/bigen/ - bisexual general

>>8833465
>ywn be a teen superstar

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>Nonbinary
>4chan

https://youtu.be/nIaN9Koa9oM

I don't even know what I am at this point. Growing up I always thought I was straight and never had interest in men but now I don't even know. I'm a khv so I've had no experience with either sex so I just have porn to go off. Everyone I know assumes I'm gay and they joke about it but I don't feel gay, I don't feel attracted to men yet I feel like if I ever get a gf they'll think I'm in the closet. I want to fucking kms honestly.

>>8833518
If you never wanted to kiss/fuck/date another man, you're not gay or bi. Pay no mind to your friends' fuckery.

What are we going to do about the bisexual virginity epidemic? According to >>8830485 we're full of people who've never been laid. Sexually active anons, pls give advice on how to find a qt bf.

>>8833514
4chan was never as reactionary as it pretended to be. I still think this is a fundamentally progressive side with a large helping of edgy contrarians.

>>8833654
I mean, if you're going to somehow get me laid I wouldn't mind

>>8828789
>>growing up in a kind of mini-ghetto where I was one of two white kids for a few years had something to do with learning Mexican dishes.
My high school was actually pretty diverse. There were lots of white kids, but there seemed to be people from all over. It's a shame that I was sort of "in the closet" when it came to liking to cook back then. I could have learned a lot.

>it's good when it's done right
The biggest secret I think is finding the right ratio between the spice and the sour as well as what you use to make those flavors. Too much of one or the other or sub-quality ingredients throw everything off.

I haven't tried the dessert I suggested yet, but it seems fairly simple to make.

> Look like a big broad beardo who might be in a biker gang but under all the hair and stern expression, can be just a big teddy bear. Or that's been my case.
Haha he had a beard in high school too. Though he kept trying to shave it because he was self-conscious and razor burning the fuck out of himself. He knows better now. Except people were more likely to assume he was a meathead douchebag because of the way he looked. Like I said, I think that's why people picked on him. Probably made them feel powerful to bully someone who looked like that and get away with it.

>Just means a lot more since you don't usually get all like this. Definitely something special.
Yeah? I think I'm starting to think so too. Which kind of embarrasses me more, really.

Either way, I did wind up talking to him and only spazzed out a little. Otherwise it turned out pretty good.

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>>8833465
Sometimes I'm convinced I'm actually straight because gay porn literally doesn't do anything for me unless I'm already fully erect. But then I think about how I got hard making out with the only guy I've ever been on a date with. Idk I almost never check out men irl but I give way more of a shit about men on tinder. I've had sex with a guy and the sensation of bottoming was great even though I didn't really feel anything for him and he was a completely garbage fuck. Is there a way to be more comfortable with homo attractions that doesn't involve dating and fucking a bunch of men? Cuz I'm pretty sure I'm at least a little gay

Is it gay to only be into shemales? I like the dick but not the rest of the man, its so confusing.

>>8833654
this, pls help. It's really starting to take a toll on my self esteem. I'm just starting to think that there's something fundamentally wrong with me that I'm incapable of noticing.

>>8834499
Its probably autism, its always autism

>>8834510
Yeah I've had a few people legitimately think I was autistic before. It's not a great feeling, but I get it.

I actually really doubt that I am though. From what I've read people on the spectrum tend to have difficulties empathizing and reading people, which has never been an issue for me. I can tell how other people are feeling in a social situation (may even be too hyperaware of it) and how they react to things, I just don't know what to do myself. I just completely shut down, and then if someone does engage me further I get really flustered and have all my thoughts pour out in a chaotic mess. It's just not worth the struggle.

>>8834549
I mean, its a spectrum so there's lots of different ways it can affect people but I was mainly just memeing dude, you probably don't have autism. As for the knowing how people are feeling part, this is something high functioning people can learn over time anyway.

>>8834350
Buy a dildo and realize most men are just walking penises and not special

>>8834224
qt. I've been reading and was hoping you'd update. so is he your bf or nah?

>>8833654
it's funny how we have the reputation of being cheaters and promiscuous but most of us haven't been laid.

>>8835015
this desu
in theory I'm bi but, like, most men just have such shitty personalities
I like dick, but not enough to put up with a man for it

How would you run a lgbt campus group? Or more accurately, how would you turn it away from a past of being a tumblrina show?

If I get run and get elected (if), I'm thinking of possibly adding in group volunteering opportunities, longer times set for debate and a less pedantic version of the rules that basically amount to "be respectful adults".

>>8835306
Give it a purpose
too often these things just become like social clubs or whatever, which drives off anybody who wants to do anything, leaving tumblrinas
Volunteering and debating like you said works well
Also, yeah, the rules. Just have it be something like "this is a place for respectful debate. We will not insult or ostracize people for having differing opinions"

though, I don't know if you can ever fully get it away from tumblry stuff, since it is a uni lgbt campus group.

If I'm only into very feminine males(IE traps/femboys, and irl too), then am I still bi?

>>8835396
Yeah but you're maybe prison gay

>>8835396
yeah, you're just bi and attracted to femininity.

I'm sure some people on this board could craft a fancy new word full of greek and latin roots and make it sound like a special snowflake, but let's keep it with that

>>8835015
I did, it's a nice bad dragon one too

>>8834549
Sounds like social anxiety desu. Work on getting it under control, your chances of finding a partner will skyrocket.

http://www.moodjuice.scot.nhs.uk/shynesssocialphobia.asp

>>8835306
Give the group a reason to stick together. Volunteering is a good idea, maybe occasionally do fun stuff like paintballing. In the two unis I've been to, LGBT groups were literally just "come along to this room and socialise," so anybody who didn't click with the preexisting crowd got shut out.

>>8833654
I pretty much haven't been laid yet too. Don't feel bad.

>>8835147
I mean, I think so? We talked about how we both liked each other. I'm seeing him this weekend so hopefully I'll know a bit more by then.

>>8835306
That sounds pretty good. The group at my school seems really annoying.

>>8835420
that's me too

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>>8834350
This. Gay porn does little to nothing for me unless it's a bunch of twinks. I prefer fantasizing or reading about gay encounters rather than watching it. There some guys I am instantly attracted to, but with guys I am more turned on by personality more than anything. >>8834394
You're probably just kinky, and would probably shutter at a real dick.>>8835396
Yes, you're bi.

>>8833465
Dammit, you have 'trans' in the copypasta, no wonder I can never find this.

>>8837047
Your fault for being close-minded tbqh

>>8837094
Just shutting out the spam.

