Fathers

Single mother raised me, so I have the dubious luck to only have to purge the consequences of my mother's degeneracies from me.
Bridges burned, and the healing had begone by true friends.

>>131765731

You need to edit your posts next time Slanty germanian

My father is a redpilled baby boomer who sees the world for what it is, but he genuinely does not think that he did me any wrong. He is very redpilled on women and is basically a MGTOW.

>>131765731
Mom left my dad after they raised me. Now I'm essentially a bastard that has nothing to do with his father, who can't bear to look me in the eyes anymore it seems. Even in adulthood, man it fucks shit up.

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>>131766616
I'll admit the two responsibles in there are bad, but I feel like it's easily coherent if you're not retarded.

Single mother. She was Polish immigrant, and knew how to work hard. She died February this year, but I think her job was already finished. She was Conservative enough and taught me how to be a good man.

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really trying my best to deal with that handicap

i will survive

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>>131765731
I want to hurt him. Almost everything is his fault. He must pay and suffer.

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>>131765731
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>>131767114

I was in a very poor family.

I'm in the top 1 percent of wealth and graduated valedictorian so I did ok I guess

I also voted for hilldawg ;)

Now drumpfys, stop blaming your problems on others

My parents are still happily married. It's quite impressive actually, considering the amount of fighting and arguing they do. But that's probably essential.
Funny thing is both their parents are divorced. I wonder if they stay together to prove them wrong.

If you're jealous, you should be.

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>>131767420
nice try, fag

>>131767494
>flag
Yeah, no

>>131767114
good to hear.
sorry for your loss.

>>131767505

>mfw despite what I said obviously being bait it's all 100 percent true and I look down on polbabies for blaming their failures on others, usually their parents or immigrants

>>131767557
I can almost taste the jealousy, the years of resentment

>>131765731
mom (spain and french descent) dad (italian)

well my dad made my mom cry so much my yougner brother was born with some kind of autism or mental retardation? not sure what is it but im 22 now i dont speak to my father now im looking for professional practices in a spain embassy here in Monterrey and well life looks good, you dont NEED your father but a good stable marriage would have been good also.

dont be resentful and forgive /pol/, because hate and revenge really can drive you forward but not in the right direction

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>>131767707
nice try, fag

>>131767707
> looking down on others for being in pain and misunderstooding it's origin

I am sorry for you, my psychopath friend, for your lack of empathy and understanding.

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>>131767839
well it's the only thing you'll ever taste.

I was lucky to have been raised by a single father. My mother hasn't really ever been a huge part of my life. My grandmother was more of a mom t9 me. My dad taught me how to be a man. Step mom for the last 10 years has been pretty cool too.

>>131765731
Raised by a single mother. She remarried when I was 12 so most of my formative years had passed. She was great and put me in things like sports and Scouts so I still got to experience some masculine things. But the lack of a steady masculine role model has led me to work extra hard to make up for these deficiencies. Hunting, weight lifting, etc. Maybe over compensating, but whatever.

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>>131767989
ummm no sweetie.

If you haven't done great in life but accept responsibility that's fine.

If you haven't done great and go "muh niggers muh immigrants muh gays muh jews etc" that's just embarrasing

>>131765731
Father died early in my life. Mother raised me in an incredibly sheltered environment as a result.

I blame my mother more than the absence of my father. It would have been good to have him, but my mother's way of raising me I feel did a lot more harm. When you get constantly told everything and everyone is dangerous for years on end, you end up not wanting to do anything.

I understand how my mother must have felt, losing her husband at a young age. However, I find it hard to forgive how she pretty much forced ignorance into her way of raising children. Living in a vaccum makes one bored and weak.

>>131767989
This is 4chan. I think you're looking for Reddit. You probably hate "niggers", say homosexuals should be gassed, dehumanize Syrian refugees, but when someone makes fun of your mommy and daddy it's "boo hoo boo hoo where is the empathy :(

>>131768265
Taking responsibility is hard and have to be thought by similarly responsible adults, who learned by other adults and so on. Miss out one step, and you'll likely to have generations of miserable people, unable to face the sad realities of their lives.

