Flex those literary muscles my brothers and sisters.
The thing about meetings is that a group mind takes over, and this is inevitable and proper. Every action of every person serves as a function of the group, even detachment, which is the same as the parts of you that meander through the day ignoring your own inner life, and the way for groups to succeed is for people to stop thinking about themselves and express the needs of the group, in every group context. People with social anxiety suffer, more than anything else, from selfishness that they have masked as victimhood.