I'm a gay top but I'm not jacked as shit. I get really insecure about it but my boyfriend says I'm being dumb and has never acted like he wasn't attracted to me. Am I just paranoid? Or are not buff tops undesirable.
>>8821902
He actually hates you. I have been fucking him sideways for months. You need to fasten your tin foil hat more to stop the anti-work out beams! In other words, yes, you are being a paranoid idiot.
>>8821902
If you're not happy with the way you look, do something about it. Hit the gym faggot. Bitching about your insecurities here won't help.
Your boyfriend probably thinks that muscles don't matter, but I guarantee you'll see a difference in his behavior if you do get fit.
>>8821902
Buff guys should be bottoms.
They have beautiful bodies and big juicy asses like women.
They like to look pretty and invest a lot of time and energy in doing so, like women.
They should know their role.
But yeah, I think most bottoms want a buff guy who can pick them up and power fuck them.
The best thing a too can be is emotionless and angry though. I was a much better top when I hated the world and didn't regard the guys I fuck as human beings.
I imagine he now understands that he was being a retarded. Glad we helped his self esteem.
>>8821910
Are you giving the same advice to anorexics.
>>8821941
If they were muscle anorexics I bet he would! I don't fucking know, but I think you get my point. Working out is healthy. Eating healthy is healthy. Eating just "less" is not healthy.
Tbh it makes me feel better hearing from fellow fag-kin that it's probably just me being stupid.
>>8821902
porn is not real life
>>8821910
>I guarantee you'll see a difference in his behavior if you do get fit.
I'm a bottom and muscles are genuinely not a turn-on for me. I'd rather have a lithe guy than a guy with muscles.