How do I get a wife?

>>127616418
just be yourself

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>>127616565
i do
i need to learn to be myself in such a way that it is palatable to other humans

>convert to Mormonism
>go to YSA ward
>meet blonde, white qts
>marry one

Easy as that.

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>study hard my whole life
>get a good education
>lifting, /fit/ and /fa/
>getting 3x average monthly salary
>working at least 1.5x workload
>try courting a girl from my work
>would rather stay at home and watch anime cartoons and play with her cat instead of dating and having primal sex

Why are many of the """smart""" girls autistic? I mean shes 27 and should be settling down. She doesnt party, just watches weebshit anime.

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>>127616418
Join a club or society where you won't find degenerate women. Places like a library , chess club or sking or cycling clubs and teams could be fun and a way to meet people. Important thing is to not spend your time at home fapping to anime

>>127616565
It's funny how true and yet unhelpful to most people this advice is

>>127617573
He wants to find women, not be a kissless permavirgin.

>>127616418
I feel u man. Im same situation im thinkin church groups

>>127617022
Try not sperging out and going full 14/88 gas the kikes all of the time. Hide your power level.

>>127617772
This is where you will find virgin women who are outcasts of society because they don't subdue to fucking niggers, bullshit degrees and working at Starbucks. i once had a girl just strike a conversation with me at a library while i was reading a book. But i'm just not meant for relationships so i friend zoned her

These kind of posts are /pol/'s reality check. They make me ashamed to spend so much time here

>>127617573
1. have done
2. am trying to be social
3. do find good girls once in a while
4. dont know what to do after i determine a like one

>>127618113
>in a church group
>girls are literally just virgins, thats all the difference between them and the average feminist

>>127616418
Don't be yourself.

Be a better version of yourself.

>>127616418
Marry a chink like I did
>High IQ
>traditional spirit

I went to a concert with my wife. I saw multitudes of young single girls with each other. No males. WTF, is wrong with this generation of men. I could have even picked up a few, and I'm old. I know you guys were home posting in 4Chan. I like it too, but Fuck go outside.

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>>127618128
i hide my power level

im a quiet person naturally so i dont really express myself very well

>>127618322
what, asking for advice on how to improve one's marital value to attract a virgin qt 3.14?

kys

>>127618775
Last thing you need is confidence. Just adapt " I don't give a fuck" Mentality . And approach women you like in these places. Strike a conversation and speaking with someone for an hour will pass by quickly . Soon you will be exchanging numbers to hang another time.

>>127618966
yeah how please help
>>127619185
i said i wanted a girl, not a sex doll-tier human
>>127619332
i do go outside a lot and try to meet people
>concert
i'm sorry but i want to marry a virgin qt, that is white, although ill try it

>>127616418
Sexuality is base and flawed, look into engineering and raising your own child.

>>127619357
is there a copy-pasta or a video or something that could help me do this correctly? i really feel like a jackass when i do this

>>127619340
Yeah, it's not wrong to ask that, I used to ask myself those questions too. But it means you're either a kid or a wizard

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>>127616418

You need to go outside specifically with the goal of meeting a woman. And you have to do it consistently. EVERY DAY. If you stay inside, you will not find a good one. If you live in or near a city where people walk around, go there and try talking up some girls.

Another option is use something like match.com, where people are looking for marriage (as opposed to Tinder). The problem is you will have much poorer choices since women online are much pickier than in real life and you will feel worse about how you met her for the rest of your life.

>>127620018
sorry, am not smart enough to be engineer

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>>127617573
>women
>not degenerate

>>127618202
Why would you want to teach a virgin how to have sex. They're terrible at it. And it's painful.

>>127620052

There are a ton of videos out there for this. RSD makes some really nice products if you can find the torrents for them. You don't need to though. There is literally material everywhere for you to watch.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q-Sehh-yD-c

Just look around for similar daygame stuff. Or nightgame if it's more your style. It's really tough to do daygame out in the country though. You need to be in an urban area. If you can move, do it.

You should go out as much as possible with your friends. I don't see anything wrong with meeting people out at a bar. It sounds really simple but just being genuinely nice and friendly goes a long way. Even if a guy approaches me and he's not the hottest if he's friendly and nice I would give him a chance. Also, the fact that he takes the initiative to approach me is also attractive.

>>127616418
If you stop browsing this website that will be a start. Stop playing video games. Look for a real job. Then annon you will be alpha enough to stop asking this website for advice on getting a wife and hopefully find a good lover

>>127620052
http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/how-ask-girl-out-and-get-yes-almost-every-time.html

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pLP_KRfCITk

Just look at some articles and videos on youtube. You will learn some things.

But confidence is the most important thing. Notice how niggers are confident AF and hookup with any low tier white women.

>>127620389
Some women aren't degenerate. But they are rare. You just need to look in the right places.

>>127621509

Don't listen to the guy in this video. He doesn't know what he's talking about. There is a bit a truth to it, but listening to him will teach you to prioritize things that are less important. I've seen him before. He is just a youtube guy who talks about fashion. He does not know about how to really pick up women when you are unable to do so. I've started from nothing and talked to a few thousand girls cold. If I started by listening to this guy, my success would be less and I probably would have given up.

>>127617562

Sounds like you need to fuck her so hard her brain un-scrambles itself.

Or maybe you could do something truly retarded and research the cliche anime manly men and try emulating that. Weeb's aren't my thing.

>>127620828

Most wife material women are virgins.

