Help me feel

>he fell for the opening up to people meme

>>70559198
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mSTSD2EhMUI

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>>70559227
well i think a havent been open enough. Always got this facade going on, but the worst thing is i dont think theres even anything behind it.

>>>/empty/

Oh yeah stfu and rec some music

>>70559198
>Already got MBV, Pharmakon, Ben Frost, soft moon, unwound, street sects, swans on deck
you're only gonna degrade yourself further with this pleb selection

You fucked up. Should have said either nothing, "ok," or "that's alright. you're still one of my better notches."

I'd recommend some Father John Misty. I don't love that guy's music but he's pretty good at girls.

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>>70559354
not what i usually lsten to, but much appreciated anon
>>70559439
how about you rec something then you cretin
>>70559440
yeah i can see that now, but i felt really bad basically rejecting her at university when all she really wanted was a sign of affection.

>>70559579
If that's what she wants why not just tell her to come over

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bumping because of loneliness

>>70559699
now it just feels forced. Plus she's living like an hour away and it's like 1 am over here.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6Bbkh4cTbo>>70559198

>>70559795
I hope you realize you're just sabotaging yourself by being a submissive pussy.

Like many of us, you're going to have to learn that weakness, kindness and apologies repulse women sexually and romantically. They want the alpha, confident, unapologetic guy bordering on asshole.

>>70559901
Such a meme

Confidence yes. Kindness being a turnoff and borderline asshole being a turn on, nah. I'm a nice guy but confident, that's part of what attracted my ex to me

>>70559901
that's what i was doing. Just called her up when i wanted some. Never showed any affection outside of bed. I was a cold fuck to her most of the time. Always knew how to crack her up or make her smile though. I decided when and where we met. She always thanked me for taking her with me etc. That is the first time i apologised.

I completely agree with you btw anon

>>70560017
It's not a "meme" it's evolutionary biology. Women want a strong and assertive provider, bordering on aggressive. Some women are exceptions, but as an aggregate. If you are shy and very nice, but start effectively being confident and somewhat douchey without being socially retarded, you will attract noticeably more women sexually.

>>70560017
borderline asshole actually works, but just for a quick liason and such. I guess maybe i got my priorities wrong on this one

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bump because of lack of music

>>70560056
It's a meme is that asshole is good and kindness is bad. It's just not true. There is a middle ground. Girls like nice guys. They don't want pushovers or submissive types or guys who can't bring out the asshole when needed though. But the girls who like asshole/douche are the ones worth no more than a fuck - if even that.

>>70560248
It's a spectrum, and asshole is closer to success than kindness. They literally don't like men who apologize, I'm not kidding. Ask a woman how they feel about guys who apologize a lot, ask them how they feel about nice guys.

>>70560303
>women know what they want

>>70560360
Yes, they do to a large extent. They want tough, confident, capable, independent, strong.

>>70559198
How about some motivational music, because fuck feeling sad.
Seriously though, and speaking from experience, the best thing to do after a breakup is listen to motivational music.

Starting with a classic:

>>70560457
I'm autistic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2H5uWRjFsGc

>>70560303
>It's a spectrum
Right, this is the point I was trying to make

>and asshole is closer to success than kindness
When it comes to areas where asshole is necessary. e.g., when you are being wronged, or she is being wronged. Or she's trying to push you over and you don't let her.

>Ask a woman how they feel about guys who apologize a lot
This is understandable, nobody likes this

>ask them how they feel about nice guys.
That's because "nice guys" is a term that often means pussified, unconfident, pushover beta nu-males who put women on a pedestal and are eager to please because they act like they haven't been there before.

Ask them how they feel about nice guys who aren't those things.

>terrified of commitment
>confident but nice
>talk to attracive girls
>friendzone myself
>don't regret it much
>until wait for it
>here it comes
>crippling depression

I just wanna cuddle a bitch sometimes but f u c k t r u s t you feel me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzy1rEyHtbE