Can you love someone you don't respect?

ask your parents

Can you love someone you don't like?

>>9790302
Objective 10

>>9790307
ayy

>>9790322
you got low nosehair and moustache grooming standards

>>9790302
I couldn't respect anybody who would love me.

>>9790348
Objectively wrong

Hnngg.

>>9790351
her eyebrows run around her eyes

she has an upper face beard like a zorro mask

absolutely disgusting hairy bitch

>>9790366
Objectively blind

>>9790307
Btfo'd

>>9790302
Absolutely. All you need to love others is genuine love of yourself: not egoism.

Probably, I can't imagine anyone wanting to be with someone who doesn't respect them though.

romantically? men can, women can't.

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>>9790307

>>9790366
Objectively gay

>>9790302
>Can you love someone you don't respect?
yeah

f.e. i love trump for his meme-politics, but i don´t respect him as a politican

Yes. Love is passive while respect is active.

>>9790302
Intuitively it seems possible but also wrong.
Define respect.

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>>9790307

>>9790322
that's just a very very fortunate picture of her

>>9790548
>not liking facial hair is gay

>>9790449
but... how would that work? how would such relationship work?

>>9790603
You don't love Trump. You "love" Trump.
Also, there is a difference between respecting someone as "insert noun" and respecting them as a person.

>>9790604
Love is passive??????????

>>9790676
It is an affect. You don't determine if you love or don't love someone by rational reasoning and a change in your views won't affect whether you love or don't love someone.

>>9790302
an incredibly good way to get someone to fall in love with you is to exchange eye contact and your deepest darkest secrets to each other for about half an hour, so no, not at all.

>>9790689
But doesn't such love last for that half an hour?

>>9790689
Yeah, but it is based on the presumption that when you share your darkest secrets with someone and they are not absolutely disgusted that is in fact positive affirmation.

>>9790695
no. that was the problem with the study, too many people got married after a 30 minute experiment.
>>9790706
nope. you just mutually assured destruction that down the aisle apparently.

>>9790302

Can you "respect" an infant?

>>9790716
I'm talking love for a pretty girl.

>>9790684
You could pretty much say the same thing for respect, though - it is an effect. I don't think you can respect someone for a long time then just decide you don't want to.

>>9790714
Most of our "darkest" secrets are actually pretty silly and harmless but we act ineffectual because we get it into our head that we are bad or something. Sharing things you are ashamed about with someone and finding that they are not that horrible can be way more productive.

>>9790716
Actually an interesting point, but.... I guess as long as we're talking about loving other humans it's not entirely relevant. Love for an infant is almost akin to a love of an inanimate object. I'm just realizing now that this argument is flawed too.

>>9790737
I think it depends more on having similar moral values. Moral values depend on affect but also on how we rationalize it.

>>9790748
well that, or you trauma bond.

>>9790689
>>9790695
>>9790706
>>9790714
>>9790748
Can confirm. Women actually love it when men open up to them, but obviously don't act whiny or pathetic or anything along those lines. If you share your emotions in a strong manner it shows that not only are you passionate and in tune with your emotions, but you are also resilient.

And seriously, it works.

How to unlove someone you don't respect?

>>9790766
But again, couldn't you make the same claim for love? That it's necessary to have a similar set of moral values? I suppose everything I'm saying is coming off of the idea that I'm viewing infatuation and love as two very different things. I believe you can't choose in regards to infatuation but you can with love.

>>9790767
Well, yeah, being bad together is less bad but still unproductive. That's why it's important for emotionally unstable people to interact with emotionally stable people.
Too bad that most people here have gotten comfortable with where they are at and don't want to go within a mile of a "normalfag".

>>9790789
You're infatuated. Escape by cutting them out of your life. It sucks but has to be done in order to let yourself grow and get over it.

t. guy who was infatuated with a girl for a year and a half straight then stopped talking to her completely except to politely reject her offers to get together

>>9790789
Depends. How long have you known this person? Normally it wears off but if you've known them for most of your life it won't really go away.
Why don't you try to respect them instead? As I said earlier I think that might be more subject to a rational effort.
What do you disrespect them for?

