Can I get some recs for books about S&M or more specifically why and how girls enjoy being degraded etc?
My girlfriend insisted we play this game where she writes out two identical lists of fetishes and then we each ticked boxes on our lists as to what we'd like to do to the other person and have done to ourselves. Turns out my gf really wants to try a whole bunch of stuff.
I can post the list if necessary but really I'm looking for books about this sort of thing that'll give me some tips or like show me how to do it in a hot way.
Thanks!
>>9464192
lets see that list first
>>9464192
Unironically, Gravity's Rainbow
>>9464201
Hmm, well I'll type out what's written on it. She told me it was just a game that she'd read about online and it was just fun etc. Bear in mind she ticked almost ever single one:
>Choking
>Slapping
>Forced / Abduction Fantasy
>Rimming (Give)
>Water sports
>MFF
>DDLG (not sure what this one meant so I left blank)
>Anal
>Throatfucking
>Puke
>Bondage (Rope)
>Dollification
>Spitting
>MFF Bullying
>Pegging (Giving)
>Double Penetration
One she didn't tick were
>Blood Play
>MMF
>Cheating
I ticked like five things but she ticked almost everything. I mean I didn't really expect it, even though she made the list. I figured she wanted to test if I was a pervert or something.
>>9464238
She wants to peg you?
>DDLG
She wants you to role play as daddy to her as a little girl.
No idea what MFF bullying is.
>>9464238
>ywn have a kinky gf that wants to have a mff threesome with you and eat your ass
>>9464238
Your girl's a freak, nice.
>>9464192
My diary desu
>>9464238
Even when OP saw the red flags he ignored them and continued down this path.
RIP
>>9464575
He'll have some great material in his spank bank to help him cope with all the emotional scarring.
Okay OP here I may as well come clean. I actually found this list in my roommate's bedroom. He's a pretty big Chad and he has sex with girls quite often in his room, and I found this in there today while I was sniffing the sheets (he had a girl around last night who I like too) and I wanted to know how I can read about what girls are secretly into and whether its all this kind of crap.
>>9464590
>this kind of crap.
As opposed to what? Long walks on the beach? Pina Colada and getting caught in the rain? Plenty of women like interesting sex.
>>9464590
>I wanted to know how I can read about what girls are secretly into and whether its all this kind of crap.
Fuck that and just pretend to be a girl online. Before long you'll make female friends that talk openly about things like this.
>>9464238
>no kittenplay
sounds like a pretty pleb relationship lol. enjoy getting pissed and puked on
>>9464238
Be real fucking careful with choking. Gently pinch the sides, put no pressure on the front. You don't want to have to explain that to the cops.
>>9464762
Now you tell me
If you want to learn how to do all this shit correctly, don't read fiction or porn because those will give you the Wrong idea that will end up probably ruining your relationship with her.
>The Better Topping/Bottoming Book
>Screw The Roses Send Me Thorns
are good practical introductions to kink.
With things like abduction fantasy, you've got to be EXTREMELY careful.
>9464590
I don't think you are OP, but in any case, read the books mentioned above. "A Billion Wicked Thoughts" is a good statistical and social analysis of fetishes in general. Don't read Kinsey, Kinsey is fucking awful. If you're in the mood for some very interesting, Dworkin's Pornography is certainly worth a read.
In any case, you should probably get on Fetlife if you want people to explain themselves to you.
>girls are secretly into and whether its all this kind of crap
you couldn't be more autistic
>>9464590
>I found this in there today while I was sniffing the sheets (he had a girl around last night who I like too)
You dirty dog.
read redpill shit. don't get too deep, but they have some insight.
tumblr people will act like cats and sneer at this with their poorly drawn pastel comics. fuck those fucks. life is real, men and women are real and they have likes that are a mystery to you because you live in an incomplete attempt at Plato's republic wherein you're neither man nor woman. be a man. or if you're a girl, be that. but know the differences, and stop being such a malformed thing
>>9464238
Why were blood play and vomiting even on the list? Theyre fucking nasty.
>>9466096
They made analingus vanilla foreplay a few years ago. You just wait.
>>9464238
>watersports
>puke
>pegging
>>9464590
>I was sniffing the sheets (he had a girl around last night who I like too)
So /lit/
>>9464238
>no blood play
otherwise fucking wistful as hell i was in a relationship where most of these were on tap and it was glorious
DDLG is Daddy/Daughter roleplay btw and it is... wonderful
>>9466092
this
Crime and Punishment
Discipline and Punish
>tfw no gfever
>>9467116
>DDLG
>wonderful
Now I've never been the type to be trigger-happy with /pol/ buzzwords but that is downright degenerate, son.
>>9464192
Marquis de Sade springs to mind. Maybe that's a little extreme...
>>9464238
>mff
Nice
>>9464668
What the fuck? Why would you do this?
>>9468465
The Marquis is babby's first edgelord libertine- "Dohoho it's my inalienable right to rape 10 year olds in the arse because their tears are a symbol of their weak nature"
>>9469533
Sounds like irrefragable logic to me senpai.
>>9466092
The redpill is good, but if you overdose you become a disoreded fucking pleb.
>>9469598
you sound pretty fagable to me senpai
>>9464238
>One she didn't tick were
>Blood Play
>MMF
>Cheating
You lucky son of a bitch.
>>9471164
Is cheating so common now that you're lucky if your gf is not into it?
What a frightening thread. Celibacy is safer.
>>9464238
>ticks double penetration but doesn't tick MMF
How does she expect you to DP her without another guy?
>>9471614
Split his dick like people split their tongues.
>>9471614
I reckon she'd suck his cock while dildoing herself or something like that