>>131768356
have you seen dr peterson videos? he has become my father figure unironically

>>131768367
In general, I've pity mankind, for only our species seem to be afflicted by the remorse of the past and the fear of the future, and try to be a better person for those who care about me, and in turn, I care about.

Making assumptions on such small knowledge is not exactly the sign of wisdom on your part, friend.

Here's a video for you, enjoy:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1E_UtG0nDq4

>>131768356
It's good that you at least have the self-awareness to notice these deficiencies and fix them in yourself. Good luck, anon.

>>131765731
>How many of you were raised by single mothers, and how responsible do you hold your father's unwillingness to take responsibility for your current state of degeneracy?
Parents divorced when I was six. Went back and forth between both throughout my life. I don't particularly hold my father accountable for anything specific other than simply not being there enough (however I understand the sacrifices he made). Unfortunately he chose, and still chooses, to do his own shit. I moved on waiting for anything a very long time ago.

I still hear him, from when I was younger, echo in my mind for advice. Still love my family.

>>131768367
>still thinks /pol/ is one person
Half of us talk about kikes and niggers as a smokescreen to keep out normies

>>131765731

>Father is a commie sympathizer who loves trudope and atheism
>Votes liberal typically but there's no real conservatism in Canada
>Surprisingly doesn't like fags but pity them because of the way they are
>Karl Marx and Castro fan boy but will not acknowledge the millions of lives lost due to it
>Very hardworking, rarely complains
>Tolerates Islam but is very redpilled on how it works (through family)and constantly cusses out on Islam and roasts Mohammed and muzzies in public sometimes (he gets away with remarks because he's laughing and they usually don't speak much English)
>He was happy and relieved when I left it and we'd bant together about it, but also defends some muslims sometimes (to my disapproval)
>Very quiet, keeps to himself, stays in solitude typically

It seems like he's only in for the commie ideal that doesn't account for human nature. He thinks it's a perfect system disregarding that bit, but obviously it's very flawed with property ownership and etc. If he knew I was using 4chan or support Trump/right winged conservatism he'd probably try and call me out for it. Maybe he'd be really disappointed. Who knows. I think my dad is just autistic.

>>131765731
My parents divorced when I was 2 and my sleezy mother tried to get custody of all 4 of us for the gibmedats(she's white btw) so somehow Oklahoma courts actually gave my father custody of us all and that poor man raised us all on his own working as a mechanic building transmissions for off road vehicles

Parents divorced because my mom has paranoid personality disorder
As you'd expect, she got custody so I'd only see my father every other weekend while living on welfare and poverty with my mother
Initially I was raised to hate him, but once I got older I realized that it was mostly her fault they were divorced
Now working as an aerospace engineer, I have a fiancee who I have make completely sure will stay with me through it all and is actually mentally stable

>>131765731

I thank my lord Kek every day that my parents are still married so that I am not a disaster case manchild/womanchild like every other person on 4chan.

>>131765731
It's had an impact. The facts are indisputable really. It's set me ten years back I think, compared to the
more preferable circumstances of others.

>>131769836
Don't waste it, bonganon.
Make your way in the world.

>>131770005
I have only recently started squatting, lifting and getting red-pilled politically. If I'd have done this earlier, I would be a lot more of a man now in terms of character and mindset. My mother took the option of giving up on the marriage and I never saw my dad after the age of eight.
The family unit was damaged, and she was very overbearing and my masculinity was compromised/outlawed.
I despise the fact that common sense seems to be outlawed in my country. Saying the wrong things is unlikely to get you in legal trouble, especially if you are eloquent and well-meaning, up until the point that they could have an effect. If you say something about Muslims online that becomes popular then you could have the police at your door. Our country is going to die, Europe is probably going to die too.

>>131770005
That's how I feel. On the plus side, the pain can be fuel to propel you to great heights.

>>131765731
>how responsible do you hold your father's unwillingness to take responsibility for your current state of degeneracy?

That right blame the father not the mother. What a fucking cunt you are OP

>>131765731
Raised by my single mom & maternal grandparents. Not degeneracies, but her artistic temperament was pretty wild. She was a good mother otherwise.

