Dealing with "reformed" gay male sluts

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A lot has been said in various posts over the years about women who claim to be reformed sluts. But what about gay men who claim to be "reformed sluts" who engaged in degeneracy?

I'm a conservative gay man (late 20s), not a prude or anything but I don't do drugs or whore around. I recently started dating a guy in his 40s. He owns his own landscaping company and is a bit of a flaky new age guy but fiscal conservative and anti-tranny.

Anyhow, we've been dating a while but about a year ago, he sat me down and made something of a "confession" to me. When he was young (in his early 20s), he was a fetish model for a major gay porn company in the late 90s, to "pay for his college tuition",

Now, he stated point blank he never fucked on camera: just nude beefcake pics. BUT he talked heavily about how the studio he worked for pressured him to do steroids, due to them "having a standard for how guys should look" along with pressuring him to grow a mustache. He also talked about doing drugs (cocaine) with his fellow models and doing a lot of partying and casual sex hook-ups. He ultimately said he gave up the porn life, when his family found out about the steroids he was using and pressured him to stop taking them. Which led to him quitting work as a fetish model, since the studio pushed roids hard on their models.

I did the whole "I'm OK with this" thing and we're still together, but it's still in the back of my mind that he might be lying. I eventually got him to give me he porn name he used and googled him; he was apparently telling the truth that he never fucked on camera. More to the point, I found myself facing another issue of sorts: my boyfriend looked way better in his slut days with the mustache, short hair, and muscular body. My boyfriend currently has the "I've landed a man and now I can let myself go" look: full head of hair, clean shaven, and dad belly.

Any advice? Should I cut my losses for being a beta backup guy for a former man slut? Or stick with him?