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I am wondering how I can get together with a dominant cutie gril. I am currently in a relationship with a guy but he does not mind my preference for girls. I have quite a few girls I am interested in but the problem is that I am very shy and do not know how to hit it off with a girl or even make the first move. Pls help friends

>>8834350
>>8837024
most men are trash and your brain saves true attraction for the good ones (at least to you)

>>8836173
you gon' get buttfuqed this weekend

>>8837024
same

>gay guy invited me to go clubbing with his friends today
>Say yes in the morning cause I felt fine
>All of a sudden now I feel like trash and just want to listen to music and sleep
>Told him I would drive him
>Haven't had more than 5 hours of sleep in a night for over a week cause of partying and school
>Don't want to be up all night tonight
>Don't want to cancel on this guy
What do? I am thinking about telling him I had a family emergency, something really drastic so that he won't question it. Like, my cousin had a miscarriage recently, so I could say I need to go be with her to comfort her. Do you guys think that would work?
Btw I know I'm a trash human being.

>>8837599
drive him there tell him you feel like shit though you'll come next time
don't gotta blow it up in your head to be a big deal, the club waits

>>8837603
The thing is the club is an hour away

>>8837606
haha fuck tell him now then so he can make a backup

male friend is constantly complaining he doesn't get enough matches on tinder, but won't let me and others intervene to improve his profile and take better pictures because he thinks we'll make it look gay

wat do, bigen?

>>8837913
Uh, I guess there's nothing you can do there if he doesn't want the help.

I guess I kind of get it though. I get too anxious to use tinder because I worry that I'm too conscious of how too look good in pictures, which will lead to them being disappointed when they see me irl.

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>>8833465
what is your [spoiler]sportperson[/spoiler] crush


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoKm2Ffg3Mo

>>8837935
Should I be cruel to be kind and tell him I don't want to hear him whining about being a virgin and not getting matches if he won't even let his friends help? Or is that too autistic of me? Dude's left his profile entirely blank apart from the name of the university and course, and his only photo is an unsmiling headshot from two years ago. It's not like I'm asking him to take underwear bulge pics here, just anything more recent and showing full body.

>>8838039
>Should I be cruel to be kind and tell him I don't want to hear him whining about being a virgin and not getting matches if he won't even let his friends help Or is that too autistic of me?

Nah that's probably a pretty fair thing to point out. I mean I'm an autistic virgin who does seemingly nothing to change that fact, but at least I don't whine to my friends about it. If he's being annoying like that it's probably justified to use some tough love.

>>8838056
This is totally me. Also short hair girls are hot as fuck

>>8838056
Nah, I'm pretty much the opposite. I mean I do find all types attractive but I tend to have a preference for traditionally masculine, dominant men and smaller, cutesy (either bubbly or demure) girls.

>>8837913
That's on him
>>8838039
Okay, now he's definitely asking for failure. I don't use tinder but I'm sure as fuck not going to go for someone like that.

>>8838056
I generally find men with waifish/ feminine facial features to be much more visually appealing, but I don't want it to go full trap territory.

>>8838709
You have a point but men have to work more to make dresses and shit look remotely good on them imo

Women just look good in anything

I think I've finally accepted that I'm Bi to myself, after knowing for years.. Whats next?

>>8838727
You decide man. I wouldn't jump into dating or anything straight off though, took me a bit to even consider romance when I faced I was bi

>>8838747
Like I'm not sure what these emotions are. It's just so weird how I feel. Can't explain it.

>>8838071
>>8838687
It's pretty strange because he's not actually unattractive, just insecure. His self-esteem is crazy low (he's using the old picture because he thinks he looks more handsome in it than in anything taken since), to the point where I borderline wonder if he has BDD or something similar. He's tall, slim, handsome, works out and has an above average cock, but he genuinely seems to think he's fat and ugly with small dick and no muscle, to the point where it's infuriating trying to talk to him. Keeps saying he'll take new photos "once he gets ripped" even though he's been working out for a year already and gains muscle easily.

tbqhon when I lay it all out like that I wonder why I and other friends are even invested in it. I guess we all want to help out a mate but this level of insecurity probably wouldn't be fun for a girl to deal with either.

>>8838056
I'm not but one of my friends is like that, he likes tomboyish girls and feminine guys but isn't into girly girls and can't get off to manly men at all.

>>8838768
Then wait a bit and see if you can make sense of those feelings. Mull them over, but don't go crazy.

>>8838783
I hope so. Thanks anon

>>8833465
Anyone else fucking hate the whole bi/pan thing? Like, they're basically the same thing, but I'm constantly worried that if I say I'm pan people will think I'm some tumblrina and if I say I'm bi they'll think I'm not NB inclusive or whatever.

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>>8819680

>>8837559
>you gon' get buttfuqed this weekend

Seriously? Shit I'm really nervous now. I mean, we haven't really gotten farther than kissing, really.

>>8838997
Yup. I still call myself bi, but when somebody asks what it's like I say "oh, I'm attracted to my gender and other genders." So far nobody's made the smug bi-means-only-two-genders comment.

>>8839791
Don't be nervous. Nothing will happen that you're not uncomfortable with.

>>8834499

For women, try bars or club if you're just in it for the sex. It's a little more effort but usually there are one or two people there intent on a one night stand. The other option is just to meet someone via a mutual friend and go from there.

Regarding men, it's much easier to pick up dudes. Try nearly any dating app. Simple as that. I'm a little above average on a good day and it's pretty easy for me to pick up other guys who are more attractive than me.

>>8833465

Boxers or briefs and why?

>>8840520
>>8840524

This

>why

Comfort

>>8833465
Is there some kind of specific "bi look" or are the only choices looking regular straight or Tumblr homo?

>>8840568

No.

>>8840520

For men, jockstraps.

For women, g strings.

>>8840417
Well it's not like I didn't want to go a little farther when we were hanging out last time. But he suggested that we should stop and in hindsight I'm worried it's because he thought a noise I made was weird or some shit. I'm just nervous mostly because I don't know what I'm doing.

>>8833465

Do you consider yourself more dominant or submissive?

>>8840520
Boyshorts.

>>8840782
100% dominant with guys, switchy sub with girls.

>>8840851

That's interesting. Usually it's the opposite. I'm curious, why?

>>8840782
Sub with guys, sub or equal with girls.

>>8840914
Probably because I'm a cis woman and prefer women, unlike the "typical" male bi. I'm not attracted to dominant men in general and even if I was I don't trust men to not overstep any of my boundaries. The idea of being tied up in front of a guy is terrifying as even with the best of intentions he could do something I don't like, whereas I like a much broader spectrum of sexual activities with women so the chances of any domme who even vaguely gave a fuck about being safe, sane and consensual doing something I dislike is slim.

>>8840782
I mean I'm a virgin but ideally like 50/50 with girls and 95% submissive with guys.

However I'm starting to realize that my submissive tendencies are coming from some pretty severe self esteem issues so I should probably work that shit out before I start having sex.

>>8840927
What do you like about being dominant with men?

>>8840520
Briefs
> Why
Support and not dealing with legs inside of trouser legs.

>>8841001
>not dealing with legs inside of trouser legs
I actually like that feel.

>>8840782
Dom with girls sub with guys

I started dating with a good friend on who i had a crush for a long time. But he isn't really comfortable with his sexuality yet. Is there any way I can help him get more comfortable?

