario. However I wouldn't do it. I don't think I would be a good father to someone else's kid