I can't get a car until I have enough money to move to NJ where car insurance is three times cheaper.
I can't have money until I get the well paying job I am applying for.
I thought I had a nice job lined up but the boss was shady and didn't pay me so I quit
I am having trouble finding a job.
I am looking for work everyday and only getting back untrustworthy employers
I'm getting more and more depressed everyday
I want to start my career soon but it is taking longer than I expected.
I just want a car but it's so fucking out of my reach and this is taking forever.
I can't fucking find a job and its fucking killing me.
But I'm also 21, and I'm trying to land my first career job paying good money so idk if I'm depressed over nothing because I do have some stuff going for me, more than other people.
I'm just so fucking annoyed that I can't find a job. It's fucking eating me inside. I have nothing to do everyday but look for jobs and it just isn't happening.
How do I get over this, it's killing me. I'm so unhappy. I know I'll be happier when I find a job but fuck me i want it to happen now and I don't know why the jobs I'm applying to aren't hiring me. I can't get my mind together because I'm so annoyed and I am having some good things happen to me so idk.
I just want to start working and looking toward the future but I fucking can't. When I read about cars I get depressed because I can't buy them. I look at used cars on Craigslist and I can't buy them. I have literally no other interests and I can't do it because the job thing is taking so long.
I have basically no family and no friends so I'm also lonely. My dad died this year and my best friend moved away.
I feel like I'm so close to achieving my dreams but at the same time so far away. I just needed a place to vent. I feel like I'm going irrationally crazy.
And I hate reddit because it's filled with people like me that make excuses for the position they're in. Tell me nice things please.
>>17764373
Look into staffing agencies ya bum!
>>17764403
Do they work with tradesmen? My experience is doing general handyman work for an apartment complex.
Take any shitty delivery job that's available that provides a vehicle for your shift. Once you have that you are set because you will be "out there". You can get chummy with the guys you deliver shit to and form a minor relationship. Once you slowly get to know these people you can ask if theyre ever hiring (preferably warehouses and specialty shops) and already know a guy on the inside who can give you the best chance at a better job.
>>17764432
go in business with yourself. put some magnetic signs on your vehicle and start a website advertising your services
>>17764432
>tradesmen
>general handyman
>career
Do you have education or certification in an actual trade, like plumbing or electrical work? If all you have is some time spent doing odd jobs, you basically are the less-affordable alternative to meth heads and illegals. Put some effort in the presentation so you look like a clean, cheerful person. Not the depressed loser you sound like on /o/.
>>17764432
Temp agencies hire anyone to do anything. My first girlfriend got her first job through one and it was cleaning Walmarts and movie theaters.
>>17764484
I'm pursuing my HVAC cert but I'm employable to make like 45K a year. I used to do the drugs but kicked them earlier in the year and am feeling pretty great. I think I just need to focus on other things more and be more patient. I'll look into temp agencies too. Thanks dude!
>>17764448
Thanks for the advice I'll keep this in my mind.