Where exactly do transgirls hide?

>>8754307
Maine has a good pass:hon ratio.

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NC. I'm the only white tranny I know. Everyone else here is a negroid or a taco.

Do you have money? We trannies are most attracted to money. We all want to be good housewives and take care of a man :). So if you have money friend it's going to be real easy to find a tranny gf/wife

If you don't there's always porn

I live in ... Europe. You probably never heard of it.

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>>8754323

>>8754323

>Do you have money? We trannies are most attracted to money. We all want to be good housewives and take care of a man :). So if you have money friend it's going to be real easy to find a tranny gf/wife

Everyone is attracted to money, I'm not sure that's a trans thing.

Sadly, as a student, I don't really have too much of it. I can afford to go on occasional dates and do things indoors, or cheap outdoor activities like hiking or biking or strolling through the park or w/e, but I don't have the money for anything too extravagant.

In any case, I would ideally like someone who valued independence a little bit more than a typical 50s style housewife. Is that really all you want in life?

>>8754330

Where in Europe? Somehow I bet transpeople are more common in (western) Europe than the US.

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>>8754360
I remember reading on /pol/ that black males have way more estrogen than males of other races. It's why they have those big lips and hips. This graph makes sense.

It's nice being rare. I feel like a precious gem :)

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>>8754364
dude don't fall for the feminist meme. YOU'RE GETTING MEMED. NOOOO woman wants to be independent. My stupid fucking sister got a PHD and did all this shit like internships and fellowships to have a career as a clinical psychologist. But she was just lying dude. She used that to market herself to a higher SES lvl of male. Married a multi-millionaire and now she might work "in a few years" part time. LOL!

Girls and trannies don't want a guy that'll let them be independent or some shit. If we just wanted to hang out we could make a friend (j/k no one wants to be our friends). We want someone to take care of us.

What I suggest to you is to not even think about dating atm. Focus on how your gonna make money, your career. Then when you have money, women and trannies will be coming to YOU! You won't have to look anymore.

Just look at hitler. He was just some shrimpy dude with a stupid mustache. Then he became fuhrer and all the girls wanted his dick. Even the loli's

I live in snow mexico, come on down to my igloo

>>8754371
Not her but I'm from eastern europe. I'm on dating sites. Was using specific for trans ppl but quailty of men there were really low.

>>8754434
god please consider suicide

>>8754465
Says the mangry hon

>>8754434
You type like a man and your shit's all retarded.

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>>8754465
There's to much uglyness in the world already. Here's some love <3

I LOVE YOU!

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>>8754323
>>8754393
>>8754434
>t. mangry fetishistic hon

>>8754434

It doesn't really have anything to do with feminism. I value independence and drive and I would want my partner to value those traits too.

If I were a girl, the last thing I would want is to be completely dependent on a guy who could, for all I know, leave or die or become disabled at any given moment. Really, independence is ultimately a matter of security.

Obviously having money and power makes a person more attractive and increases the size of the dating pool, I know that.

I'm going to assume the rest of your post is memeing.

>>8754502
Where do you live?

>>8754441

I feel like that would be a natural problem with any trans dating app - the demand for transgirls is high but the supply is low, and therefore you end up attracting tons of low-quality guys.

Unfortunately for me, I'm also one of many generic guys looking for a trans GF. The economics of trans dating don't really help me, which is certainly a bit depressing.

tfw no cute trans gf to hold hands with while we look up into the sky and intimately contemplate our shared insignificance

>>8754511

Suburban Long Island.

>>8754437

Snow Mexico? Would that be like Argentina or something?

>>8754360

This surprised me, so I reverse searched it. Turns out it's about HIV diagnoses. That's... less surprising.
https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/group/gender/transgender/index.html

>>8754434
please stop using that name and have it changed immediately

>>8754550
antartican

>>8754393 see >>8754612 you poltard eejit.

>>8754502
True. My parents divorced and it effed our lives a bit (besides the reasons for the divorce which probz fucked with us more emotionally/mentally). But if my mom hadn't've had become a SAHM, she could've potentially been out-earning my dad at that point.

