Hey /lit/ I'm looking for books on how to treat a woman.

>>9128783
>le thinly veiled frogman thread

Schopenhauer's 'On Women', Weininger's Sex and Character lol

Take the redpill

>>9128783
ok. ok. wow. just... ok. have you ever read any fucking books at all, period? there are probably some characters that treat women in better ways than others. oh yeah and if you're looking for female input, you're wasting your time because women are literally fucking retarded when it comes to knowing how they want to be treated, and female authors are objectively much worse.

>>9128788
Not looking for redpill
>>9128791
I haven't read many. I'm a slow reader and Infinite Jest is long.

>>9128788
I read Schopenhauer's essay. As a whole I don't really agree with it. It seems very antiquated to me. It does raise some interesting points worth investigating. I'm not so blind as to believe everything I read and a perspective of the actual being in question, who has a brain and speaks, would be beyond stupid to dismiss. Bumping for female literature.

>>9128783
The dance of anger: a woman's guide to changing the patterns of intimate relationships
Lerner, Harriet Goldhor

Loving someone with anxiety: understanding & helping your partner
Thieda, Kate N.

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>>9128783
>how to "treat a woman"
>how to "form a romantic relationship with a woman"

Just be yourself, son.

>>9128783
The sweet naivety

Go with a prostitute; preferably one old enough to be your mother. She'll teach you how to treat women. Milfs love cherry boys

>>9128783
Is OP's pic Bryan Danielson?

>>9128783
Just B.E. yourself.

Fifty Shades of Grey

Also go ahead and ask some women out and they will Redpill you even if we can't.

Just b urself

>>9128783
>>>/r9k/
It's pretty clear youre underage, pls stop posting for now

>>9128783
stop varg posting

>>9128783
Art of Seduction is really cohesive in how it analyzes archetypes in both men and women. It quotes a lot of classics plus has many historical examples

It won't really teach you how to treat a women because that really is a case by case basis that you will come to grasp

The Way of the Superior Man has a lot of advice on how to operate a relationship effectively

If you want to know a women's perspective you can read really shitty romance novels because they tell you right there what women fantasize about

My Secret Garden is great for that. Plus it was written by a women.

A Billion Wicked Thoughts is a good book to read for an aggregate understanding of female sexual psychology/fantasy

What it comes down to anon is understanding there are millions of women who want you at your best. You're just getting in your own way 80% of the time probably if you are the type to browse 4chan. Passion and Love are retarded complicated and mostly irrational. Men make millions of mistakes when it comes to choosing the right partner as well as operating the relationship correctly once they find a girl they can work with.

Women are no different.

>>9130002
>Fifty Shades of Grey
Absolutely not.

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>>9129971
This guy gets it.

>>9130066
Thank you

>>9128783
Models by Mark Manson
No more Mr nice guy
Book of Pook
Rational male

>>9128783
If you have a girl friend just read the manual, they all come with one.

Look dude, if you want to know how to be a good boyfriend, don't read books, read womens magazines and watch Chick Flicks. They'll show you want women want in terms of romance.

>>9130359
This will ruin you.
b8
2/10 made me reply and dissuade op

>>9130366
It's true though? Watch 80s movies. Most romantic shit ever.

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In order to "form a romantic relationship" with a woman, you must be able to pick her up & seduce her. Don't be daft, OP.

You may think, and a dishonest woman may tell you, that your sterling personality & well-read witticisms is enough to get you a gf - but it isn't enough to keep one.

Instead of trying to understand women, better to invest your time in understanding how to be a man. The women will come naturally after that.

>Obviously

>>9130375
Or you could meet a girl and take her out and stuff, getting to know her and not fucking super quick. God, you guys are sad.

I met my girlfriend in a uni class 5 years ago, we talked, became friends and then started dating. It's not all about pick up artistry.

>>9130373
80s are different bruh
Watch 50s and it's the most redpill stuff you'll find

>>9130389
I'm not looking for redpill. Looking for romantic.

>>9128783
read Schopenhauer 'On Women'

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Women want to be led, not worshiped.
Always remember that.
Women want a provider, hetero women want masculinity,
They dont want passive, feminine, narcissistic, men, they dont want to be your mommy.
Being nice to a woman doesnt mean she is going to suck your cock.
Women are walking lies, from the make up, to the push up bras.
Dont fall for her tricks when she says she wants a nice and polite man.
Women are idiots, they date bad boys because they think they can change them.


And as much as women are idiots, one must examine ones own flaws, both mentally and physically, and whether it is appealing to the opposite sex

>>9130387
The fuck are you on about, man? Pick up artistry? I told him to stop focusing on women & focus on himself.

Romance is a childish notion for the inexperienced. Period. It's enough to get a gf, but not keep one.

Stop misleading him. Your gf is probably ugly & undesirable as fuck - if not, she's def cucking you.

One must initiate an emotional affair before a sexual affair.
One must realize that love and sex under capitalism has been commodified.
What is love when it is not based around money or buying things.
An emotional connection, actions.
Love is actions, gestures.
Accepting of each others flaws.

>>9130404
I'm not. She's actually very pretty, bookish and kind of shy, and not cucking me. Romance is important, but getting along and having the same goals in life are also important in the long term.

But a little gesture now and then keeps it fresh.

Love and lust are different things.
Lust is visual, animalistic.

Love is real, but rare.

When you love someone you accept their flaws, and they yours, and human being show love through actions and rituals

romeo and juliet


that is all


disney desu

or hades/persephone

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I got you, OP. Trust me, I'm a pussy slayer ive been on multiple dates with multiple women. Yes that's right, more than one. Anyways, enough of my outrageous bragging.

Here's your golden rules

1. Be a fucking man. Independent, competent at life, a career, "has his shit together."
2. Increase your physical attractiveness. Fashion, fitness, grooming can give almost any man enough physical attractiveness to work with.
3. Have some fucking balls. This means being able to overcome cowardice and leaving your comfort zone.
4. make sure you give the impression to the women you're trying to impress that you're currently dating multiple women. Polyamory is retarded and degenerate, but one or two dates does not make a relationship. If they believe there's other women in your life that you're currently banging, that will make you 1000 times more attractive to them.

There's plenty of other things you can do but these are the main ones.

>>9130359
this

read cosmo and learn how to give oral

uncuck yourself from the patriarchy by reading Judith Butler and feminist theory