I'm getting married in a few hours. Post some books that'll tell me that I'm making the right decision.
Spinoza's Ethics
Kierkegaard in general
Being serious, I swear
>>8536927
You didn't unfortunately. No memes. People are awful and you will hate each other.
>>8536943
We got along for the last six years. I'd like to believe that the next sixty years will be fine, too.
>>8536927
>getting married in a few hours
>posting on 4chan
>>8536963
>Six years.
You barely know each other lmao.
>>8536980
I'm waiting for her to come out the room and have nothing to do. Of course I'm on 4chan.
>>8536988
OP here, that post is not me. I'm just wishing everyone of you that you'll find eventually that special someone. No post some recommendations.
>>8536988
I'm divorced and currently seeing a women who lives on the same floor as me.
>>8537001
Shit, you're right... Anyway, I'm off, love you,/lit/!
>>8536998
You didn't make the right choice, fuck off.
Nothing wrong with marriage, as long as you've found someone good
And if you haven't figured out whether they are or not by now, you never will
Enjoy your spin on the roulette wheel
My view on marriage is that you should pick someone who can be your friend rather than someone you "love." Friendship is more stable than love, and you will have to act as partners in many facets of life after you marry (maybe some when you were dating, depending on your situation), such as managing finances, raising a family, etc.
I don't think everyone should marry, or that there's a "One" for everyone, but if she is someone you like to be around, then I don't think you're making a mistake OP.
>>8537430
you can't be friends with women though
>>8536927
John Updike - Couples
>>8536935
>Kierkegaard in general
"“Marry, and you will regret it; don’t marry, you will also regret it; marry or don’t marry, you will regret it either way."
Cohabitation it is, I guess.
>>8536927
http://www.online-literature.com/james_joyce/958/
I think Hegel wrote something about it, can't remember where.
Are you and her Christians?
>>8536927
>>8536927
>6 hours and 42 minutes ago
congratulations on getting married anon, i sure hope this doesn't turn out to be a giant trainwreck
>>8537549
important question really the only thing that matters as far as marriage health is concerned
>>8537549
>a phone screenshot of a tumblr report of a 4chan meme
harram