>>8840782

Dom for both but more so with men. I'm insanely turned on by the power dynamic of it all. I enjoy how you're placing another dude into a position he, most probably, never expected to be in. Society has told him what his role is supposed to be since his teens and here he is, on the brink of a prostate orgasm, as another man fucks him. By submitting to you, his entire pleasure is based on what you choose to do to him.

With women, I'm still fairly Dom but you don't have the whole emasculating role reversal that comes with fucking another guy. Just my two cents anyway.

>>8840520
Low waist panties or boyshorts.

>>8840782
Mostly dom with both, but I'm open to switching it up.

>>8841119
>Society has told him what his role is supposed to be since his teens and here he is
hot, more

>>8841077
I guess just make it obvious you're a ready ear to listen to his problems. Encourage him to speak up, but don't pursue the issue to police-interrogation levels.

>>8840782
Submissive all the way. I just wish there were more sexually assertive girls.

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>>8841347
I want flying horses!

>>8841142

Not sure what else you want to know anon

>>8841392
Just describe that same part more. His role and society vs how he feels now.

>>8841422
jesus just go watch porn if you want to jerk off dude.

>>8841422

Well he's been told that he has to be the dominant partner. From his teens onwards, it's been explained in concrete terms what his position is supposed to be. I get off on having him go against this. Having him spread his ass while he bends down. Penetrating him. First slowly but then faster. Hearing him moan as I make him my bitch. It's just so emasculating. The same doesn't really apply to women because there is no choice but for them to bottom.

>>8840782
Sub, but I guess I could see myself becoming a switch when I get some experience. Does that happen - that you get more dominant when you get more experienced?

>>8841482
I have the weirdest boner right now

>>8841482
Not that guy, but do you actually have a lower view of them even outside of the bedroom?

I have no issue with being attracted to guys in itself, but the fact that I want to bottom and find this kind of stuff hot makes me feel pretty embarrassed and ashamed. Like I can't help but feel like that would translate into things outside of just sex, which is not something I'd want in a relationship.

Not to mention how confusing it makes things when I want to be with girls, as most of the time that hinges on me being the more dominant one.

>>8841458
>implying porn has anything on shit like this

>>8841534
If you're the bottom you will always be expected to cave to the top's demands, in or out of the bedroom.
You're called "beta" for a reason.

>>8841547
Yeah that's what I figured.

Guess I'll go back to desperately repressing this shit. I aint about to let my dick dictate my role in life.

>>8841534

Nah, It's just sexual for me. There's probably some psychological reason as to why I feel this way but I try not to think about it too much. I just have some fucked up sadistic views about sex in general, for whatever reason.

>>8841547
Where do power bottoms fit into this?

>>8841569

I can never take 'power bottoms' seriously because I view bottoming as inherently submissive.

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>>8841569
bossy bottoms are just annoying queens who think that bitchiness is a turn-on.
protip: it's not

>>8841562
Don't take that anon seriously, for fuck's sake. You can have a sexual fetish without being expected to fulfil some stereotypical role in the relationship. Saying otherwise is conflating BDSM and abuse.

>>8841638
This

>>8841638
>You can have a sexual fetish without being expected to fulfil some stereotypical role in the relationship.
Technically you can, but don't expect to find someone who indulges your eccentricity. For 99% of people, bottom = submissive.

>>8840782
Does anyone have the numbers for what percentage of each type there are? I think it was 40% tops, 15% switch, 45% bottoms, but I can't find the chart.

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>>8841681

>>8841666
There are plenty of people who'll "indulge" it. Perhaps even moreso in the BDSM community than in mainstream gay circles. I've only met a handful of people IRL who unironically buy into the bottom = submissive and girly shit. Anon should easily be able to find someone who wants a guy who's submissive in the bedroom and normal in the wider relationship if he's upfront about his preferences and moves in the right circles.

>>8841265
Thanks, this helps a lot! Truly

Is it cheating on my gf if I bottom for a dude? Asking for a friend

>>8841705
If you don't tell her about it, then yes. What kind of a question is that.

>>8841705
If she has no clue about it, of course that's cheating

>>8841705
This is why people call us biscum senpai

>>8841705
Unless she knows and agrees, yes you fucking slut. Even if she says yes, it's still kinda cheating unless she's there to watch.

>>8841704
No problem. People on the whole like to bottle up their problems until they become worse, so be careful.

>>8841722
Why would her watching change things? Some people

>>8841666
I thought submissive was the gender-nonspecific version of bottom. E.g. if your girlfriend rides your face you're being submissive, whereas bottom is strictly male-being-penetrated-by-penis territory. I didn't think either described how you behave outside the bedroom.

>>8841690
Thanks

>>8841732
If you're in a relationship with somebody, and you have sex without them, it just feels wrong to me. Whereas if your girlfriend was in the room, she's still be involved, you're not having sex independent of her. Especially if she has a thing for yaoi.

>>8841737
Submissive and dominant are terms that can be applied to a personality but bottom/top is a dichotomy that's easily applicable to other things.

Lesbians have tops and bottoms still for example, people who can't open water bottles are bottoms, if you never use your blinker you're a top, if you think enough about this kind of thing you're probably a bottom, etc.

>>8841760
>>8841732
She becomes a participant sexually by watching you get railed in the same room, unless it's like some disgusting cuck thing where she only gets despair. Otherwise, what? Is she supposed to feel nice that you're getting sexually satisfied with 0 input from her part?
"It's nice you love getting fucked by someone else entirely, I'm glad you asked me about it."
Maybe if they had a fetish or a kink for it but even still.

>>8841968
>if you never use your blinker you're a top,
Oh, so tops are retarded inconsiderate assholes?

Your view of sexuality is really fucked and one dimensional.

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>>8842002
I'm taking the piss; it's a metaphor FOOL? Are you a top? Pound anyone today?

>>8842010
A metaphor is only as good for as far you can keep it going before it breaks down. That metaphor breaks down almost immediately. Your metaphors are shit and you are shit. And I'm not a top.

>>8842002
>you owe me anal sex!

yeah, no

Reminder that you can still stop attention whoring and become productive members of society

>The fact that Hamer’s study cannot be replicated confirms reports that Hamer lied about his results. In 1998, another group of researchers (Sanders, et al.) tried to replicate Hamer’s study as well; they also failed to find a genetic connection to homosexuality.

>Then, in the Aug. 6, 1999, edition of Science, George Rice and George Ebers published a review of Hamer’s study to go along with their previous attempts to replicate his findings. The scientists stated that the results of Hamer’s study “did not support an X-linked gene underlying male homosexuality.” They found that the brothers observed by the Hamer group were no more likely to share the Xq28 markers than would be expected by mere chance.

>By this time, Hamer had already conceded that his pseudo-scientific study did not support a genetic cause for homosexuality, in the Jan. 30, 1998, edition of the Washington Blade. He also conceded that homosexuality is “culturally transmitted, not inherited,” and that “there is not a single master gene that makes people gay. … I don’t think we will ever be able to predict who will be gay,” he said.