>>9790797
trauma bonding doesn't necessitate both be victims. that's why a lot of emotionally unstable people need to be kept away from the normalfags. go read the collector.

>>9790815
2 months of direct contact, then shit happened, I cut her off. Almost 2 years passed and I still think about her and I know she still thinks about me.

She's completely spineless, childish, spoiled daddy's girl. She's 25 but has a mind and psychology of a 12 year old.

>Why don't you try to respect them instead?
That's pretty much all I was doing when dealing with her back then.

>>9790790
You can't unlove your family, but you are not infatuated with them.
Love is about "getting used" to someone i.e. it is gained through repeated positive interactions. Falling in love or romantic love is something like a biological program that serves to accelerate the process of "getting used" to someone. People tend to pay more attention to it since its more intense and powerful but in essence the process of creating the bond is the same as with other kinds of bond.

>>9790849
>2 months of direct contact
>2 years passed
>I know she still thinks about me
That only happens when you have no other choice.

>>9790828
Collector? Explain further.

>>9790849
Well, I know what you are talking about but I don't know how you deal with that.
Getting someone usually helps a lot. Why don't you?
Do you feel bad about what happened with her or something?

>>9790663
>You don't love Trump. You "love" Trump.
explain

>>9790322
Hapas truly are the master race

>>9790924
Truly

>>9790922
Like you "love" pizza but don't love pizza.

Depends how you define love.

If by respect, you mean show a recognition of human dignity, then no.

>>9790366
You're gay AF bud
No joke, caring about the curvature of a fucking eyebrow when its not even that noticeable? And complaining about these freckle-like things when they're basically invisible when you're not really close to her? Shieeeet.

>>9790924
just like the supreme gentleman
rip elliot

>>9790927
In a few generations they will rule the world. Especially after the rise of the Kazakhs.

>>9790967
He was ahead of his time. See above.

>>9790307
D A M N
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>>9790322
No. It's an ugly/average girl with good lighting and probably some airbrushing for a professional photograph, bad skin covered up by this same airbrushing and some make-up probably, and she's smiling kindly, which always makes girls look more attractive.

>>9791457
Fuck off with your bubble-bursting picky faggot ass, actual non doctored as shit pictures are rare as shit these days, its not like this is something uncommon to be done.
Good luck finding someone who looks as good as this without this much editing.

>>9791457
Embarrassing.
But she does have a kind smile

>>9790302
Can you respect someone you don't love?

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>>9790963
>curvature

How shitty are your screens, lads? She's a yeti, her face is covered in black hair.

>>9791585
Tis' a matter of a simple shaving dood

>>9791604
Which she doesn't do even before a professional photoshoot. Nosehair dangling in the breeze and all.

I bet this is merely the tip of the iceberg of her disgusting slob habits.

>>9791667
post non slob habits + taste + feet

>>9790302
I know I can't. I tried to love this girl from work who pushes carts. She was skinny with great legs and bright blonde hair. She always smiled at me and loved to chat me up. So I asked her out and we went to a park, I had never really talked to her more than two minutes at a time, and she was so superficial. I was really disappointed. Our conversations the rest of the night were just banter with some innuendo, but in the end I just couldn't deal with her safe, simplistic nature. She had a rough life so I don't blame her. But it was pretty shit. She was Really attractive.

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>ywn tease her about her nose hair until she punches you playfully on the arm

Is she like part Asian?

>>9790924
This desu. Rolling for Catholic hapa wife

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>>9791726

Yep.

