can you help me out?

Maybe go to a party, it might be easier there to socialise

>>8745316
Think of sex as a fringe benefit that you expect from a fulfilling relationship and not a goal unto itself, for starters.

Try looking for a guy who is also experimenting with his sexuality and then see if you can form a relationship that is closer than friends.

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>>8745316
use the internet. also, be honest about yourself, virgins are cute and don't have diseases

>>8745316
I'm in pretty much the same position and same age too, I've never had sex per say but done everything else excluding eating ass lmao. Sometimes when my friends talk about it and stuff it can feel like having sex is an important milestone but really it's just two (or maybe more idk anon u might be a wild child) rubbin their junk all up in each other. Now personally I struggle enough with wanting to be around other people let alone be that close to them, see them all the time, hear their problems, and so on and so forth. So for me personally and idk maybe we have more in common than you think if I were to want to start dating and eventually do some sex I would start with finding someone you are comfortable with and can actually enjoy being around, and the truth is you're probably not going to find someone like that quickly and easily at least not until you're more in tune with who you are and learn to love yourself a bit more.

I realise I'm projecting a bit lmao also nohomo

>>8745328
>Think of sex as a fringe benefit that you expect from a fulfilling relationship and not a goal unto itself, for starters.

I agree with that. I mostly just want a bf and all, and sex is a bonus. I still want it though.

>>8745336
But I don't want to attract some virgin hunter or anything. Is it really wise to be open with it at first?

>>8745316
>20
>boy

A MAN

>>8745349
Hmm, that's probably true. It seems impossible to find someone who I would be able to fall in love with, and even harder when this person also has to be able to fall in love with me. Maybe with some luck.

>>8745419
I wouldn't really call myself a man. When do you stop being a boy and become a man? I feel more like a boy. I also look very young so that doesn't help.

>>8745417
use your best judgement, anon.

and why don't you want some virgin hunter? sounds like you just want to get laid.

>>8745464
sound like a mtf tbhon

>>8745464
if you're 20 you have huge muscular manarms, manbody, man facial hair and possibly, a prominent man balding. You're a man.

idc about your peter pan delusions. or perhaps it's gender dysphoria and therefore you not willing to accept masculinity within yourself and being a virgin at the age of 20 makes perfect sense.

Just date a girl fag

>>8745549
why would you want to date a girl when you can date a boy

Hopefully you live near a city.

Look around online for gay meetups, or gay districts in the city near you. Normally there's a block that's known for being "gay friendly." Bring a book, dress up nicely, and go there to hang out. Get the feel of the locals, visit a dog park, and just dip your toe in-- You'll probably be approached and you'll be able to chat people up.

You're too young to go to a bar, so you're kind of screwed in the easy pick up dept. If you want to get laid you have to have a bare minimum charisma, or be so hot that people are willing to risk talking to you.

>>8745515
>huge muscular manarms
Nope
>manbody
Not really
>man facial hair
Just some hairs around the mustache and chin area
>prominent man balding
Nope

I barely have hair in my armpits, no hair on my chest and my arms are thin. I'm skinny and quite short. I could be 16 or 18, but I look too young to be 20. I have felt what I believed was gender dysphoria in the past but I managed to ignore it after a couple of years. There is no use transitioning anyway, any change in marginal. I think I'll call myself a boy for now.

>>8745595
I do live near a city and there is a part of town that is known for lgbt and feminism and stuff. I would be very scared to go though. What is the purpose of bringing a book?

>>8745623
just transition already anon, you'll feel better and you won't be depressed, your self-esteem will go up, don't be another suicide victim, take your girl pills and get a boyfriend

>>8745623
>nope

more like yep, because you went through male puberty and have male levels of testosterone

your fervent denial of masculinity in your appearance is typical of transgirls pre-hrt, as they cling desperately and delusional to any trace of femininity they have, often going as far as thinking they might be intersex or something among these lines

then they calm down once they get hrt and actually feminize their body and grow to finally accept how objectively masculine they used to be before

>>8745623
>any change is marginal

well then enjoy transitioning in 10 years when your body will be hairy, your head will be bald and you will regret and curse your current self

future hon

>>8745629

You bring a book so you won't be bored sitting around for hours, and it looks so much classier than sitting on your phone. When you're on your phone or have headphones in, it's a signal you're busy, or maybe fighting with a S.O.

With a book you already have a conversation starter, i.e. "Oh, I love that book, what do you think about x?"

It's way less intimidating to go to the area and sit outside a cafe or bookstore and read/hang out. There's no pressure for you to go socialize with people, you can essentially just people watch until you feel more confident.

I'm a social butterfly, so I chat up everyone. The local coffee shop was my local hang-out, and I always ended up chatting with strangers. I'm pretty good at portrait sketching, and often times people approached me simply to investigate what I was drawing.

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>>8745623
If what you say about your body is true, go to a doctor and get your test levels checked. You might have low t. Ask for an exact number though because if they sa "normal" it could be anywhere between 250-900 ng/dl but for your age anything less than 450 is low.
Anon, don't listen to these delusional trannies. They are mentally ill and think everyone should transition and be as unhappy as they are. The feeling of being a "boy" is just a side effect of the society we live in. There are no rites of passage anymore. Try doing some manly things: get a job,work out, download Grindr and lose your virginity if you have to, save some money, and move out of your parents house. Most importantly: pick up some hobbies and go out more. Masculinity is really about independence and confidence and you need to start cultivating both of those.

>>8745679
I kinda wanna do this, but it's very expensive. If my levels are low, can I be saved? Or am I doomed to be a short, skinny, beardless boy for the rest of my life? It would feel pretty bad to know I could have been taller and have a more masculine frame if my test levels weren't too low during puberty or something.

And what painting is that? I really like it. It looks Dutch to me for some reason, is it?

>>8745679
>grindr to lose virginity

top keke this is the worst advice to reinforce masculinity I've ever seen shat out on this board

>>8745679
is it legal to homestead some free land in the wilderness? or is this no longer america?

>>8745414
hood luck with that, I'm a person experimenting with my sexuality for the first time too and it seems everyone is looking only for quick sex and not a relationship, ofc I've only tried tinder but I don't know how to meet people

I mean, I'm not a social cripple I'm very sociable and likeable but making friends is different from finding a partner or am I wrong? I mean, how do I know someone is gay and it's into me?