What attracts you to a man? I'm not asking as someone who's interested in dating a trans person. I already am, but that's not the point. I'm asking because through my life, on at least a dozen occasions, a trans gendered female that knew me, has confessed that they have had feelings for me. Even one of my childhood bullies after transitioning admitted that the only reason they bullied me was because of their own frustrations and their confused feelings for me.
>>8789360
Not all trans people are interested in guys.
Furthermore, nothing in this thread will be helpful or insightful to you, everyone is attracted to different things.
I like a guy who shares my hobbies, personally.
>>8789360
I like confident men that can act goofy sometimes and make me feel safe, also one who's nerdy like me and likes videogames
>>8789360
I like tall, strong, confident guys. Especially the third, it can make up if they lack in the first two.
Beyond that, compatible personalities, of course, but that varies from person to person so I doubt it's useful to you.
For me, it's how protective and aggressive you are, and sensual- all building that sexual tension, but treating me nice and making me laugh behind closed doors. It's really important for a guy to protect me.
>>8789360
are you a femboy?
>>8789360
The male duality is what gets me. When a strong and smart man is also damaged and gentle i get very attached to them. I want somebody who can make me feel loved and safe (people don't always like trannies) which takes a measure of softness and hardness.
That might be a weird way to put it, thus explaining my virginity
>>8789360
Someone who is vulnerable and fragile to manipulation and abuse, especially over their male insecurities.
>>8789377
>I like confident men that can act goofy sometimes and make me feel safe, also one who's nerdy like me and likes videogames
>For me, it's how protective and aggressive
These I guess. Not sure what else to add
>>8789410
OP, here's a little bit extra to put it into context for you. It's been killing me to post this all day.
For me, like I said, personally, I get attracted to a guy that is very aggressively protective and sensual which builds sexual tension.
What that means is, there has to be an element of fear to you. Your trans girl has to be in some capacity, afraid of you. Maybe initially, maybe only sometimes. What makes her understand just how protective you are, is knowing what you're capable of. She has to get a taste of what it's like on the business end of your aggression, and she has to feel your power. Then when you do simple things to protect her, it means a lot more.
By no means, do not ever ever hit her. Make that very clear if she ever asks you to. But the trick is finding a way to put her in fear of your power, feel it, and then behind closed doors, show how special she is.
Most trannies will not admit that they don't actually want everyone to treat them like a girl. They transitioned so that somebody like you would want them- in a world of harshness. They feel that they are entitled to that special girly treatment.
>>8791097
This is what makes black dudes or nazis so exotic to some people, by the way.
They're 'dangerous'
Ironically, guys are generally more gentle and caring.
They're significantly more confident on average. Which has helped buff my own tremendously.
They know pain unique to men, something I couldn't share with women.
They're more genuine, they mean what they say. I've been in interaction with boys enough to know what they need. Which helps me calm down when I'm feeling neurotic, I know how to approach it or if someone else should take that responsibility.
They can take a joke.
They really are worth it.
tl;dr
Boys are easy, they require food and orgasms.
>>8789360
Tall, confident, mature, ofc handsome, and protective.
>>8791097
What difference are you trying to note between trans women and cis women and their attraction to men? As a mtf I truly feel my attraction to men is one in the same to cis women.
>>8789360
Twelve different trans girls? That's a lot.
>>8789360
How the fuck do you know so many trans women? I'm trans and I don't even know that many trans women.
>>8793718
pfft yeah okay
I don't mind calling you she but come on, man.
Your attraction / transgenderism is based on bad childhood experiences.