>Consider the obvious problem of survival for individuals who allegedly possess a gay gene: individuals who have partners of the same sex are biologically unable to reproduce (without resorting to artificial means). Therefore, if an alleged “gay gene” did exist, the homosexual population eventually would disappear altogether. We now know that it is not scientifically accurate to refer to a “gay gene” as the causative agent in homosexuality. The available evidence clearly establishes that no such gene has been identified. Additionally, evidence exists which documents that homosexuals can change their sexual orientation. Future decisions regarding policies about, and/or treatment of, homosexuals should reflect this knowledge.

>>8842010
How good is Serial Experiments Lain anyway? A bunch of cyberpunk lovers I talk to practically gush about it. Is it even that cyberpunk?

>>8842124
>Therefore, if an alleged “gay gene” did exist, the homosexual population eventually would disappear altogether.
That's not true at all and shows no understanding of multi-gene inheritance or recessive genes. There were animal studies (in sheep I believe) showing that there seemed to be some sort of gene for "attraction to men" that perpetuated because even though it resulted in some male offspring being gay, their sisters were more likely to be straight and reproduce. Similar mechanisms could be in place in humans.

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>>8842143
DYECP?

>>8842212
>DYECP
>Google gives me nothing

What does it mean?

>>8842237
Do You Even Cheese Pizza?

>>8842260
What does lain have to do with cheese pizza? [spoiler]I hope you're not referring to CP[/spoiler]

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>>8842237
>>8842295

Low IQ detected.
She obviously meant CyberPunk, the subject of the discussion.
JFC

>>8842364
Sorry people, brain fried after last night

I'm not hardcore into it. Got drawn in via dangeru

>>8840780
relax qt. being nervous and making noises during sexytimes is natural and if you're inexperienced, then who better to get experience with than a close friend who really likes you? your bff/bf is probably just taking things slow just because you're new to the whole hooking up with a guy thing.

>>8840956
The control. Sometimes I wonder if this is just a repression fetish thing, since the original reason I got into it was because if a guy's tied up he can't touch me and I feel in control of the scene. But also guys that are tied up, in pain or desperately aroused but can't cum are just incredibly cute.

Also I prefer oral sex to penetration and it's easy to get a lot of oral in an F/m scenario.

>>8843533
Shut up dude. A lot of us guys would love to have more girls be into that kind of thing. It's just sex, stop being a judgmental loser.

>>8843582
Well, at least he got the 'boy' part right. Guy posts like my 11 year old fundamentalist-raised nephew.

Have any of you had people try to get your attention in obnoxiously incompetent ways? I'm not talking about autistic kids sucking at conversation, but people who are (probably?) not autistic and should have the knowledge on how to initiate a proper conversation but choose not to.

>>8843649
You are posting in the bisexual thread on the lgbt board. If you believe in firmly defined gender/sexual roles in the bedroom then this is really not the right place for you.

>>8843704
>i will face you
*he said anonymously over the internet on a Montenegran abortion-worshipping image board*

No sense in egging it on. Filter and ignore.

How was your day today /bigen/?

>>8843733
Very boring, but comfy. Some moron tried to get my attention by banging on the counter at an on-campus diner but fuck that faggot noise

Really considering buying a PS Vita for this upcoming dungeon crawler game but idk

>>8843747
>faggot noise
What were they doing?

And a PS Vita eh? I know I had a PSP eons ago, but haven't been keeping up with games for a while. Life's taking too much of my time away.

>>8843755
mmmm daddy keep talking dirty to me

keep telling me what a dirty little faggot I am baby

>>8843755
What's funny is you probably pass us on the street, talk to us, work with us, and you have no clue whatsoever.

>>8843733
Report and ignore not just filter, idiot admitted he was underage. Even if he was only pretending that's a bannable offense.

My day wasn't great, I'm behind on work and stressed about it. My bf's coming home from his trip tomorrow though so I'm excited for that. We're probably going to spend the evening building flat-pack furniture together.

>>8843774
Enjoy your ban then. Adults only on 4chan.

Also you'll probably be joining us with behavior like that. Some people say homophobia is a cover for denying their own sexuality.

>>8843774
ooohhh thank you daddy, seeing you be so assertive makes my tight little boypussy ache for you, please don't stop I really need to cum!

>>8843756
He's been trying to come onto me for a bit, but does it in stupid ways. I mean, I'm down to talk to randos but this was just retarded.

>Talks at me very rapidly as I walk past without giving me proper time to snap out of "got to walk to x to do mundane crap" mode or respond
>No eye contact or any form of proper body language indicating "Hey, let's talk". I don't know if I properly explained this but I hope it gets across.
>And now the table smacking while I was at the counter looking at my phone waiting for dinner

I mean, he seems to have friends. Surely he knows how to approach people.

>>8843785
yum, is that how you're gonna abuse me daddy :P I want you to hurt me baby

>>8843791
Seems pretty annoying. Sounds like he can't take a hint.

>>8843780
Sorry to hear that anon. And ooh. Move recently?

>>8843733
Today and the past few days have been interesting. Had a crush on a guy again... Just now accepting my bisexuality to myself. Not sure how exactly I feel about it.

>>8843811
I moved two months ago but I'd been working a bunch and some rooms were unoccupied for the summer so getting furniture in every room wasn't a priority. Now it's September everyone's back (student houseshare), so shit needs sorting to make his room a proper bedroom instead of just a place to store boxes.

>>8843824
Said this before in the thread, but take it slowly. Don't jump into anything out of your comfort zone yet. Being bi is just something about you like "my favorite color is green" or "Pineapples on pizza are nothing to write home about". Though I'm somewhat curious anon, what specifically made you accept it to yourself?

>>8843811
Right. Last semester this Indian guy sat next to me while I was studying and eating. No lie, his offer to buy me a drink on his meal plan was extremely weird but at least he knew how to initiate, hold a proper conversation and never gave me any shit after that.

>>8843899
>drink on his meal plan
Haha that's awesome. Makes me wish I didn't drop out (and that I was more social).

>>8843913
You dropped out?! Sheesh

>>8843899
I knew that's who I was for years, but I never really let myself think about it. I had had crushes and dated women in the past, but recently I started texting my crush and last time we met we just talked for 6 hours straight. It made me certain that I definitely want to have a thing with him, but before I do anything I needed to accept it and give it time to settle.

>>8843923
Yup. It wasn't really my thing. I already have had a few jobs in the field so I don't think I'll be that worse off without the degree.

>>8843838
I feel that. Always hated moving. Such a hassle and the place just doesn't feel like home.

>>8843840
>biblical definition of marriage

Where's my harem?

Where are my sex slaves?

>>8843840
god isn't real, but some old jews had laws i guess. well they had some paper and some feather pens and ink. doesn't mean shit though

>>8843923
>?! Sheesh
Way to stop anon feeling bad about it!

>>8843942
Ah, okay. As long as you have a good plan for yourself. The people I've known who've dropped out so far...haven't fared so well hence the strong reaction

>8843840

thank the lord that faggot is gone

Is it possible for one person to suck cock and eat pussy at the same time?

