Things you cant do in boymode

>>8747898
>can't wear cute/fashionable clothes
>can't paint my nails
>can't cry in public

you can literally do all those things. well except maybe have guys try to impress you, but that's out of your hands regardless of gender.

>>8747947
>>8747947
Not without being heavily judged

>>8747957
You're lucky then. Wearing feminine clothing would get me beat up like crazy.

>>8747898
Y'all sure you're girls? More sounds to me like you haven't used your one gift from being born a disgusting male that is useful: breaking shame. It's literally the only good thing our old bodies have. Break the shame before it breaks you.

But seriously, all these can be done. You can't be a woman until you're free, and you'll never be free so long as you're a slave to expectations.

Break free.

>>8747957
no one is going to judge you for wearing skinny jeans unless you're fat or something. it's pretty common.

>>8747979
How do I break the shame? :o
Right now I just feel so shit when going out eith friends, its always like a mini girl-camp and a mini-guycamp around tables and I feel so extremely distant from them. Like I really dont belong on this side, why cant I just wear a dress and shit like them

>>8747963
I guess, Im sorry for you

>>8747986
>it's pretty common.
Where? In Sweden and Oregon or something?

>>8747986
Not my style, Ive been wearing normal jeans and hoodies trying to hide my body as much as possible and switching it up after these years is going to make people suspicious, I already nick female celeb names online "as a joke" and shit like that. I think it would be the straw that broke the camels back

>>8747994
Thats pretty funny, Im actually Swedish :p

>>8748008
>Thats pretty funny, Im actually Swedish :p
Yeah, well I'm Bosnian and I'd get beat up if I worse skinny jeans.

Not that there aren't any guys wearing skinny jeans but those are like when you see openly trans women in Russia - more brave than they're smart.

guys can do anything, you don't have to give a fuck

>>8747898
>>8747940
I wear skinny jeans, always keep my legs crossed, and I used to paint my nails all the time. Can't say I've ever gotten any super negative reactions really.

>>8748025
Exactly, and while Im not going to get physically hurt in Sweden for doing it, Im going to die from shame and being alienated

>>8747898
>tfw I do these things in boymode.
>tfw like the boy whos interested in me but too socially inept to engage properly instead of being vaguely friendly.

>>8748037
>Im going to die from shame and being alienated
Really? Stereotype I've heard is that every Swedish male wears super tight skinny jeans.

>>8748033
I dont think I would cross them, I just kinda like keeping them together while ehyre leaning inwards from having my feet wider apart than my legs, kinda schoolgirl pose. Idk why I do it, I'm not sexualizing it trying to do the schoolgirl pose, Ive been doing it subconsciously at school for years under my desk where noone can see

>>8748049
And like I said, not my style and wouldnt fit

>>8748056
Ah, yeah. I do that too sometimes. Knees held together with your feet farther apart. Crossed just feels most natural to me so it's my go-to.

>>8748105
Yeah thats a more elegant way of putting it :) Makes me feel super fem and nice for some reason

>>8747993
>How do I break the shame? :o
I'm not going to lie, it's not easy. It's an entire lifetime of experience against your hopes, and hopes are a winsome defender. Still, what worked for me was moving up the steps of emotionality. Instead of going straight for feminine, you need to 'loosen up' your entire emotional spectrum because in the West, our men are taught to kill all emotion except rage at a very young age - its why our masculinity is called 'toxic'.

So like a muscle that has atrophied, you gotta get used to the full spectrum. I found 'cute' was the easiest entry point. Whenever you're in a store, a park, wherever...stop and point out something cute to yourself and give a big, bright grin, like 'oh wow, I didn't expect to see that, that was kind of uplifting'. Eventually you'll find actual cheer creeps in because repetition will make you truly, actually enjoy cute things. Then find a way to express cheer, and joy will creep in. From joy (which is just concentrated cheer, really), to wonder, and from wonder to childlike (innocent), and finally to feminine.

Slow and steady wins this race, because each stage builds and strengthens your e-IQ so that by the time you reach femininity, you'll have a full toolbox of emotional expression to work with instead of being a gimped woman who still thinks without emotion.

>>8748127
I dont actually have that much of a problem with emotions, I used to have but my ex opened me up A LOT over the years we were together so now I feel a lot of things, I just dont show them in public

>>8747898
>tfw cant wear skinny jeans
>tfw cant cross my legs or keep them together in fem pose in public

I'm a cis dude and I do all those things
Stop being so insecure

>>8747898
Doing anything stereotypicaly feminine would make me so nervous it'd kill me. Like going underwear shopping, shoe shopping, going to nail salon etc. I don't know how I'd ever do it unless I was confident I 100% pass.

>>8747898
>>8747940
I do literally all of these things except the crying in public and the worst thing that has happened is some staring. Guys don't specifically try to impress me but holy hell they're a lot nicer to me now even when I present male.

>>8748127
>in the West, our men are taught to kill all emotion except rage at a very young age - its why our masculinity is called 'toxic'.
if it wasn't for this maybe i'd be cis

>>8748156

That's why the 'pointing and big grin'. It's a (very) slow introduction to doing things that defy the norm, since making pointing motions not in anger or giving a big grin at an Easter Basket is not 'proper toxic male'.

>>8748303
That sounds good :) Ill try to do it when theres not a lot of people around :p

>tfw no Swedish tgf

>>8747994
I live in Texas and it's common enough. I prance around in andro girl-clothes but still male presenting-mode all the time, people see me as a dude, no one gives me shit for dressing androgynous or being twinky/fem

Cultural differences are so interesting, in Italy basically every guy wears skinny jeans and crossing your legs like a woman is done by older men all the time.

>>8750205
That's because Italian men are all faggots with no balls.

>>8750206
What a clever and well thought retort.

>>8747898
>>tfw cant wear skinny jeans
>>tfw cant cross my legs or keep them together in fem pose in public
um i do these in boymode and im fine?

>>8747898
plenty of guys wear skinny jeans. do you even go outside you stupid fucking hon?

>>8747898
but I do wear skinny jeans and never spread my legs

and im boymode for years

Friends, this isn't a "make OP feel jealous of your freedom wo tear skinny jeans"-thread, it's a thread about posting the things you WISH you could do in public but can't

>>8747957
>being afraid of judgement
>about to transition

literally most stupid shit i saw today

>>8747898
wtf does it matter if ppl mistake you for a girly faggot?

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just do as you please. If you're in a city no one gives a shit. I usually have some eyeliner and shit shit on my face after I finish my escorts and have painted nails and no one bothers me. I even live in dixie, NC.

Key is to buy a gun. It'll make you're dick bigger too. Just like trucks

>>8753595
Well Im not afraid of random people judging me, Im afraid of my friends judging me and then abandoning me.... And they wont because I wont pass in a million years

>>8747940
>>8747898
you can do all this if youre a metalhead

>>8756999
Im not though :(