Typical Grindr Encounter

He was probably too anxious about hooking up with a total stranger and couldn't cum. Been there, done that.

As for the blocking, typical one night stand behavior and probably too shy to ever meet up again.

>>8750249
sorry for the blogpost and thanks for the measured reply. I really need to stop using grindr, fuck that app.

I've been that guy with a few guys.
Anxiety every single time I meet up somewhere new. I guess just the thought some dude I was looking to fuck could murder me in cold blood sets it off.

I'll usually just block them because i'm embarrassed/didn't really like it.

>>8750232
who knows everyones different

SSRIs make it hard to cum maybe he is on them

Some people are addicted to porn, and can't cum without seeing another dude being fucked behind a screen.

Next time show porn to him while you suck his dick.

>>8750249
>>8750277
this
I usually cum after the 3rd meeting :S

>>8750232
got sauce on that image?

>>8750284
>SSRIs make it hard to cum maybe he is on them
word
when i was on sertraline i lost all ability to cum
i hear welbutrin helps these side effects

>>8750232
>boy in my dorm building
>blocks me

lol. you should make a point to say "hi" to him with a big smile and friendly wave every time you see him... and maybe go out of your way to see him/pass by him at least once a day.

I'm kind of a passive aggressive ass though.. so maybe you should actually just let it go and move on with your life.

any foreplay or did you both just stampede towards the dick?

uh

it's prolly because you kicked him out for failing you.

Why do gays like such disgusting and meaningless sex anyway? Do you really have no desire to love anyone beyond a pump and dump?

>>8750973
>reading comprehension fail

>>8750989
reread

'my dorm room'
'you can leave now'

oh

ok

clearly im error

>>8750973
>you kicked him out for failing you
he got kicked out you moron

>>8750996
he said 'my dorm building' you complete and utter idiot

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>>8750973

It could still be his room

that doesn't change how absolutely meaningless and shallow this encounter is. Don't make excuses using wording to justify it- it was a shallow pump and dump

>>8750232
you weren't supposed to leave

>>8751027
yes he was, the guy wanted to jerk off to porn so he could cum.

after he came he was overwhelmed with feelings of regret and disgust and had to block OP so he could feel better about himself.

typical retarded teenage faggot bs.

>>8751031
you should feel ashamed. It was a meaningless lust driven pump and dump. This is why people look down on gays. So many gays have actual relationships and you choose a one way ticket to aidsville

>>8751054
Get over yourself. I don't give a fuck what pathetic losers like you look down on me for.

>>8750956
we made out for like 10 mins. he was moaning the whole time. fuck repression.

>>8750933
nah, I have very little shame so if I see him I'm def gonna give him a wave and a smirk.

I had a similar thing happen to me, I was nervous. had nothing to do with gay/repression whatever.

>talk to really muscle daddy on grindr
>he's visiting and staying at a nearby hotel
>send him a pic and he immediately sends the location and he says he wants to fuck
>then blocks me after saying I need to shower first

What did I do wrong?

>>8750232
I am a mtf and he was a bi nerdy guy and he did this ghosting thing you talk about to me as well.

UPDATE:

I saw him while grabbing food on campus. He was with friends. He was grabbing some soda, he looked back, saw me, I winked at him, he winked back, and we went our separate ways.

My friends knew what was going on (I told them) and they were struggling not to laugh when they saw that.

>>8750232
Maybe he was like this guy and a bit embarrassed by it. https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/-NEW-Blonde-Marine-Fucks-My-Seat-27307621

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>>8753872
Maybe he wanted someone right then right now and had another option that was confirmed less than 30 min away?

>>8750232
You don't happen to live In Memphis so you?

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>get fucked like a slut by some random guy you barely met yesterday
>get treated like a slut afterwards

geez op I wonder why

>>8757124
they didnt fuck, they just succed...

How do I into hookups /lgbt/? I feel so awkward just going to somebody's house and fucking them with no talking or chilling before hand? I want to start hooking up because I have no qualms about the sex itself, but I have no idea how to act beforehand. Do you engage in smalltalk? Offer a drink? I have no idea.

>>8757683
>Do you engage in smalltalk? Offer a drink?
yup
you got it mister

>>8757683
>he opens the door, awkward smiles
>smalltalk for 1 mn, how did I get here in car, etc
>I ask for drink bc I'm thirsty (no pun)
>«well anon, let's fuck, I'll be busy in 1h»
>I fuck him on the sofa, clean myself (he came on me) then say goodbye
I didn't know his name, but w/e he was cute enough, I was curious to have one of these grindr hookups, and I was bored too. Wasn't bad, wasn't great.

>>8757683
Honestly just do it most gay guys just fuck me even if I'm awkward

>>8753872
Update he unblocked me and messaged me again

>>8755268
He's literally in a hotel 10 minutes away

>>8750232
>Get horny and feel like bf is a lost cause
>Talk to guys on Grindr
>Get into convo with hairy older guy
>Message back and forth
>Exchange pics
>Dirty talk about what we want to do
>Arrange to meet up the next day at his
>Jack off to his hot pics and sleazy comments
>Feel awful about Grindr and not having bf
>Cuddle my pillow crying with cummy belly and chest hair
>Cancel the meet because "I'm busy" or something
>Rinse and repeat ad infinitum
Gee, being gay sure is fun...

>>8754003
qt

>>8759485
third update: we hooked up but he was married and had to meet his family for dinner. didn't ask why he blocked me

>>8759684
What a dick, hope you were safe with him.

>>8750232
I never cum too. I can't cum unfortunately.
I can only ejaculate with porn.

If I wanted to hook up with a dude should I note that I'm on hrt and it's a little hard for me to get a boner/ejaculate? It takes me like 10 minutes to cum with porn, I don't know if that's a turn off

>>8759758
What the fuck why are you taking hormones? Are you a fucking tranny?

>>8750232
He seems like the perfect person for some edging session, what's up with guys with performance anxiety nowadays?

>>8759556
That has nothing to do with being gay. That is 100% your own hangups.