>>127616565

This doesn't work well when you're Right Wing / fashy and living in a liberal state.

>>127616418
>he inherently wants weakness
K

>>127623002
I agree with you on this! It's difficult living in an extremely liberal city. However, I think there are more of us out there than we think.

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>>127616418
Black Pill yourself, all the good white wemenz are taken by me.

>>127621997
I anxiously wait for the day that /pol/ finally takes the red pill about women and stops peddling this shit about finding "that one unicorn woman who's not like all the other women". That "non-degenerate" woman is still a woman and can become degenerate at the push of a button. And some day some Chad will push those buttons.

"You just have to find the right one" is female-tier advice on the same level as "just be yourself".

>>127617562
>Not getting a kitten and telling her you'd like it to socialize with older cats so you can take it to play with her cat while the two of you watch chinese car toons together
I thought you snow niggers were smarter than this

>>127616418
I'm in the same boat as you man. The girl I like has a bf. we always flirt and it drives me crazy. Maybe I'm just getting the wrong signals?

she's a right wing goddess as well which makes it even worse.

I've signed back up to okcupid hoping I meet someone else.

>>127619185
You are such a loser... Oh my God what is wrong with you fucking /pol/ faggots?

>"MUH IQ"
>"MUH TRADITIONZ"
>"MUH ASIAN WAIFU"

The only way for you to find a woman who will have kids with you, and isn't completely unfuckable, is to either A. Find a woman who realizes that she needs to settle with a good man before it's too late, which isn't very probable. or B. Take an attractive cum dumpster and emotionally abuse her into staying with you.

It sounds really fucked up, but most women I know really enjoy those partially abusive guys. Whether it was emotional or physical, women simply have a biological need to be the 'lesser'. If you can simply degrade her self esteem to the point where she won't fuck around anymore - and you're the light of her life.. She will remain completely faithful to you unless her self esteem ever surpasses that threshold. This is the final red pill to women. This is why women always want who they can't have.

You just gotta grow up bro. Stop doing shit for other people's reasons. You know how there's all that productive shit that you "want to" / "know you should" do but that you never actually do? That's because those things are really someone else's goals that you resent pursuing in the same way that you resent pursuing your parents' instructions. You'll have truly grown up once you start doing things FOR YOU, and then that productivity that you can squeeze out of yourswlf will flow easily.

My last love was an Australian girl, but we had to part due to me leaving the country. Anon don't just settle for less, true Alpha's take quality.

>>127616418
Find an attractive woman hit her head with a stick take her to your home. this always works for me

Do you make a lot of money? Power and influence are the most important biological indicators for women when seeking an ideal mate. This is why they like Chad, because he is typically popular within their social circle

>>127620108
okay, talk up some females

learn how to relate to female then use tactics on ones i like?

>>127620828
because i can make them do as i please

>>127616418
Mail order Ukrainian brides...smoking hot. Google it. Them and the Russian girls are outrageously beautiful.

>>127621120
thanks femanon

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>>127617562
Guess she doesn't like you so much. Nothing personal. Forget her or get her liquored up and see what happens.

>>127623002
you guessed the kind of place i live, anon

>>127616418
OR join support groups like the guy in Fight Club

>>127624757
>roach

>>127624193
>tfw

it drives me crazy that there might be someone better than me

which is why im asking how to do even better

>>127621509
thanks anon

i can be more ballsy than the average nigger, its the inner feeling of cringe and the fear of outwardly being cringe

>>127616418
How old are you and are you in Boston?

>>127624262
Maybe degrading women into having low self esteem isn't even a dominance / submission / manipulation thing, maybe it's just the M>F version of what we're doing here when we mockingly call each other out on our own delusions and failings and insecurities - promoting self-awareness and thereby self-improvement. I feel like if I was a woman I'd rather be with someone who was busting my balls into being a better version of myself than some weak beta who "accepts me for who I am" because they're too spineless to call me out on my bullshit.

"Shit tests" from women are tests to see if you'll call them out on their bullshit, not because they want to be dominated but because they want someone who isn't afraid to call them out and thereby help them grow.

>>127623839
Your handle should be "MISTA STEAL YO GURL"

So yo bee's a whitey...

>>127621499
This is the reasoning of an adolescent

>>127627402
Correct.

>>127627402
This.
Women want a man to make them better. They're too weak to do it on their own.

>>127623967
Then what is your solution to the problem?

>>127627915
They need to know you're strong enough and smart enough to take care of them while they're too pregnant to work and to be good for the kids

>>127616418

Honestly OP, you shouldnt get martied.

Im on my second marriage and marriage generally sucks. There is NO benefit at all to either party. Even the "tax" benefit dissapears once you make over a certain amount.

>>127616418
I would suggest starting out with simply being more social, unfortunately the only reliable way is to put in the work and meet people. You'll have to filter through a lot of human garbage in the process. My guess is you haven't done shit about it yet. Just start taking some kind of action above everything else, then you can start worrying out the next step.
For extra difficulty here's my list, in case anyone actually managed to pull it off I'd be curious to hear about the action steps which led to the fortunate circumstances.
> above average iq, preferably somewhere within 110-130 range
> 7/10 physical attractiveness
> good values, virgin
None of these are negotiable, I'm in my 20s and in no rush to settle for anything less. I've also given up on stupid ideas like finding a redpilled chick and this is what it boils down to. But apart from simply trying to meet shy girls in libraries and maybe some shit like joining mensa I'm clueless.