>>8754434
>Married a multi-millionaire and now she might work "in a few years" part time.
tfw ywn have this

>We want someone to take care of us.
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I'm from Florida, theres me, then there was one tranny in my highschool, and I remember going to the hospital once I saw some disgusting hon in a wig, that's all I've noticed

>>8755032

And do you think I don't want someone to take care of me?

I would love to having a loving, rich older GF who just sort of mothers me and lets me do what I want, no strings attached.

However, I also recognize that that's a terribly unrealistic scenario. A stable relationship requires equal reciprocation; I could never seriously expect an arrangement so one-sided to last. Not to mention that as an adult, total financial dependence on another person is an extreme vulnerability. I would be relying entirely on the benevolence of my partner to keep supporting me, and if ever the relationship were to go south or they were to become incapacitated, I'd be left with absolutely nothing but heartache and a huge resume gap.

Now, I'm a basic average looking guy and there are literally billions like me. Nobody has any interest in paying me to look cute. I suppose it might be a little easier to find a lonely rich older guy to pay you to be his GF if you were a supremely attractive (trans)girl, but no matter who you are it's so unlikely that it may as well be a fantasy scenario.

If that really is the sort of relationship you seek, I wish you luck in finding it. Even if I had the money to support a relationship like that, the insecurity of whether the only thing that draws us together is money would make me absolutely miserable.

we're there, you just can't detect us normie

and no, we don't want to be your playthings, AGP hon

>>8756214
unless you want to fuck the mentally unstable, infinitely dependent, shallow cumdumpsters

>>8755021

And I feel like this is such a common story that it should be obvious. Complete financial dependence on a single person carries potentially devastating risks.

I'm sorry you had to go through that.

>>8756214

I'm not really looking for anybody to be my "plaything", but alright. I don't think I need your personal approval to keep looking.

I'm a male who lives as a male, by the way. I wouldn't even consider transitioning if I knew I'd end up being a hon.

>>8754307
>gross AGP chaser trying to hunt down trans girls
go away

>>8756369

I will admit to potentially being a chaser.

However, I don't think it's necessarily wrong to recognize that there are qualities unique to transgirls that can be admirable or intriguing.

And I try not to be too gross.

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>>8754307
I would argue that you have seen transgirls, you just didn't recognize them as such because they pass reasonably well and you aren't really looking at every girl you see the way you might look at inanimate pictures in a passing thread.

That being said, if you are looking to meet some your choices are drag bars/restaurants like Lucky Cheng's in New York or apps.

Also be aware that many transwomen are into women, not men, and other's don't feel confident enough or maybe they are asexual and so they don't want to meet anyone of any sex for romantic purposes.

The sad truth is that you may have to fulfill your fantasies with a drag queen or a crossdresser instead of a transgirl, and you may even have to pay for it since many transwomen don't like their penis and don't want to use it during sex, if they have it.

>>8756444

>I would argue that you have seen transgirls, you just didn't recognize them as such because they pass reasonably well and you aren't really looking at every girl you see the way you might look at inanimate pictures in a passing thread.

Yes, it's almost certainly true that I've been within the vicinity of a transperson without realizing it. And of course, because of the social stigma, few people would ever casually reveal that sort of thing to a stranger.

>That being said, if you are looking to meet some your choices are drag bars/restaurants like Lucky Cheng's

Are those types of places... safe? I have no experience with them. I'm not really the bar-going or partying type.

And as for apps... well, I've never even heard of a trans dating app, and even if it did exist, I bet the ratio of available transgirls to men would be so skewed as to make it basically worthless.

>The sad truth is that you may have to fulfill your fantasies with a drag queen or a crossdresser instead of a transgirl, and you may even have to pay for it since many transwomen don't like their penis and don't want to use it during sex, if they have it.

That is the sad truth, isn't it. It's not really what I want, though - I wouldn't pay a cis girl for sex either, and in any case, I want something a little bit more meaningful than just sex.

