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What to do about sociopathic lying ex-band member?

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I'll try to make this as succinct as possible.

A very talented fiddle player joins a 4 piece rock band. The 4 have been tight for 20 years, and they take pride in being professional, touring musicians. This particular band itself has been going strong for nearly 10 years. They've reached the theater market recently and have been enjoying a string a glowing praise about their professionalism and the actual on-stage product.

The fiddler was recently let go from the band due to extreme demands of more money. He agreed back in December 2016 to a shitload of gigs from January-November 2017.

He was let go back in April for demanding more money, in most of the cases of the gigs already booked, he would have wound up making nearly 40-50% of the total pie. As ONE guy in a FIVE piece band.

His excuse was, he couldn't quit his day job and needed the extra money. Nevermind that he gave his word, and the band manager had already booked all these fucking gigs with everybody on the same page in terms of money.

So today, he posts a message on his facebook from the band (which was falsified somehow, then made to appear as deleted from the bands page) APOLOGIZING for having to let him go, just so he could reply publically to it in a way that makes him look like the good guy, and that he wishes the band success, and hopes to share the stage again one day soon, etc, etc...

I feel so fucking enraged about this, and I'm not even in the fucking band, but am a huge local fan.

What in the blue fuck should be done with this pathological lying shitstain of a human being? I want him to fucking regret doing this.
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If there was a way to prove to his saint-of-a-human-being girlfriend that he's cheated on her dozens of times, that might be enough. He currently lives in her house...
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>>75141023
Tell the band to FB post what you typed here, get him blacklisted from the local community.
Or you can punch him.
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Yeah that's really shitty, although I'll put my money towards him not having his shit together i.e. mental illnesses addictions mixed with complex life and money situations in which he had his arm bent in doing what he had to do, further extending the sentiment of some sort of reunion under presumably better circumstances for him.
Doesn't make what he did any better but people are just people and musicians are more irrational people than fucking normies so fuck off with your scrutinized hatred.
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suck his dick
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>>75141057

I don't think that would be very professional on their end. Essentially it's their word against his now.
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>>75141185
I think it's perfectly professional to tell everybody that the member you fired for being a dick hijacked your FB to make up a BS narrative.
Just me though.
It's also four people against one.
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>>75141247

I guess it would have to be worded absolutely perfectly... I don't know if they'd want to risk adding more drama to the situation, though.
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>>75141422
Word of mouth works too.
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>>75141422
Don't call yourself a professional if you come to fucking 4chan to figure this out

"It has come to our attention that one of our former associates has been spreading false information about his current dissolution with our group. We'd like to make sure that everyone understands that, through financial demands that were unreasonable, we had to come to our decision to let him go.

Unfortunately this was upsetting to X and has lead him to act in an irrational manner as to how the situation resolved itself. Fabrication of facebook messages (make sure you got proof to post this), among other things, are some of the actions that X has taken. This is very unfortunate and we are sad to see X behave this way. We have sought legal council and we advise other professionals to be aware of the actions of X.

Sincerely,
shit band with faggot who comes to ask for advise on 4chan"

there now go back to pretending you are a professional you fucking retard
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tell yourselves to grow up
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>>75141144
this is the only way op
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>>75141633

I already specified I am not IN the band, but I am a fan/friendly with them. I read the apology on the dudes facebook and immediately knew it was fucking fakery.

Thank you, though, for the well worded response.
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>>75141023
story #546548. musicians have shitty egos therefore this shit happens in bands. move on.
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>>75141023
Make him sign a nondisparagement agreement.
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>>75141023
Let it go, you aren't even in the band anyway, no reasons to fuck him over
Even if you're a member, most people are shit, some are much more shit so nothing new

Shit people will reap what they do sooner or later if he is truly shit, don't worry about it too much
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