>>9791734
Roll

Listen, you rat fucks. eating pussy is the most manliest thing there is. I am six feet and nine inches tall and frequently I am mistaken for Vin Diesel, the actor, who was in Pitch Black and Chronicles Of Riddick. I was a firefighter for two years and had four commendations for outstanding service. I have been with ten women and each one of them enjoyed when I slithered my hot moist tongue between her labia and made her come waterfalls of gushing girlcum from her cunt onto my tongue. Then I flipped her over and fucked her raw with my huge dick and she always came back for more. Every woman loves to ride my face while I french kiss her folds and lap at her labia. They know I am the boss because after Im done smooching their split peach until it weeps lube on my face and neck I spin them around at 400 miles per hour and ram my road into their box like Im stuffing a turkey. Their pussy lips and inner vaginal walls get so moist and damp from my initial sloppy wet love kisses that they invite my boner into them like a slug eating jello. Yall are crazy if you think you cant make bitches get wet and cream their panties by being an ALPHA MALe who loves to SUCK CUNT. Get at me on Twitter if you want to learn techniques

>>9791726
Korean-german, i never knew i needed this mix until now

>>9790307
anon... easy on the btfos

>>9790322
Objective 6 and I am being generous.

>>9791977
post face

>>9790724
Then it's your problem you weren't specific.

>>9791985
For which purpose?

>>9792002
rh8terbait

>>9790322
Would be if she trimmed her nosehair

>>9791977
Kill self
>>9792016
Not nosehair, look careufully

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>>9791918
>>9791750
>>9791726
>Is she like part Asian?
Her parents are lucky she is a she. Half asians are great so long as they're female, any other time and the dice are seriously loaded against you.
>>9790924
>Hapas truly are the master race

Quit discussing my terrific taste in women and get back on topic!

>>9791679
>She always smiled at me and loved to chat me up.
Truly pretty girls never do that, they always expect a guy will do all the work and chase her.

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>>9790307

>>9792069
Men with big lips look ridiculous.

>>9792033
Is it hard to handle different opinions?

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>>9791585
This might come as a shock to you but all women are covered in little hairs that you can only see up close and they usually only take the time to shave their legs and between them.

>>9790967
>>9792069

RIP in peace Elliot. I hope you're running over angels in heaven.

>>9792145
Only wrong ones

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>tfw /lit/ would fuck a "girl" with a penis but not this godess

>>9792255
All of the women I've seen up close didn't have a black rug covering their cheekbones.

Maybe I have a biased sample by not trying to fuck bigfoots in the first place though.

>>9792316
I would marry this woman.

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>>9792316
>retarded face
>ugly knees
>short legs
>long torso

There are better girls lurking this board right now.

>>9792316

She looks like I could pick her up with one arm. Not such an unpleasant thought to be honest.

>>9790302
no

>>9792299
Then that's my problem for considering yours

>>9792333
>There are better girls lurking this board right now.
One can only hope

>>9792362
Yeah it is

>>9792367
It's a fact, see pic of the post you replied to.

>>9792333

If only the picture would be as nice as those trips

>>9792316
Why not both?

>>9792425
Absolutely not.

>>9790302
>Can you love someone you don't respect?
I love my dog, I certainly don't respect him though.
>>9792069
Elliot would have made a cut girl, don't know why he never transitioned considering he was so obviously gay.

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>>9792680
>Elliot would have made a cut girl, don't know why he never transitioned considering he was so obviously gay.

dude, so true, i always think about that, why didn't he just become a chick, he would have mad an amazing tranny, and his parents had enough money that he could have gone to all the best doctors, missed opportunity

>>9792680
Are you calling that girl a dog?

>>9792717
Careful, that's my wife you're talking about...

>>9792849
You don't sound like a big dude.

>>9790302
Plenty of men love women

>>9790603
>I don't respect him as a politician
you should have said you don't respect his ideas, because saying you don't respect him as someone in X, when he is the best at X, is objectively wrong.

>>9790302
Affection, respect, and lust are three SEPARATE emotions.
>Affection: >>>/c/
>Respect: >>>/fa/
>Lust: >>>/s/

>>9793061
love is love

>>9792635
If our girl didn't lurk why would she make vids about us?

>>9793370
I was saying that she couldn't hold a candle to that goddess.