Meh re my dad. He raced cars & lived all over the world. Momma didn't want to do that. No big deal. We never had a cross word. But he claimed to be an atheist so I don't pray for his soul.

>>131765731
Its not that my father didn't want to he wasn't given the chance.

When i turned 13 years old I spend all my money on a new PC. My mothers criminal boyfriend didn't want my mom to have access to her email for reasons so he basically made her confiscate my computer. That was the straw that made me move to my fathers house.

He really showed to be a great parent. made me breakfast everyday, I actually did my homework for once and started going to sleep well and not be a social spastic. Then my mother kind of persuaded me to move back to her and her abusive boyfriend by saying I could have MY computer back. I was actually pretty furious about it, but I said yes because it was years of savings and I feared what that psycho she was dating could do to my 3 sisters.

Its often not because the men don't want to take responsibility, its often just that our society is structured in such a way that women get custody, regardless wether they are fit to be parents.

>>131769612
dude shes a chick. 50/50 shot shes going to randomly up and leave you for some other dick

which is better then what most women do and just fuck him behind your back

>>131770438
I'm ranting but this feels like the place, because it is by undermining the family unit that they have been so successful in this.
Being against multiculturalism is to be considered hateful i this country. I used to (incorrectly I feel) be a pacifist, I am one of the nicest people anyone could meet, perfectly open-minded, but I am considered a thought-criminal or a hateful extremist. It's ridiculous. Your career can be ruined, your children taken from you and you can be ostracised. For not recognising the strong arguments for an ethnically homogeneous society.

>>131767249
Good goy.

Don't forget to take student loans for gender studies.

Radical feminism demonizes men and has destroyed the human family.

Tell a feminist thanks.

>>131770941
We we're both virgins when we started dating, and she knows I am successful and attractive enough to easily date someone else if she were to cheat. She shares all of my far right views and wants to have a big family, after four years of dating I am not too worried about our future.

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>>131771101
But first I'm gonna hurt you, brother.

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>>131770680
That's right, blame the mother who worked a full time job to support us both and not the man who wanted to abort me and then barely had any presence in my life despite being on perfectly good terms with the mother.
It's the father's responsibility to mold his son into a man.
Unless the mother is a total psycho who exploited the courts to keep him away (which is surely a prevalent thing, don't get me wrong), absolving the father of his moral duty is the most beta fagacious shit imaginable.

>>131765731
My dad wasn't home that much and I had a lot of fights with him during my crucial years (13-16yo).

Don't know if this had any effect on me.

>>131771604
most likely did
if you suffer any kind of mental issues, that would likely be a root cause

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A reminder that neglect can be as damaging as direct abuse.
You're not a faggot.
You're in pain.
And you ultimately have the power to direct your life to be what you want it to be.
Understand why you're not achieving what you know you could be.
Forgive yourself for living so chaotically.
Now get to work on becoming who you truly are.

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>>131765731
I had two good parents. First and only marriage for both, a smart stay at home mother, a hard working dominant father, five children total.

Checking in to flaunt my good-parent-privilege.

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>>131772156
I'm happy for you, anon-kun.
Don't let them down.

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>>131772156
congratulations

I got to see him every second weekend.
He paid the legislated payments. Mum sheltered me too much.
Life's shit but I'll do what I can.

Not gonna make his mistake and make a family however.

>>131765731
Raised primarily by my father because my mother hurt her back and fell for the pilljew. Stand up guy, crushed lots a single mom puss and played drums. Never drank, wasn't on drugs, worked as a firefighter. Never really had a stable relationship with a woman as I don't trust them and grew up thinking that women blame all their shit on other people. Thanks mah!

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>>131765731
I've never met my real father, im 24

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>>131765731
You know who was also raised by a single mother?

This beady lil' nigga.

>>131771691
>any kind of mental issues

Social anxiety, especially around women
Lack of discipline, underachiever

But do those really count as mental issues? They're more on the surface.

>>131778079
absolutely they do.
and those that you list are pretty typical of neglect