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>>127616418
Why would you wish a child into this bullshit world.

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Just get them while they are young.
That will also only work if you are attractive.
Have a nice life 21th century white man ;-)

>>127627402
In my opinion it's actually weak men I've dated who try this tactic or there's something wrong with them. Any female of any worth wouldn't be into this. Don't get me wrong, I don't want a "yes-man" either.

Pick up butches

>>127626894
I've never even seen her bf. I don't wanna look at her Facebook. I keep fit & earn a decent salary. every girl where there's chemistry always has a bf, it fucking sucks.

>>127628659
>Why would you wish a child into this bullshit world.
Damn Russia sure knows how to make everything depressing. Struggling with this very issue myself. Assuming I somehow find a great girl, why the hell would I really want to bring kids into this absolute shithole of a world, knowing as much as I know.
>inb4 people had kids during tough times in the past
>inb4 muh genes

>>127628889
It's shit how most of my relationships were in my late teens / early twenties. meeting girls as you get older gets harder and harder.

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Lol pick up bitches at the grocery store, dog park, library. Don't go to bars and expect quality pussy. You have to find the ones with brains.

Although my wife was an art history major, I met her in the engineering building at my school with her azn friends.

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>>127629388
t. Poorfag
Lol

>>127616565
I am. And that's my problem. I talk about hitler and shit on the first date because I can't stand awkward silences.

>>127629505
I earn a great salary Pedro, or was that post not meant for me?

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>>127616565
>just be yourself

>>127616418
Lean how to dance. Like salsa or tango

>>127624193
>I'm in the same boat as you man. The girl I like has a bf. we always flirt and it drives me crazy.
CUT IT OUT
Stop doing this to yourself man, you already know it's not healthy or productive in any way. Unless she puts in the work and introduces you to attractive like-minded friends you have no business being anywhere near her.

Be yourself, but make sure your someone worth being in the first place.

>>127616418

Be yourself.

Chill out on the controversial topics in the beginning.

Throw yourself out into the dating pool, whether it be going out to places where you'll realistically meet women or finding them online.

Don't stop trying if you get curved by many women.

Find a way to put yourself in a position where the women will come to you. You might have the greatest success when you know they're interested.

>>127629814
I agree. But when she's inviting me out for lunch, rubbing up against me and flirting all the time, it just drives me mad. I know this sounds sad but I'm just waiting for the right time to make a move.

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>>127625811

This
Russia + USA allaince

Trump's wife is a mail order bride. Literally, she immigrated legally.

>>127627402
May sound good but this is bullshit. Women don't want someone to help them improve themselves, but their lives. Women are only capable of fish love.

>>127630003
>Be yourself, but make sure your someone worth being in the first place.
This ain't worth shit, I know plenty of worthy nice guys who will most likely end up with subpar partners because they don't play the field.

>>127630226
If she's thinking about jumping ship you shouldn't want her anyway. There's no scenario where this ends up well for you.

>>127624193
>>127630226
>she's inviting me out for lunch
>rubbing up against me
>flirting all the time
She doesn't sound like a "right wing goddess". That implies that she has conservative morals. She sounds more like a degenerate whore that treats you like a side-toy because she can because it probably builds her confidence or gets her going.
No doubt she'll do the same to another guy if you two are ever together, don't put it past her. And if the guy isn't as beta as you, he might just fuck her too.

Don't be someone's side bitch or second choice, m8.

>>127616418
Protip: women love cute small/medium size dogs. I highly recommend a King Charles Spaniel. It's worked wonders for me and my dog is pretty awesome too.

>>127616418
Here is the ultimate redpill on women:

Ever wonder why women date black men and muslims despite the fact that they are more "misogynist?" Ever wonder why a book like 50 Shades of Grey is popular? Its because women want a strong man to put them in their place. Its a biological fact. If you let a woman boss you around and tell you what to do she will never love you. You need to put a woman in here place and be tough without being a total dick. Trust me, no matter what she says, she will love and respect you if you are the boss in the relationship. If you let her boss you around she will leave you for a nigger or someone else who will put her in her place.

>>127616418
>make money
>make more money
>pay surrogates
>get babies
>get vasectomy
>fuck bitches
>die happy

>>127616565
>be yourself

Stupidist advice ever when you know nothing about the person youre giving advice to. What if OP is a serial killer?

>>127630672
>There's no scenario where this ends up well for you.
It's always the same fuckin way man. My last gf was an intern from America working at my company, she was here for 3 months and I fell in love with her. After she went home I deleted her from Facebook because the long distance thing could never work..

>>127630938
>Protip: women love cute small/medium size dogs. I highly recommend a King Charles Spaniel. It's worked wonders for me and my dog is pretty awesome too.
No, women like a man who looks dominant.
You look like a bitch with a small dog desu, I don't know how you scored any women like that unless you're just talking out your ass.

>>127623002
Not true. I shit on niggers and spics all the time and I've dated plenty of girls.

>>127616418
http://revolutionarylifestyledesign.com/avoid-toxic-women-50-red-flags/

You're probably not as attractive as you think you are

>>127630755
She has right wing views but yeah not the ideal christian conservative woman we all want here, right? I do agree with your points now, just talking about this stuff makes it seem pointless and a complete waste of time. Thanks man

also I think relationship generals on /pol/ should be a thing

>>127631129
You have to look dominant, not the dog.

Otherwise it's looks overcompensating.