>>8844425
aint there a type of person with both sets of plumming

>>8844430

Yeah, but say you had two people. Could you please them both with your mouth at the same time?

>>8844461
How big would your mouth have to be to do that?

>>8844489

No clue.

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I don't know if I'm actually attracted to girls or I just tell myself I am so I don't force myself into being gay and fucking up the relationship with my religious family

sex with a girl is 'interesting' to me in the same way that sex with a guy is, but there aren't any girls that arouse me
I don't use porn but I think of guys 90% of the time
There are guys I know that I'm into but I don't pursue it because I think of if I ever have a relationship with a girl it'd have to be a religious one and if I had to admit I had done sexual stuff with guys that could be a breaking point

>>8845085
>but I think of guys 90% of the time
And the 10%?

>>8845146
vaginal sex, but not associated with a specific person or face
also sometimes I don't think of anything sexual at all - eg I'm planning out in my head what I'm going to do today and fapping is just to stop any distracting sensitive erections getting in the way during the day

>tfw no female fwb to have kinky threesomes with me and my bf

>>8845496
Bifem?

>>8845523
no I'm a guy too.

>>8845526
Less hot but more romantic.

>>8834105
If by 4chan you mean reddit then yes you are correct, otherwise you are delusional.

>>8845085
Same with me (f) and men, senpai. I've only had crushes on two guys in my entire life, and can't even masturbate to men half the time. I fantasize about girls, but since my family is conservative as fuck, I'm going to have to marry a guy and pop out a couple kids. I can imagine my ideal girlfriend easily, but an ideal husband is just a vague concept to me.

>>8845631
Pseudobi.

>>8845655
I guess. I'm a 5 on the Kinsey scale, so technically not a complete dyke.

>>8842914
>your bff/bf is probably just taking things slow just because you're new to the whole hooking up with a guy thing.

It was something kind of like this. We wound up talking about it when we were together last night.

>>8843824
I've been kind of in the same place, myself. I thought I only liked girls for the longest time but was never really interested in doing more than holding their hands or whatever. Then I realized that some of the mushy stuff I day dreamed about doing with girls I also thought about doing with guys--namely, a friend of mine.

>>8845085
iktf, bro

Don't do this to yourself, anon. You don't have to marry a guy just because your family are conservative - it's not fair to you or the guy. I'm a cisfemale with a religious family too and I'm living out that suspiciously single life. Better to have them think you're a spinster than force yourself into a marriage you don't want.

What cat breeds does /bigen/ like? I fell in love with Maine Coons, they are so fucking sweet and fluffy. One of these days when I have a place of my own and a comfortable enough income, definitely getting at least two cats.

>>8846883
None. Because I'm allergic to all of them.

>>8846893
Man, that sucks. How about dogs or other animals? Diamond doves are pretty cute and dainty.

>>8846893
Same but I wish I wasn't.

Dogs seem better tho if you get a sane one.

>>8846893
I'm also allergic, but cats are my favourite animal however. Luckily my neighbours have a outdoors cat, who frequently takes naps on my couch.

>>8846883
I always fancied a Norwegian skogkatt, but other than that I'm not bothered about breed and am happy to adopt tabbies from shelters.

I'm slightly allergic to all furry animals though so I probably wouldn't.

>>8846994
Notwegian forest cats don't have dander to set off your allergies.

>in a longterm monogamous relationship
>realise I'll never ever fuck a girl ever again

How to come to terms with this? Sucks because I love my bf and there's no way I'd be into a poly thing

>>8847601
Hmm. Not quite sure. Just remember all the good shit about your bf that drew you to him and is keeping you there?

>>8847640
Oh, it's not that I don't really love my bf. I totally adore him. It's just kind of existentially weird to think about.

>>8847640
To add onto this, just remember that if you weren't bi you'd probably be having lots of random thoughts about what you may be giving up for a committed LTR. I think it's pretty common to feel like you're not truly down sowing your wild oats yet and experience some "grass is greener" type thoughts.

>>8847678
True, haven't quite thought of it that way. Haven't had much experience with actual dating aside from a 2 week trainwreck

>>8847678
Oh, that's a good point. I feel better about it now.

>>8847601
Is your bf bi too? It doesn't have to be a poly thing to have a threesome with a girl every once in a while or maybe just hook up with one with his consent. I'm very much not into poly kind of relationships either but if I had a bi partner I could imagine a few exceptions here and there.

>>8846073
>You don't have to marry a guy just because your family are conservative - it's not fair to you or the guy
it'd be a girl in my case but I get your point and you're right
but the thing is it might not be out of obligation - there are girls I've been interested in before (but it's always been from the perspective of an emotional relationship and not focusing on the sex part) - the issue is whether conservative girls would be okay with someone bi that's done shit with guys before. Even if I don't ever do that, just admitting that I've wanted to might be too much for them.
I get that it's my life and I shouldn't have to justify it to anyone, but I value the community I've grown up in enough to not want to fuck that up

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>>8840520
>Boxers or Briefs?
Boxer briefs
>Why?
Just the right amount of snugness, without my nuts feeling like they're in a vice grip or constantly clinging to my thighs.

>>8840568
Nah, just wear whatever.

>>8840782
Dominant, no matter my partner

>>8843733
My Saturday was filled with yard work and some quick fixes around the homestead. Pretty boring stuff.

>>8846883
Always been more of a dog person but if I had to choose, I'd go Manx.

>>8846071
>It was something kind of like this.
oooh? how did it go down exactly? you never gave us details about how the talk you had with him went either. you said you'd update us qt anon

>be me
> Bi for 2 years
> live at mom's house
> accidently leave tells (ordered socks to the house... Story in another thread)
> Mom would be supportive if she knew. Step-dad perhaps would not.
> He makes remarks when a trans person comes up on TV
> suspiciously single, mom is always asking questions

Do normal people already know I'm Bi from how I act or my mannerisms? I think it's pretty obvious when I think about myself, but I don't know.

>>8833465

I'm visiting this awful board from /pol/ and even I can see that you fucking posers don't belong here.

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>can't tell if i'm actually attracted to women or has the sexualization of the female form by the media just made me naturally see them as sexy
what do?

>>8849891
>implying there's a difference

>>8849891
Holy shit, I've been wondering the same thing lately, only not because of media. Thought I was the only one. I think since I've never had romantic feelings for a woman and can't imagine ever having them I must just be gay.

>>8849857
>From /pol/
>The most Bisexual board on 4Chan
Nice try.

>>8849947
i feel you,
then again i don't truly know what romantic feelings for a woman would even be. is wanting to live with one enough? wanting to hold their hand?
i /do/ entertain fantasies of being with a woman and settling down, and i feel it could he nice, but i have to actively make myself think that way, or a male figure slots himself into that spot.

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First off, let me tell you I'm mtf 3 years in HRT with zero results. May as well be taking sugar pills.
Now that I got that out of the way, here is my predicament.

