[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Just picked this up today. It's time to turn my life around.

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

Thread replies: 34
Thread images: 3

File: htwfaip.jpg (36KB, 322x499px) Image search: [Google]
htwfaip.jpg
36KB, 322x499px
Just picked this up today. It's time to turn my life around.
>>
It didn't work for me.
>>
>>9747775
what are you trying to fix, anon?
>>
Meme book. Try to read this instead.

>Essentials
Improve Your Social Skills - Daniel Wendler
<go outside and talk to people>

>Advanced
What Every BODY Is Saying - Joe Navarro
The Games People Play - Eric Berne
Pre-Suasion - Robert Cialdini
<go outside and talk to people>

>Troubleshooting
No More Mr. Nice Guy - Robert Glover
Be Your Own CBT Therapist - Windy Dryden
Improvise - Mick Napier
<go outside and talk to people>
>>
>>9748223
>The bible of networking and relationships in general
>meme
Don't listen to the contrarians anon, this book is a must have in any collection
>>
>>9748223
Your list teaches you how to be a manipulative sociopathic dick. Nice try though.
>>
>>9748284
He didn't even list Robert Greene.
>>
>>9748284
any book looking to train you in the social game does this
>>
>>9747775
>>9748232

Nah it really is a meme and unless you lack basic social skills it wont be that life changing. 7 habits is a much better general book.
>>
READING A BOOK WONT' TEACH YOU SOCIAL SKILLS

ex: idiot robots who read shit about sex on PUA or reddit forums but still perform like a microwave manual calculator
>>
>>9747775
Have fun OP and perfect those normie skills
>>
You just need to doubt yourself so hard that you accidentally doubt the beliefs that are causing you to doubt yourself.
>>
>>9747775
From what I understand this book is a meme. The first chapters basically sum up to "people don't like you if you yell at them" and "be sincere"
>>
>wanting to be a soulless normie
Why? Just why?
>>
>>9747775
Don't listen to the haters, it's a great book, very helpful
>>
>>9748232
Never said Carnegie is bad. It's just an overrated meme.

>>9748284
The list teaches you how to socialize effectively by going through the steps that promotes good conversation: being interesting, building rapport, sharing and creating experiences, etc. It doesn't teach you to become a manipulative sociopathic dick, and none of the books revolve around any sort of amoral perspective. If you're already a manipulative sociopathic dick, then you'll be more effective at screwing other people. If you're a person with a good heart, however, you'll be better equipped to get your best intentions across and handle complex social situations.

The first book, Improve Your Social Skills - Daniel Wendler, isn't even that bad. It's everything somebody would need to get started on their own, even if they're a desperate /r9k/ inhabitant. I don't know why you're getting your panties up in a bunch, because this is genuinely a good book like the others here. There's really no book alone out there that can teach you to be a good person.

>>9748298
Robert Greene is a good read for politics, not for socializing IMO. Then maybe that poster would have a point. I still think you should read Greene so you're aware of what other people can do to you and what psychological tensions can arise.
>>
>>9747775
reddit likes this book, therefore i dont
>>
https://www.youtube.com/user/charismaoncommand

I use this channel to improve my own social skills and it works a bit. Don't expect your life to be changed though.
>>
>>9748284
Got any good books for manipulative sociopathic dicks?
>>
>>9748284
Not the list himself, but possibly the books being listed.
And: You missed a comma, anon.

P.S. You're welcome!
>>
>>9748873
no comma inbw what is not a 3 or more list faggot, fuck
>>
>>9748223
pdf to the daniel wendler book?
be your own cbt too
>>
>>9749265
Libgen the 1st book. Dunno where you can get the second. I bought the book. It has nice charts and clear language, felt it was useful. I think you might want to search for an alternative self-help handbook on libgen that works for you if you don't want to shell the money.
>>
>>9748284
if you wanna be a sociopath also add greene and most of the manosphere authors like roosh v and cernocuck
>>
>>9748479
i want to fit in.
>>
File: 55876.jpg (42KB, 312x475px) Image search: [Google]
55876.jpg
42KB, 312x475px
>>9747775
I tried looking for that book but couldn't find it so I gave up and ended up coming home with this one.
>>
>>9748429
This worked for me
>>
File: 1492033667963.gif (542KB, 500x344px) Image search: [Google]
1492033667963.gif
542KB, 500x344px
>>9748464
But I'm sincere when I yell.....
>>
>>9748512
>The first book, Improve Your Social Skills - Daniel Wendler, isn't even that bad.
>isn't even that bad
Woa! That's one helluva recommendation!
>The list teaches you how to socialize effectively by going through the steps that promotes good conversation: being interesting, building rapport, sharing and creating experiences, etc
Huh - so, the books you listed all, together, do what Dale Carnegie did in one book? I see.....
>>
>>9749265
Cock-Ball torturer?
>>
>>9751800
>Woa! That's one helluva recommendation!
There's nothing bad about it. It's a good book on the basics. If you're an /r9k/ faggot, you can save yourself with this book and lots of practice.

>Huh - so, the books you listed all, together, do what Dale Carnegie did in one book? I see.....
Dale Carnegie doesn't go into detail about any one component, with few exceptions. It's a meme book.

>>9751861
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
>>
>>9751982
Does this board have no sense of humor?
>>
>>9752043
I do, it's just you're the 5th person I've heard make the joke and it isn't really funny.
>>
>>9749276
>Libgen the 1st book
I didn't find the book.
Thread posts: 34
Thread images: 3


[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.