>>127629634
Autism. Women don't want to hear about the order of battle at kursk and shit. Just talk about history as a hobby and mention some factoids which she'll find interesting. There is a time and place for everything.

>>127631012
>TLDR
The reason why American women date niggers and European women date Muslims is because White men are feminist pussies and they just want a man to put them in their place.

>>127631058
>the long distance thing could never work..
Wrong.

I met my wife online, and had to deal with bullshit timezone differences, infrequent visits, and visa paperwork before I could get her naturalized as a citizen from Poland.

It only doesn't work when you aren't willing to put in the work. (That is assuming she was willing).

>>127631321
Yeah man, don't let yourself slip into a zone where you're comfortable with settling for something less-than-ideal because you might not have the confidence or stamina to keep trying.

>>127616418
I wouldn't worry too much about the woman. If you want kids, go and adopt a couple.. or investigate surrogacy or something. Concentrate on the problem at hand: kids. Don't attach yourself to a big giant boat anchor.

>>127631129
>You look like a bitch with a small dog desu
Idiot, literally got 3 different chicks petting my small-medium sizzed doggo, on top of half a dozen kids during a 30 min walk in the park.

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>>127616418

>>127631611
True.
If you're confident enough you can pull off many things, but in general smaller dogs do have a less-than-masculine air to them. I would consider them a detriment rather than an aid.

>>127631690
then why are most alpha redpilled white men incels? shouldn't they be in a healthy relationship?

>>127630344
Implying nice guys are worth being?
Women don't want to be put on a pedestal, they're more fucked up than we'll ever be.

I'd say just go out more - don't look for a wife, that's desperation and women smell that shit.

How do I find virgins though? I feel like I can pretty much get any qt I want, but they all turn out to be trash

>>127631236
My gf is only 1 out of those 49 and that's because she is such a SJW that she actually teaches one of those white privilege classes at a major university. I sometimes wonder if she is doing it ironically. I joke about niggers unironically sometimes and she laughs.

>>127616418

Become a man, become a walking symbol to a woman. Woman are cliche and instinctively depend on the caste system.

By this definition, AWALT, they want the alpha male. They want a man have money and status quo of having a good job that can take care of them.

Women nasty creatures, and the only way to get into their territory is by being dominant and stay true to your words. Don't bullshit your way into a relationship.

If you have a shitty job, don't own a home, have no car, don't have future prospects (besides starting a family), don't have financial security and can't provide a decent amount of finances for their expenditures at a mall or pedishop, starbucks...

then you're shit out of luck. The 4th wave feminism movement is seriously fucking up mating prospects for A LOT of men. Not just you, you silly beta cuck.

But here is one step you SHOULD take... visit mgtow.com, read some stories get redpilled and avoid women.

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Here's a nice juicy red pill to add a bit of quality to the thread

>>127632274
lol

>>127616565

Haha this is the worst bullshit advice I've ever heard.

NO op, do NOT be yourself. Be better than the man you want to be. That is the attitude you have to frame yourself if you want to be with women.

Don't try to do it. There is no trying. There is only do or don't. Be the man you want to be. Make yourself so interesting women want to be a part of your life. Do NOT make women the interesting part of your life. Women want to be part of an interesting man's life. No woman or girl wants to be the center of any guy's world, even the ones who say they do. Women don't know what they want, so don't bother communicating - you really have to be psuedo-psychic, the guy who "just gets it". Do not take any dating advice from women either, ESPECIALLY online.

i get the feeling that most people here don't actually go outside or even bother forming actual relationships or bonds

like, you just read whatever people post here and buy it, it's weird

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>>127617562
>ywn stay all day at home to watch wholesome chinese cartoons with your introverted oneitis and her cat

why even live?

>wanting a pointless time\money sink
>retarded drama 24/7
just get a fuckbuddy

>>127616418
Ask one to be your wife

>>127631795
>adoption
>raising another mans child
I don't understand why anyone would do this. I would hardly even be able to stand if my kids have too much of different hair and eye color than me

>>127632274
Yeah who wants to marry a women who isn't a virgin, which seems like 100% of them as far as I've seen. We all can do all the self improvement possible, but at the end of the day the pool of possible wuality wife material is just too small a lot of the time

>>127632205
Didn't mean nice as in necessarily supplicating, just not extremely social. Learning social skills would so more for them than any immediate amount of self improvement.
Yeah I suggested OP meet more people in general, as I'm doing myself. Unfortunately it's not much of a strategy and a great time sink.

>>127632717
>just get a fuckbuddy
Degenerate as fuck. Let me guess, you live in Tel Aviv?

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>>127616565
> meaning sculpt the optimal version of yourself, get outside advise from someone high status you trust

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At least you aren't genetically fucked like me. 95% of guys complain about their penis being too small, I have the opposite problem and it stopped being humorous like 10 years ago when I was 17. Sex is literally too painful for almost every girl I've been with because of it, sex life goes to shit, then they leave me. Be lucky your problem can actually be changed by adjusting strategies and finding new people.

>>127633209
I call bullshit. Post pics with a soda can or a mouse for comparison.

>>127616418
kidnap and rape. works every time.

>>127633209
Too wide, too long, or do you just have spikes growing out of your dick?
Let us know the size, shitlord.