I'm not going to be inconsolable if I can't date a transgirl, but it is disappointing to know that I may never realistically have the opportunity.

There are regular guys out there with nice trans GFs, though. Did they just happen to get lucky?

>>8756388
at least you're not a douchebag

Still, you must keep in mind a lot of us despise chasers from experience rather than memes. You could never know what it's like getting pump and dumped by some scumbag you mistook as a real partner.

It feels like shit dude

>>8754307
>trannies are so obvious, i can spot any tranny
myth: busted

>>8754518
Generic would be perfect for me. I had more in mind like
>hard drug abuser
>real alcoholics
>thefts
>men below 5'7

>>8756517

>Still, you must keep in mind a lot of us despise chasers from experience rather than memes. You could never know what it's like getting pump and dumped by some scumbag you mistook as a real partner.

I recognize that. I can't blame you for having trust issues when many of you have been marginalized and been stuck in terrible relationships your entire lives.

I do have a shred of empathy, though. I can imagine that being used feels like absolute shit. The "pump and dump" isn't my style precisely that reason.

>>8756517
You know that would be ok if it weren't on how they act in bed.

They act like selfiesh faggots. They sucks your dick most of the time and ignore everything else. Good damn it lick my balls at least!

>>8756578

I have those attributes in my favor, then. I have no interest in hard drugs, nor am I an alcoholic. I'm straight-edge to the point of being boring. And unless you consider occasional piracy to be theft, I'm not a thief either.

But is it really as simple as NOT being a thieving alcoholic drug abuser? That's a really low standard. There must be some positive attributes you'd want a partner to have as well.

>>8756618
Oh,now I feel bad.

If I still lived in NJ I'd date you

>>8756641
le funni

>>8756642
I do have, yes. I'm not vocal about it IRL but:
>you have to have face that I'm able kiss
>employed
>affective, kissing, hugging, wanting to have sex
>very important, you have to be presentable. I want to go out with you and my friend (double/triple date) - if you make a scene for no reason it will be a huge turn off for me.

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>>8754360
I'm glad ppl are reposting this.

>>8756647

I can appreciate that.

I do have to admit that it doesn't feel great to have to be on the defense all the time. While I do understand that you've probably had plenty of shitty relationships in the past, it doesn't necessarily mean that all future relationships will also be shitty.

You just have to be careful about who you put your faith in, I guess. Not that that's necessarily an easy thing to do.

>>8754307
I'm in NYC.

>Where do you people hide

I hide in my room all day aside from work because I turn to dust if I get hit by the sun.

>Are you all taken?
Nope, contrary to the suggestion by >>8756444
(don't know if its a fact) that many trans women are into women or asexual, I'm into guys and miserably single.

>Would you be willing to date a curious guy whomighthimselfhaveagptendencies if he weren't completely repulsive?

Sure, I'd date any non-strictly gay guy to be honest. Issue is I don't pass and I wouldn't dream about presenting as female until I have my FFS in about half a year. So now I just look like a really awkward person who wears really baggy clothes to cover up large breasts. So if you are into that let me know xD.

>>8756693
it's hard, I really did read 'honest guy' from that one. I guess I only started noticing the signs afterward.

But seriously, it was bad enough that I dated a normie bitch for 6 months.

>>8756673

Even those seem like relatively low standards. I mean, I'm not exactly beautiful but I don't think I'm hideous either. Physical affection like cuddling and sex are core features of any romantic relationship. I dress decently and I'm not an emotional wreck who's a dramatic attention whore in public. In fact, I'm extremely mild mannered and go out of my way to avoid conflict.

I have part-time employment, but like I said, I'm also a student and I'm not exactly well off.

Those are all really basic criteria. if it were really just THAT easy, I have to wonder why it seems so difficult to find a transgirl who might be open to dating me.

Or any at all, for that matter. Maybe it really is just a matter of scarcity.

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>>8756732
If you would live in my city then I would go with you on a date. It's that easy. My picture from last passgen.