I tell myself I'm bi. I only jerk to straight/les/tranny porn, I've only ever had relationships with women, but am currently chasing a passable mtf. I'm also currently chatting up two guys who have the hots for me and really enjoying the attention. What the fuck am I?
Am I simply a virgin with dudes and just don't know what I'm missing yet?

>>8849965
I guess just compare what you think might be romantic feelings for a woman to how you know you feel when you have romantic feelings for a man. The relationship dynamic is very different, but I think the feelings would be the same. So do you feel more deeply and intensely towards the man, does imagining it come more naturally, etc. Sounds like you already have the answer to the second part.

I still bothers me that I'm not sure if I'm at least sexually attracted to women though desu. It's irrelevant to my life because I'm all about the romance, but it feels weird to not be sure of my orientation.

>>8850073
*It still

Hello how noticeable will it be for a guy to pluck his eye brows?
I don't want anybody but me to notice.

>>8849827
>Story in another thread
link thread pls

>>8849827
>Do normal people already know I'm Bi from how I act or my mannerisms?
if anything they'll think you're gay because any non-het personality trait means gay, I don't know of any stereotypical bi-specific traits

>>8849827
Unless you leave gay porn open on the computer or something obvious like that, the most they can do is suspect, and suspicions can always be denied.
>>8850167
It depends how much you pluck them. If you just clean up a few stray hairs around the edges, nobody will notice, but if you pluck enough to completely change their shape, the chance of people noticing is higher.

>>8850073
fuck iktf

>>8850619
I just want to pluck some hairs in between my two eye brows, maybe I should just do a few a day instead of getting rid of them all.
I think there's like 15 small ones ):

>>8850614
>>8842753

>>8850624
>in between my two eye brows
People will think it's cleaner that's all. Monobrows are gross.

>>8850054
>I'm also currently chatting up two guys who have the hots for me and really enjoying the attention.

Well, would you enjoy it if one (or both, no judgement here) has sex with you? Do you just string them along for the attention or do you actually feel sexual/romantic attraction? Honestly anon, nobody here can see inside your head. Only you can know if you're bi or lesbian. Though it definitely sounds like you're at least a 5-6 on the Kinsey scale.

>>8850616
I see, but thats still dangerous imo.

>>8850619
I guess.

I think the biggest signs are how I stand up naturally (always relax one leg so my hip pops out) among other things like how I always end up crossing my legs at the ankles, haven't had a girl at the house in years, my replies to questions about dates, etc.

Also sorry for just now replying. Was only awake enough to make >>8850638

>>8850730
That does sound a bit suspicious, but even if someone tries to "reveal your gayness" none of that is solid proof. Until they catch you doing something homo, you're just a little weird.

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>>8850730
>I think the biggest signs are how I stand up naturally (always relax one leg so my hip pops out)

Is this really a sign?

>>8850812
It's not normal family

>>8850616
>>8849827
I actually know for a fact that a couple friends of mine think I'm bi despite having never hinted towards it.

I remember a number of people were hanging out at a friends place for his birthday, and for some reason I had gotten considerably drunker than the rest and had just passed out on the couch. But I was still awake and could hear one of my close friends and one of my more peripheral friends talking.

>"hey, is anon gay?"
>"nah, I thought so for a while but everytime we get drunk he gets really hammered and rants about all the various girls he's missed out on and gets way too specific to be making it up. Probably just bi."

And that's how I learned I had a slight drinking problem.

>>8850812
>>8850829
Pete Holmes, who is straight, has a bit on exactly that. He admits that it looks effeminate but it's just straight up the most comfortable way to stand.

>>8850829
>>8850812
>>8850857
found the joke

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TcnyYEqN6lQ

>>8850857
Interesting how people can tell.

>>8850867
Thanks for sharing. Had a laugh.

>>8849183
Shit sorry I didn't know y'all were waiting on that. Well I mean what kind of details are you looking for?

>>8849054
Hey uh, you wanted to know how the talk went with my friend so I wanted to tell you it went pretty great! And thanks for giving me advice and all.

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>white guy
>attracted to East Asians regardless of gender
>submissive, would prefer a dominant gf/bf/nbf

Do I have yellow fever? Am I being weird/creepy/problematic by finding a specific race attractive? I can only find articles that deal with hetero AW relationships, I can't work out if what they say applies to me.

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What the fuck kind of rock does the guy live under?????

>>8851450
Why are you encouraging this behavior

>>8851612
Cause having cock in his butt makes him happy and I want people to be happy.

>>8851450
>w-wow, I totes hadn't even heard of this 'grindr' thing!

Pretty unconvincing desu, he just wanted to play innocent.

>>8851117
Wunderbar! Glad to have been of some help. Here's hoping the two of you make each other quite happy and that your fondness of one another only grows.

>>8851201
Yellow fever? If you wanna call it that, sure, you've got the bug to fugg. And don't worry about being 'problematic' or some other lunacy like that. You're you, and you have your own tastes. If someone wants to demonize you for having a preference, fuck em. Those people can promptly eat a choad.

in school, i used to fuck tons of girls who were in straight repationships because their boyfriends all basically said lesbian sex didn't count and gave them the ok.

>>8851201
>>8851755
>If someone wants to demonize you for having a preference, fuck em.
I mean to be fair, there are some people who take that kind of thing beyond just having preferences. Not that it seems that anon here does, but you will see people who start to fetishize certain races and I can't imagine that's healthy. I mean I think Black guys are hot, but all that BBC blacked cuck shit you see nowadays is weird as hell and probably born out racism.

But yeah I basically agree. It's fine to like specific races, just don't make it weird, which is pretty vague but also pretty easy to recognize.

>>8851811
Nice. desu my ideal would be to get a bi gf, who'd be okay with us occasionally hooking up with others of the same sex while we remain heterosexually monogamous.

Then again it'd pretty cool to have a bi bf where we'd pick up chicks together and have threesomes galore.

Then again I'd probably get way too self conscious and worry that we'd be losing some kind of emotional intimacy in both situations. I don't fuckin know, sex is weird.

>>8851201
>Am I being weird/creepy/problematic by finding a specific race attractive?
literally everyone consciously or subconsciously has a preferred race. It's one of the few areas where discrimination is accepted (it's not like you can be forced to be with someone you aren't attracted to just to not look like a racist)

>>8851904
Fetishes are their own preferences/desires, an extreme of more mild stimulus. Is it racist to aggrandize a race based on their reoccurring physical features, skin color, culture, etc in a sexual manner? Some might think so, but you find people who embrace race based fetishes. Plenty of black men that play into the BBC/cuck fetish, just like there are plenty of white men who play into the raceplay or 'colonized' fetishes. Don't see the harm so long as both parties are willing and the fetishist doesn't try project their fetish on an unwilling partner. However, I wouldn't expect to build a meaningful relationship based purely on that novelty. Anyone who'd expect that is kind of foolish.

I need some help here.

I'm bi since I was 14, but now that I've got a boyfriend I'm feeling pretty much full-gay.
Is this a "phase" or is my sexuality actually changing? I can't even get off to women anymore.
I appreciate if anyone who got through something like this could give advice.