>>127616418
the majority of women in the US are either sluts or leech welfare moms, so thats 2/3rds of the women you have to disqualify

the majority of men are either douchebags who chase after sluts or are cucks who have given up and become slaves to feminism, so thats 2/3rds of men who you ignore

look for that 1/3 of women who are sane, I'm being optimistic here, out of those 1/3 you are going to find a lot of bitches you have to take a stand against, but its your choice, take the hard road or be a douche/cuck

>>127633518
I'm not here to be /soc/, I'm just trying to help OP see that his problems aren't permanent like mine.

>>127633606
Girth is the problem. Circumference of just a little over 6.6 inches. I've literally come across a girl that I could not fit in to.

>>127632643
So what makes you the expert on women? Just curious.

>>127633168
nope senpai , i live in a kibutz and im engaged .
half the women here are having their second kid by the age of 25 , no degeneracy .

>>127616418
go to eastern europe and "SAVE" a young pretty girl from a poor family that can't support her
bring back home to the US and marry her

>>127633868
he's spent countless hours browsing /adv/ /r9k/ and pick-up channels on youtube, trust him

>>127634070
top kek, yeah do this I love to see burgers get divorce raped

Take deliberate action.
Get hobbies, socialize as much as you can. Approach women.

As a white woman I can tell that one major reason why most of my female friends are single is that it almost feels like tinder is the only acceptable way for me to approach us. Or when they are drunk. Tinder and drunk bar guys are ofc degenerate then so it's not a good option, but I really can not remember the last time a white man approached me organically.

It's a number game and it's sad that this is the reality nowadays. And I guess the blame is on me too, I don't approach men either. I'm a normie but too much of a puss to approach someone. In fact I don't even know where to find those young single men so I don't even know anyone I could approach.

I just got married, but I'd really like to add my wife's best friend to my harem. I think they could both be convinced it's a good fit.

Advice? Is polygamy the true redpill?

>>127634070
Hey, I married a Polish girl and she's trad. and loyal as fuck. So yeah, probably a good idea.

>>127634749
>but I really can not remember the last time a white man approached me organically.
its because youre a cheap slut who gets guys on tinder or by getting drunk in a bar

>>127634753
So you want to destroy the marriage as soon as it began?

I smell divorce and/or extreme dysfunction in your future.

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>>127616418
this is what I'm going through right now.

I'm 27, 6'3", making $75k yearly, financially independent, extremely fit, intelligent, living in a large city.

I've got everything going for me that I can imagine but I have almost no friends, and have no idea how to even casually date women. My social and romantic life is nonexistent.

Fucking depressing desu. I've been trying to figure out a way to develop a social circle but I have no idea how to even begin.

>>127616418
Im am in the same situation. I am 29 and girl I like is engaged to some idiot (in all fairness he is an ok guy)
Pretty much every other girl I like or find attractive is either in relationship or is some coalburner liberal.

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>>127635299
also I'm pretty conventionally attractive. I'm not ugly or anything, just a fucking autist I guess.

Shamelessly pluging my own list of unicorn requirements with added level of difficulty, in case anyone has actual tips.
>>127628368

>>127634916
No. I did tell you that I'm a normie though, so ofc I've tried Tinder and I've - eek - been in bars and clubs under the influence of alcohol. Like 95% of the people have. I guess we are all just degenerate sluts then. But most girls aren't virgins by the age of 24. Doesn't mean that we are the polar opposites either.

>>127623967
Who hurt you anon

>>127634997
Just the opposite - it'd definitely have to be with full knowledge of both. Menage a trois.

Lots of cultural hangups if course, but the people involved all seem well sorted to it.

>>127635503
>taking advice from a Sheila

>>127635409
But that's the best type of a guy - attractive, but humble and not too confident and cocky about himself. That's the sweetspot really. If you were handsome and super confident alpha 9000 PUA master, women with healthy sense of self respect would back the fuck off.

>>127616418

Get one from the land, not the city. Those are degenerates. If possible a virgin which loves you more then you love her.

Dont ask her questions all the time. You are the man, you task is to lead. If you are good leader she will follow.

Dont live your life around her. She is the one who follows you, not the other way around.

Also move out of the city. City is not how humans should live. Humans want to live in a non inkognito society. In a village everyone knows everyone, this will also work as social control for your wife.

Dont think that your wife thinks like you do. Women are filled with feelings and rainbows. They decide with feelings, not with logic. Dont await that from your women and you and she will be happy.

>>127635299
Since you're in a large city join a running club or something like that.

>>127635409
Did you just move to this city? Some cities can be difficult to meet people. I live in Boston, am pretty outgoing and it wasn't that easy to get my circle of friends that I have now.

>>127635299
Its a complete circlejerk to even contemplate why some women are sluts, there is nothing you can say to a women who is a slut to convincer her she shouldnt be. The whole slut thing only came about because in the past women had to worry about mens standards to make it in life, they dont anymore, thanks to feminism or single parenthood or whatever. Just stop wasting your time complaining about women being sluts or worse trying to convince women to stop being sluts. You have to live your life and be confident in who you are. If you dont want to be in a relationship with shitty women you are simply going to have very few women to choose from. You are also going to have to deal with the fact that women are going to use marriage to just clean you out financially, again, you either take a stand and fight or just take it and end up alone and financially wiped out.

>>127635709
You don't understand.
If you plan to build a family, you will fuck that up. If you somehow manage it, your kids will be fucked up.
Kiss any redpilled ideologies out the window if you go polygamous, because they're incompatible.

If you even suggest this to a partner that is unwilling, be aware that you may fuck up their entire perception of you, and may lose their trust.
Especially if you suggest it with a friend of theirs.