>>8756752
hey, this isn't op- I'm the other transgender raging about chasers

you don't even look that bad, your frame is good. The only reason your face looks sullen and dumpy is because you're absolutely miserable looking in that picture.

Need better lighting too.

>>8756731

Did this "normie" give you any early warning signs that he would turn out to be an awful person? What made him a "normie" anyway?

>>8756752

You're very pretty. It's nice to know that you'd be willing to give me a chance, at least. If only you lived in NY.

>>8756791
That's my default face, and to be honest I like it more than when I smile.

>>8754323
north Carolina?
I'm also a white tranny in NC

>>8756705

>I hide in my room all day aside from work because I turn to dust if I get hit by the sun.

We have this in common.

>Sure, I'd date any non-strictly gay guy to be honest. Issue is I don't pass and I wouldn't dream about presenting as female until I have my FFS in about half a year. So now I just look like a really awkward person who wears really baggy clothes to cover up large breasts. So if you are into that let me know xD.

Well, I wouldn't rule out any possibilities. I don't necessarily mind if you're mid-transition and happen to (perceive yourself to) look a little "awkward".

>>8756808

I'm curious: you're obviously good looking and you seem to be open to dating anyone who isn't a total disaster.

If I may ask, why are you single, then? Surely there must be someone in your city who meets the criteria you've listed.

>>8754307
u prob have, just thought they were a normal girl

>>8754323
most retarded thing I've read all week

Ohio

There's fucking something in the water or something, I swear

>>8757508
Ohio translady here. I never run into any others in the wild though.

>>8756794
she

I dated a cisgender woman

>>8757588

>Ohio translady here. I never run into any others in the wild though.

How would you even know that you did? Like other anons have been saying, it's entirely possible we've been within the vicinity of transwomen and just not noticed.

>>8758316

And she was so bad that she made you wary of dating altogether? Can I ask what made her such a terrible partner?

>>8754307
We hide in plain sight retard. That's the whole point

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>>8754307
pic: population of US states

>>8754360
>>8754612
was gonna say, where's the source.

>>8758648

Thanks, I'm aware of that. I'm not a complete idiot.

What I mean to say is that I have never known a transgirl, or transman for that matter. I've never even heard anyone express a desire to transition in real life.

Obviously, I get that you don't want to be known for being trans. Still, it would be neat to have access to the unique perspective of a transgirl, but in stealth mode you're impossible to find, as intended.

I run into them in Detroit all the time.

>>8754307
Well... most of us hide in our rooms all day praying that god will grant us the mercy of painless death.

>>8757508
>>8757588
Gay Ohioan here, only ever meet transguys here. Never met a transgirl from Ohio irl though.

>>8757022
I pass. For trans standard I'm really nice looking but for cis standard I'm bottom of the barrel. Also no early female socialization (we don't really have SJW and third wave feminism here so acting like a womanly-woman is very important).

No cis person want's me because I'm weird - and there are many really gorgeous cis women here.
No chaser wants me because I don't look trans enough so they just ignore me.

>>8758711
How ugly are the trannies in Detroit?

>>8758407
>How would you even know that you did?
It's true that I wouldn't necessarily know, but I haven't run into obvious hons either.

>>8758766

I've spent a large part of my life doing this too. I've only very recently begun to overcome it.

>>8759181

I take it you're not in the US. Where is "here"?

That sounds like an awful situation to be stuck in, although I'm honestly in disbelief that there's not a single tolerable chaser in your area who would date a transgirl who doesn't "look trans". Are they specifically looking for the ones who don't pass?

Just how "gorgeous" could the average cis girl in your country realistically be? Surely there must be less attractive cis girls too, and I bet most of them could find someone willing to go out with them. There's no way you've been single your entire life.

>>8759396
Again, I stopped adverting myself on chaser sites. Because all of them were really scetchy (and some dangerous). And nobody know I'm trans in public so it's impossible to find chaser IRL. OKC and tinder are really unpopular so no luck there too. In clubs people just ignore me. And yes I am alone from the begining. Not a virgin but never in proper relationship.