>>8852303
It's normal to have have things fluctuate like that, especially if you're bi. Since you're in a gay relationship it seems pretty expected that that's where your mind would be primarily focused right now. In time you're interest in women might start coming back, or maybe it won't but don't worry about. As long as it's not hurting anything, enjoy your feelings and desires as they come and go.

>>8851201
Just don't see all East Asians as purely for a fetish and you'll be fine.

t. cis chinese woman

How do I stop wanting to be such a buttslut. I'm a virgin and generally want to lose my virginity to a girl while in a relationship but the cocklust keeps popping up every once in a while and has caused me to get pretty close to hooking up with someone from online, which is almost certainly something I'm going to regret. I don't want to be a whore, so why does my dick keep trying to turn me into one.

>>8853591
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
You probaly just have cheater genes and should be single.

Have any dudes here tried signing up for gay dating/hookup apps or sites or whatever with something along the lines of "wanting to experiment" in their profile?

If so, how did it work out?

>>8840520
briefs
i like my legs to show more
but possibly boxers if its baggy and big

>>8840568
not really stereo-typically, besides the female bisexual haircut that goes on with tv and all that. nothing really for guys though. if you're looking to be kind of obvious, wear the biflag colors or a pin or something, unless you wanna be subtle
>>8840782
sub
>>8841705
yes you fucking idiot, if youre having sex with another person and they or you cum or get naked intimately that is cheating, this is why people hate us

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Just got out of a 3 year relationship with a girl who I thought was the one, /bigen/. Latest and greatest heartbreak yet. I think I'm just gonna stick to cuddle buddies and friends with benefits from now on, fuck love and fuck romance. I have plenty of qt friends of both genders who are down for snuggles anytime and a few who are open to fucc. Just gonna grow old and live alone in a big house with my cat and corgi and have friends over often. That'll make me happy.

>>8853711
>the female bisexual haircut
?

>>8855342
what about when all your friends are married and have kids and can't spare any time for you

>when you realize that you only want a relationship with a man and a woman because you want them to be parent substitutes

>>8855363
A lot of them have similar outlooks on romance and marriage to mine and have for years, so that's not likely

>>8855342
>Just gonna grow old and live alone in a big house with my cat and corgi and have friends over often. That'll make me happy.

It won't last

>>8855570
Even if it doesn't, it's better than having my heart broken yet again.

>>8855585
But your defenses will drop. That heartbroken feeling you have now will be a distance memory, and you'll think "this time it'll last" and the cycle will continue.

>>8833654
Get really drunk

>>8855589
Nah, man. I'm done for good.

>>8840782
dom both
especially %110 dom with guys

>>8855775

>especially %110 dom with guys

same reason as >>8841482 or is there some other reason?

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>>8841690
>chrome
>incognito mode
i came over from /g/ to laugh at you

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>>8855788
not in a animalistic buttfucking way, no. i like rope play and my partner to be completely in my web, super sensitive to my touch and sound of my breath, not sure what will i do next to tease or incite pain(not pain as in harm; pinches on carefully considered places, electric shocks, clamps, hot/cold play)

>>8833465

When did you first fall for someone?

>tfw meeting a guy for the first time soon and im super scared i might be straight
wat do

>>8856587
I'm in the same boat. Kinda nervous.

>>8856587
>>8857211
Did you also suddenly realize you liked guys after spending too long on the internet?

>>8857241
Nah.

Following up, the night went well. He's pretty weird but I am too... I guess that's part of being gay.

>>8840782
top
and submissive (because I'm mostly lazy)
for both

>>8859356
>top
>and submissive

That's not how it works anon.

>>8857211
>>8857241
>>8858724
Same, I could tell he probably wanted to fuck but we're both a bit awkward so

>>8861443
Out of curiosity where are you from anon

>>8861457
sweden

>>8861459
Well good, you're not the guy I saw then. That's exactly how I would have described the night.

How do you break the awkward barrier? We got along and talked for hours, but never really went anywhere.

>>8861466
i have no fucking clue, im a kissless virgin and i "dated" a girl a while ago and we never got past this stage either fuck why do i gotta pick the passive people

>>8861471
Haha I agree with you so much. I really don't know how to gently make moves. He's definitely not the guy to take that role so Im going to have to be.

>>8861478
it just felt like we were going out as two friends but we had lots of fun and talked constantly for like 4-5 hours and then after he texted me and said he wished "we could have hung out longer" (he obviously wanna fuck) and called me cute

i cant do this shit mang i have social anxiety i cant be the aggressive dude

>>8861486
Yes. This exactly.

Someone successful please help us out of this hell.

>>8861491
idk if you're the original dude that replied to me but im so fucking scared that im straight and just pretending because im desperate so thats another reason why i dont wanna be the one to push it but at the same time i dont wanna take too long because maybe he falls in love with me then what if im straight and i have to break his heart then i will have to kill myself fuck fuck fuck

>>8861497
Don't be afraid of breaking his heart if you realize you're straight. I'm sure he'd understand how confusing it can be sometimes. I wouldn't be too upset about it if I were on the other end tbqh.

>>8861503
but then i will fulfill the stereotype of the bisexual that is just bisexual for attention

>>8861497
Also relax family, your fine.

>>8861520
I don't think that's the case because of what you're saying and how you're acting. Even if that is what ends up happening it's not like you'd be the first or the last.

>>8861497
>but im so fucking scared that im straight and just pretending because im desperate
Who cares, just enjoy dating him either way and tell him you don't want sex if you don't.

>>8861415
with a powerbottom bf, it does.

>>8861608
Those ain't real nigga

>>8861471
>>8861478
Best thing to do is to be observant of the situation. If the other appears relaxed and enjoying themselves, it's a good indicator that they're probably warming up to you. This opens them up for physical advances but it's good to ease into it and use appropriate judgment/timing. Say, you're alone with them and have been talking back and forth for maybe an hour, that's more than enough time to begin said advances. Start with something like taking their hand during a conversation, just gently take their hand, rub the back of it with your thumb. Or, if you're both on sitting together, scoot up close, wrap your arm around them and rub their adjacent shoulder and or upper arm. This is to test the water, see their reaction to the transition of physical contact from merely talking. If the reaction is positive, you're doing good, keep doing it. Be sure to keep talking, leaves no room for an awkward silence. Once it feels right, move up to more intimate actions like
light squeezing of the thigh, rubbing of the knee. Again, pay attention to their reactions, watch their facial expressions, keep note of their body language. If they aren't stiffening or moving away, doing good so far. Moving into kissing is fairly easy, once you've buttered them up with physical contact, use your eyes to kind of signal that you're wanting to kiss. Make it seem that you're studying their face, with a good bit of focus on their lips and eyes. Hold a more soft expression when you do it, as not to freak them out. And once you have them looking back at you, take the chance to move in for a kiss. Not too face and not painfully slow, start with a sweet pop kiss then, go in for a deeper, longer kiss. Joking helps with dissolving anxiety that being assertive might bring you, as well, so try injecting a bit of humor and or playfulness into your advances. If you have any specific questions or something further elaborated I'd be happy to answer to the best of my abilities.