Expect as well that you will just turn your wife into a slut if she's willing to go polygamous (assuming she isn't already).

Honestly, I think you're just thinking with your dick or something, m8.

>>127635468
In all honesty, that's the same as I'd say that I want a man who's at least 6'3, athletic, handsome, full head of hair, educated with a decent job, intelligent, funny, romantic, loyal, kind, loves kids and adores me. Yeah, that's a dream but there's very few such men if any. (Never have I met one who's tick all the boxes.) and never have I met a pretty virgin girl either. Or they are virgins till a certain point but it only takes one guy to change that.

Good luck with your search, but I really think that your best bet is church and religious circles. Although my personal view is that those girls are often kinda stuck up, serious and shy and not the type which attracts men really.

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>>127635754
t-t-thanks wanna fug?

I agree with you, but being a pushover can also get you treated like shit by women. I try to be centered.

>>127636198
I'm trying to find a club that I'm interested in but that also doesn't scream "Hey this guy has giant social problems and is obviously here to make friends."

>>127636223

Yeah I moved here in november. I've reconnected with some old friends but generally I'm alone on the weekends. Social circle is not expanding in the slightest.

Just buy a sex robot.

Would probably be the cheapest, desu

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>>127616418
kek, you think it's hard for you?
>depersonalize disorder; can't feel sadness loneliness or empathy
>ADD; no one holds my attention
>hardcore misanthrope
>sociopathic tendencies
>i only care about one person in this world other than myself
>absolutely fucking ludicrous standards
my standards are so fucked that as soon as i get lied to once, i never trust that person again

I'd say feelsbadman but i can't feel sorrow

filthy "muh white race" backwards peasants

>>127628984
reveal mammaries or exit forum

>>127636583
Yeah don't be a pushover, have strong personal boundaries. But do not try to larp alpha. My point is that there's nothing wrong with being a bit shy. If you got the looks, you are golden.

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>>127635299
Some people seem to think that being successful will automatically pull them pussy. Then they waste years of their life building themselves up, and miss important opportunities to develop real relationships with people who will appreciate them for who they are.

The worst part is that getting women while they're young and their minds are still developing and molding to their environment, and being there while they're still learning and discovering new things in life is almost the only way to imprint yourself in a way that is unshakeable and get yourself a truly loyal wife.

>>127616418

I'm trying to get rid of my gf who wants to get married and have kids. Can you move to London?

>>127616418

It's because you're a boring white nationalist with no fun hobbies (ie shit outdoors) and probably don't have any interesting skills or trades, probably a generic straight lace salaryman who thinks by virtue of existing that life will just yield to this autistic expectation of "I'M X, WHY ISN'T Y HAPPENING FOR ME REEEE I DID EVERYTHING THE PEPES SAID TO DO"

The real redpill is that women are people with interests and a desire to be with someone they're attracted to, and that attraction is multifaceted. You have to be an interesting person. Most people of the /pol/ mentality are neither; they're fast-food bodied men who look nothing like their ubermensch black and white photos they keep jerking off to. Even if you're a Richard Spencer tool who has a haircut that was fashionable 5 years ago, that's not enough.

What about you is unique to the rest of your peers?
Are you actually funny? Can you keep the momentum in a conversation?
Do you have shit to talk about that's not going to scare women off? (90% of the MAGA kek rhetoric is social cancer and a vagina-dryer)
What do you do with your time outside of boring mundane shit?
Do you do risky or adventurous things? Or are you overly pragmatic?
Do you have a look that makes women proud to be seen with you? Or are you milquetoasty and Hank Hill-like?

If you have nothing to offer, don't expect women to arrive/stay.

Now, you can land a woman with your credentials, but not younger than 30. If you want young pure girls who haven't hit the wall, you have to earn it.

>"I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO WORK IN ORDER TO-"

oh what's that? are you a liberal now? :>)

>>127616418

Ways to meet hot girls

> Look up the social calendar for the white collar cliques in your city
> Pick some charities to volunteer with or join some patron boards, it could even be a local art school
> Walk red carpets of the local elite, find some rich alpha girl
> Peacock and flaunt your high society status to all the basic girls, fuck them senseless while hunting your alpha partner
> Use opportunities to meet other, older males who were in your position and equally as hungry while climbing the corporate/academic/post-grad ladder
> Don't expect to find anything worth dating on tinder/ night clubs / student trips / university. Statistically 60% of all marriages pre-27 end in divorce. Cuck that field and treat her like the piece of meat she wants to be known for.

>>127616418
Convert to Islam. You will get a virgin wife that will love and obey you unconditionally.

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>>127637167
thanks for the encouragement senpai

>>127637483
I used to have a lot of friends but we drank a lot and always ended up having drama and eventually I burned all my bridges with them.

So my early 20s and teenage friend base is gone and I'm left stranded.

You are probably right about the loyal wife thing to a degree. I think we are honestly supposed to be getting married in our late teens biologically.

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>>127636575
>Tfw 6 ft 1.
>Tfw king of manlets.
>Inb4 girls start saying "If you're not at least 7 ft just get out of my face".

>>127637798
> Look up the social calendar for the white collar cliques in your city

How the fuck do I do that?

>>127637127
Your country is subpar to mine. Go hang out with your terrorists.

>>127616418
>>127617022
Be the you others can relate to. From there, go farther and be the you you are to yourself.

Also, wrong board for this.

>>127637483

>The worst part is that getting women while they're young and their minds are still developing and molding to their environment, and being there while they're still learning and discovering new things in life is almost the only way to imprint yourself in a way that is unshakeable and get yourself a truly loyal wife.

ITT sociopaths who try to force women into a mold are surprised when all the BITCHES AND WHORES reject them and fuck a fun Chad who doesn't commodify them and relegate them into white baby spewer status

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Being yourself isn't wrong, it's just not handled correctly when people hear it. Being yourself is about being /true to yourself/. Do not change what you believe for someone else, and don't stop doing things that make you happy.

Be assertive. Women want a man who stands up for himself because we know it means if shit hits the fan he will stand up for/protect us and his family. We already have one pussy, we don't need another one.

If you see a girl you think is cute, go approach her. If she's a bitch, leave. If she's cool, cool. Maybe it goes somewhere, maybe not, but the only way to find out is to try. I know this is shitty, but it's how humans are hardwired - men pursue and women receive. I'm an outlier in that I'm the sort to actively pursue, BUT once I've made my interest known, I still need the man to give a solid chase.

Don't settle. This is the woman who will be your partner for life, and potentially the mother of your children. Make sure she's worthy.

You will have a very rough time finding a woman who is worthy of being a wife. But, it is very rough finding a man who is worth being a husband, as well. Our society has trained people to give in to the worst of our natures, and only a very few have managed to avoid these pitfalls. I had always wanted to be married by the time I was 22 at the latest. I didn't find a man who was marriage quality until I was nearly 40. The wait sucked, but he makes me incredibly happy every single day, and you can be damn sure I do everything I can to make him just as happy in return.

They're out there, anon, but you have a long, tough road ahead of you. Best of luck.

>>127638874
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXUzd5y-uGM

>>127637828
>Converting to a Semitic religion and embracing anti-European Abrahamist ideology for some free brown vagoo.
Wew lad. Only gingers are beta enough to go that far.

>>127632680

That's because you're a useless liberal critic.

You put no energy into building a situation and think you're above this board, when you're right here with the rest of us for some reason.

You think this board is unique? Do you think that MGTOW just happened from a few disgruntled dudes? Redpill? PUA?

Nope, there's a massive undercurrent of men who are squelched in public due to betas putting women on a pedestal. Oh look Donald Trump is president, I wonder how that happened.

You think you've got it all figured out. Hard times create strong men, and these are the hard times that men are collectively working to fight back against instead of bending over for feminism, globalism etc.

Personally I came through a bluepill life and divorce to PUA, then Redpill philosophy, the gym, and six figure salary and a 10/10 wife.

You can believe me or not, I don't care because I don't need the affirmation of bluepills. I will continue to let other men know that these ideas are worth pursuing however in spite of an ocean of liberal queefing and demoralization.

>>127638126
>>127638126
>I think we are honestly supposed to be getting married in our late teens biologically.
I agree. It's my personal theory of course, but the theory is developed through years of observation, statistical analysis and bullshit studies. My longest being 5 years, but my relationship with my girl of 4 years (who has become my wife going is going strong).

I don't really have any 'tips' per se on what to look for in a women, but I can tell you both of my longest relationships mentioned have had some things in common:
>Met them while they were still in their teens
>Virgins
>Still rather immature upon meeting (which is a clear indication that they're still mentally developing)
>Helped them through emotional serious emotional downturns
>Have not had much experiences with relationships
>Lower than average self-esteem
>Emotionally dependent
>Introverts
>Not overtly opinionated (like an SJW for example would be)


>>127638627
>Implying you have to lack a conscious to be a realist about the way imprinting and dependence works

>>127616565
This is actually sound advice. If you pretend to be something you're not, you will get caught out eventually. Assuming you're a person of sound mind, decent sense of humour, and you're not autistic.

>>127616418
Have you never been in a relationship before?
Have women showed interest in you? When was the last time?

>>127634753

Hi, I've had a few threeways with my ex wife.

The reason you don't want to do this, and it is a reason most men aren't qualified to give advice on because they're beta cucks, is that the relationship bond you form with your wife is unique and special. Once you enter another women into it it is diminished in her eyes (and yours too if you're honest with yourself)

LIberal degeneracy being what it is, she may even profess to being totally cool with it but once she sees you with your dick in the other girl that emotional bond is broken. You can trust nothing of what she says about it because it operates on another level than the intellectual completely.

Turn it around and imagine your girl riding some other dude's dick. If you're not a soulless liberal cuck this is going to hurt you and cheapen the relationship.

These aren't just platitudes I am spouting as I have been through this more than once, your relationship is unique but cocks and pussies are not. Once your relationship is shattered and no longer unique and special you will erode the entire foundation for your marriage. A bond like that if it is real is also worth more than the hottest three way sex because you want someone to go through life with or it's pointless.

>>127634753
>>127640272
Exactly. It's best to keep your girlfriend and wife separated.

>>127640272
I'm astounded to see a rational opinion on women and relationships on /pol/.

>>127640569
Just to add. Maybe you're not all autistic virgins after all.

>>127621997
Most of the ones that aren't degenerate are very ugly. It's rare to find that 3.14 qt who you will fall madly in love with out having a degenerate background.

>>127640532
Spotted the nigger.

>>127640913
Sorry, not girlfriend... "mistress"

>>127640701

I am an alumnus of the school of redpill and anti-feminism and wish to give back to the community.