>>8861691
*Not too fast

Is it possible to find a normal bf? All the guys I've met are off in some way or another...

>>8862065
soooo you really think you're normal? uh?!

>>8862129
No I know I'm not. But when I dated girls they seemed much more... In line I guess

>>8862155
females are for normies, m8
(they're also more tempted to hide their flaws because social norms and patriarchy told them to do so)

>>8862284
If you say so...

The boys I've met recently are at the level where I'm not comfortable falling asleep around them or their bed. They seem like they are on next level stuff

>>8862529
>next level stuff
...like rape?
yeah avoid these guys.

What do I do if I'm just interested in sucking a dick and receiving anal? I have no attraction to the idea of kissing a man or having him suck me off and I would never want a relationship with a guy other than purely sexual (so I think I'm bi....)

How do I get started? Pls halp. All I want is a phat dick pushed inside me. I want to be dominated but I don't know how to go about meeting someone just for that. I'm really new to all this. Any help is greatly appreciated.

>>8863916
just install Grindr on your phone: most of gay guys there just want to hooking up, suck/get suck or fuck and don't want any more serious. Tell them what you want, and good luck with that (if you live in a big city, your 'problem' will be solved in 15mn max.)

>>8863916
Grindr. Make a profile, explain what you want up front, USE PROTECTION (doesn't eliminate the risk of infection, but does significantly lower it, especially for HIV). Might be an idea to meet up in public first so you can judge their character. Also keep in mind there's an inherent risk of being raped and/or getting an STD, you'll have to weigh that risk against your cocklust. Oh, and get yourself checked at a sexual health clinic afterwards.

>always hated how I looked
>recently moved in to my sister's old room
>home alone, tried wearing skinny jeans and a crop top
>loved it, spent the day parading around the house checking myself out in mirrors
>had to change back before family got home
>currently lying in bed, once again disgusted at myself

Why do I have to live on a shitty council estate? (For Americans, the equivalent would be section 8 housing). There are parts of London where I could wear this and nobody would bat an eyelid, but I'd be battered if I stepped outside in anything remotely androgynous.

>>8833465
Fuck off attention whore.

>>8833654
Stop acting like sexual autists.

>>8864623
mfw no qt repressed androgynous Londonian twink

>>8865085
Well, if you ever see a feminine-looking guy in a baggy hoodie and jeans walking down the street looking like he wants to throw himself under the nearest bus, go up to him and ask for a blowjob. There's a 0.000000001% chance you'll make my day.

>When BiGen might actually reach bump limit

Feels good, man

>>8867284
All the screeching saging gays helped keep it relevant.

>>8867284
>>8867295
I just wish we had more to talk about.

do you ever feel bad going after gays because you fit the definition of biscum and aren't looking for anything long term? Are you upfront about the fact you don't want it to be long term?

>>8833465

>Thread is nearing bump limit

Everyone fine with me making a new /bigen/ thread?

>>8868490
At least let us reach 300, it'd make a nice change.

>>8868499

alrighty then

>>8833465

Have you ever hooked up with or been in a relationship with someone from a different country? How'd it go?

>>8869026
the language was an issue sometimes (France/UK) and it stopped me to being more natural and intimate; still worth it tho.

>>8869026

Two french women, an English guy, a German dude, and a welsh woman.

>How'd it go?

Overall, pretty good. The two french women smoked a lot which was more stereotypical than I expected. English fucker was infatuated with politics and philosophy and would not shut up about it. He was a little pretentious but a nice guy overall. Welsh girl was just really sweet and shy. We got along well. I wish I had spent more time with her. German lad was into really fucked up sex and S&M. He was a little too arrogant for my liking but I went with it because he was hot.

bi guys, do you tell girls about your sexuality or just keep quiet about it? Most girls hate it in my experience. How do you find girls who are cool with it?

>>8869267
I plan to not tell them about it unless they somehow make it explicitly clear that it's something they're cool with. I know that's probably fucked up, but it's hard enough to get a girl interested in me, I'm not gonna risk scaring one off with something that's barely even relevant if we're in a monogamous relationship.

>>8869267

For sex, no. If it's just a one night stand, they don't need to know. For a genuine romantic relationship, yeah i'm pretty upfront about it. Not gonna lie, it's a turn off for a lot of women but I really don't want to spend the entire relationship lying to her. On the bright, some women (albeit a minority) are really into it.

Not that it's matter too much tho. Most of my past relationships have been with other bisexual women and men.

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>told my gay bf im bi

worst mistake ever, now he thinks I might leave him for a broad later in life

fuck my fucking life

>>8869887
He should trust you. Make it clear that you want to be with him, if that's the case.

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>>8869922
I try to. I hope it becomes increasingly clear as time goes by too. I won't leave him and I don't think he'll leave me.

I guess the only way to truly make him trust my intentions would be to marry him but I dont believe in gay marriage so whatever

>>8869267
I've always been upfront about my sexuality when the discussion comes up in a relationship, but most people I date know full well I'm bisexual by the time we start dating. For those instances where my female partners were unaware prior to going out with me, the reaction has always been positive, often one of two reactions; 1. They have questions about how it works, I answer to the best of my abilities, and everything carries on as normal or 2. They take it as "Out of all the people he could've gotten with, he ended up with me." Type deal, where me having such a broad horizon and still deciding to pursue them comes off as endearing or sweet. HOWEVER, I think that my situations might differ because I'm exclusively a top, a fact I also make known when discussing sexuality. If I were a bottom or switch in same sex relationships, women might react quite differently.

>>8833638
I often jerk to gay and trans porn, I top guys, but I don't want to date or kiss men outside of sex (not that I think about kissing women when I see them either).
Am I homophobic not to want to date? Are guys just a fetish for me and I enjoy sex?
Maybe I'm just not comfortable with myself yet as I'm not out and haven't been with guys for very long.

Obligatory am I bi. I'm female btw

> been interested in girls since I was a kid
> as I got older started to find men attractive too. I can look at a man and get smitten and go love sick stupid
> but I don't like the d, I'd rather have the v sexually. Dicks don't turn me on like vag does
> still attracted to women but not as much as men, not really into boobs

>>8838997
With a blinding fury, anon. With a blinding fury.

>>8839806
Absolutely. As a bi who is attracted to everyone, it feels like as soon as the pan-identifiers walk into a room or convo that anyone who has the ~audacity~ to reclaim bi isn't as "accepting", "modern", or is a big ol' binarist.

Don't get me started on the imbeciles who use the "Bisexual has a bi prefix, just like binary!!1! That's why I'm pan," argument. Like, congrats dumbass, you have no clue how language works.

Honestly, I see anyone who calls themselves pan as huge biphobes.

>>8841482
Nah, chicks totally have a choice in domming. It's AMAZINGLY hot, but then I love dom, switch, and sub versions of all types of people.

Also I'm a switch.