Bluepill and liberalism sets men up for failure to begin with and only recently have they been openly demonizing men and the very concept of being a man. The countercurrent is real.

I look around and see only a digital ocean of fatherless kids adrift on boards like these.

>>127641059
Still a nigger.
You may as well be a nigger.
Takes a real piece of shit to cheat on his wife. No doubt you'll blame her when she inevitably finds out and divorces you.
If you want to fuck dumb sluts, don't get married.

Be a positive presence in the lives of women.

>>127627402
this. ill add my 2 cents too.

this because it shows drive, drive is confidence. confidence means opinions. opinions means conversation.

>>127616418
Be the man you wish you were and find a girl that likes the man youre pretending to be.

>>127639628
More context on how you met your current 10/10 wife? How old do you mean by 'teens'? How old were you?

The type you're describing is pretty much what I'm aiming for. Apart from social circle ( going poorly ) and approaching in coffeeshops / library I'm out of ideas on what else to try.

>small town woman
>church events
>concerts
>athletic events (triathalon & etc)
>conventions of interest (e.i.guns)
>dog parks
I don't know lad, all of my exes started out as friends or they talked to me first (I have NEVER picked up a chick), and my fianceé is a childhood friend from birth (our parents were friends).
Good Luck and don't stop your quest for Glory.

>>127641178
The observations you outlined in your post I've arrived at myself. Through fucking around with silly slags, relationships (some good, some bad, and some catastrophic), and in my marriage to the best woman and human being I've ever met. Never had a threesome, though. Not my style.

>>127641766
I'm a bit too busy to go into a full explanation right now, but I met her online. She lives in Poland. I cannot speak for all Polish girls, but she's pretty traditional despite being a product of the modern age.
She was 18 I was 22.

My first 5 year relationship was with a girl I met in highschool on my bus. Only ended because her ultra-Baptist parents sabotaged it.

>>127638874
>I'm an outlier in that I'm the sort to actively pursue, BUT once I've made my interest known, I still need the man to give a solid chase.
Women that make the first move are always the best from my experience.

>>127618322
U ar gay?

>>127637608

This guy gets it.

>>127616418
First stop calling women "females". Makes you sound like a neckbeard or a nigger

>>127616565
Best advice ITT

>>127641410
If a woman is even half honest with you, she'll admit that she likes you calling her out on her shit when she's being a bitch.

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>>127624030
>being this beta
>that.
>ever working

>>127635559
;_;

>>127642249
I'm curious, what does online mean more precisely? You don't have to name the website ofc.
Also good luck with all that, I won't talk shit but bringing EE girls to US is not an ideal move. Stay sharp or you will have really bad shit happening later on, there's a reason guys like Roosh ( hate him or love him ) suggest moving to her country in that situation. I have heard horror stories first hand myself as well. And I'm saying this having been brought up partly in EE. Traditional in this context does not mean virtue, simply that she's seeking a different role than modern western women.

>>127641766
>More context on how you met your current 10/10 wife?
Shit, this was meant for >>127639550 in case you're still around.

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>>127636575
>at least 6'3, athletic, handsome, full head of hair, educated with a decent job, intelligent, funny, romantic, loyal, kind, loves kids and adores me.
Basically me, except I'm an inch taller and already have a woman. Feels good man.

>>127643865
I'm fully aware of the problems with EE girls and fidelity, but I'm fully confident in my ability to choose a woman, especially in the reliability of my wife after having known her for four years.
Besides, Poland specifically has one of the lowest divorce rates in Europe.

>>127616418

> Meet girl
> Be nice to girl
> Ask girl about herself
> Listen
> Find a common interest
> Suggest doing something related to common interest
> - or -
> Suggest meeting and talking again if no crazy vibes
> Get number


Now the hard part- do your best to not think about her until. Even if everything is good, this builds tension on her end as well, which makes it much easier to overlook any of your self-perceived flaws.

You don't have to do the "don't call her for a week, 2 weeks" game...that's all bullshit. If you're looking for a wife, don't play games.

Call her (CALL HER, DO NOT TEXT - unless she texts you first) when you foresee a good time to schedule a "meet-up" (not a date, but really a date).


Aim for a weeknight, like Thursday. It's entirely possible she will have plans on a Friday or Saturday night. If things go well, she may invite you to join her on Fri. or Sat. (this is always fun, trust me).

>>127644673

> 6'4" Alpha Represent!

Ok, ffs....what percent of /pol is 6'4" dudes? Even the women are 6'4" dudes.

I'm a 6'4" dude.

I just finished planting 2 1/2 yards (~ 3 tonnes) of 2" thick flagstone in my garden, in my house that I own.

And I've never been turned down for a date in my life.

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>>127617562
What's getting /fa/

What did be mean by this ?

>>127616418
Step 1... get off the internet you dumb shit and ffs don't ask anons.

Step 2... Your a bitch, you should look for a husband.

>>127616418
Women only want a man that's a billionaire and a male model

>>127621509
HAHAHAHA
>how-ask-girl-out-and-get-yes-almost-every-time
Literally the ONLY way is to be 8/10+, famous and have a 9-figure net worth MINIMUM

>>127619340
>I'm a quiet person

I can relate bro, and I'm not really shy just don't have much to say. I suck at small talk.

So my advice, memorize some normie friendly jokes. Research normies friendly things, sciences, pop culture, etc. And just discuss that shit. I'll tell you, girls fucking love a guy who dominates a conversation