I am becoming very curious in exploring my sexuality, so what

>>8732531
>should I get on tinder or something
No, get Grindr instead
>what should I do to prepare for anal
Have lube/condoms ready, maybe practice with a sex toy so you know what you're in for.
>I want to try being the submissive in the relationship
You and every other homo, bottoms are a dime a dozen. Luckily guys are such dogs you should still be able to find a willing top with minimal effort.

>>8732565
Thanks anon. Any other advice you could give me?

>>8732580
Don't be afraid to be forward with what you want. You don't usually have to dance around sex with gays. If you're attracted to someone, don't be afraid to ask to meet up. The worst they can do is say no, and even if they do there's tons of others that won't.

>>8732565
Thanks again, should I be open with them about how I am trying to explore my sexuality and might not be interested later on in the relationship or should I keep that to myself?

>>8732637
Just be honest. Most gays aren't driven by monogamy so the risk of someone getting attached is pretty minimal. I would probably let them know it's your first time but that's up to you.

>download grindr
>make profile
>say you're a straight guy questioning your sexuality
>find a qt
>ask if he wants to hook-up
>be honest that you've never done this w/ a guy before
>douche if you're afraid of shitdick
>don't forget lube and condoms

have fun

>>8732565
What happens if I like it? Like a lot? What happens if I discover a part of myself and can't go back to being a normal straight guy?

>>8732697
Isn't that the point of being curious and experimenting? Surely this thought had to have crossed your mind to even get to this point. Its a journey every fag has to take, there's no one universal answer to "I like guys, what do?"

>>8732723
I dunno I'm just kinda scared

>>8732723
What do gay guys like when you have sex? Anything that is generally considered hot?

>>8732531

Enjoy getting bugged.

whatever you do use protection talos knows there's enough shit floating around out there already

>>8732723
Bugged?

>>8732841
What does Bugged mean?

>>8732838
Everyone's different and likes different things, of you're hooking up on Grindr people will generally ask each other what they're into first so take that into account. You're probably not going to do anything too extreme the first time so I'd say just prepare to suck some dick and get fucked at the very least. Some guys like it rough, some like to go slow, but as long as you're not hopelessly autistic you should be able to read the vibe. If you've ever watched gay porn you can probably fake it til you make it based on that. One thing I will say is there seems to be a noticeable divide of guys who like to kiss/be more sensual and guys who are all business, so I'd keep that in mind as you're looking for a partner/hooking up, either in terms of your partner's preferences or your own.

>>8732867
>>8732881
Catching an std, usually the incurable kind

>>8732867
>>8732881
Bugged means getting HIV. That's why it's important to wear a condom or get on prep if you decide you want to ho it up for a while.

>>8732885
What if I end up with a guy who likes rough sex? Extra lube? Lol

>>8732895
Your role as bottom shouldn't change much based on how rough they are, and rough isn't necessarily better, like I said everyone's different, but you will definitely know if more lube is needed haha

>>8732914
What do you mean by "Your role as a bottom" just a sex thing?

>>8732950
I just mean you're going to be doing the same thing as a bottom whether they're rough or not, so don't get hung up on how you need to change your approach. The top will generally tell you what to do anyway.

>>8732968
Ah okay, it'll be nice to be told what to do for a change. Would it be weird if I asked him to pull my hair? My hair is kinda long and I kinda like the feeling of it being pulled

>>8732985
Not everyone is into that so you'd have to ask. Human sexuality is incredibly broad and far-reaching and there's usually somebody for every kink, its just a matter of finding them and you won't know until you ask. Just be honest about what you're into and what you want.

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>>8732867
>>8732881

There's a very large movement inside the LGBT community of homosexuals who have as a fetish, infecting people with sexually transmitted disease without their knowledge.


It's a very real thing and you should be very careful, it's not a fucking joke.

>>8733026
Jesus Christ. I'm definitely telling anybody I hook up with to wear protection and I'd they don't I will refuse sex.

>>8733026
Knowing this is actually putting me off of experimenting. I am gonna be very cautious as of now.

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>>8733035
>>8733051

You guys can read about it online, just looking for the term ''bugged''. Many top homosexuals will wear a condom that they made wholes on earlier, or straight out remove the condom midway without you noticing so they can cum inside and infect you.


I don't understand why they do it, but it is a real danger out there.
Pic related are literally forums of people who's whole hobby is doing just that

>>8733051
>>8733035
Bring your own condoms and take a hardline about using it all the way through and if you're in the states remember that knowingly infecting someone with hiv is a felony, get tested and get litigious if the worst comes to pass

>>8733128
Are there any ways I could tell if that person has this fetish?

>>8733641
Couldn't say I imagine most people who are into it would be good at hiding it, you can however make your intentions clear and practice safe sex, as after school special as that sounds

>>8733659
Anyway, to get away from that I mentioned that I have a twinkish appearance and I'm wondering if I should go all the way with it considering I might be going gay for a while. What would that be a good idea to attract some guys? Or are twinks frowned upon?

>>8733684
What do you mean when you say twinkish?

>>8733694
I'm pretty skinny and young looking. I have very little body hair and it takes a long time to grow facial hair. That kind if twinkish

I would try grindr, but

1. I don't want my family to find out
2. I am nit that attractive (5'2 183lbs, 4.5" penis

>>8733765
doesn't sounds like you should have a problem as long as you have a bit of confidence and flirt a little

>>8733828
Should I go full twink? Shave my legs and everything?

>>8733840
Up to you, most gay guys are a thirsty bunch and aren't horrendously picky when it's just about sex

>>8733846
It's been a while since I've done it so why not

>>8733090
Wtf these "people" are disgusting, wouldn't feel bad if some of the victim decide to take revenge if they find out, and kill/torture these criminals. I'd beat dead with a pole anyone I discover doing such vile acts.

>>8733806
>5'2
>183lbs

Sounds pretty hot to me, anon. Short chubs are my thing, you guys are just so cute. Just out of curiosity, what's your hair colour?

Also:
>4.5" dick
thats a pretty cute size, anon :3

>>8733962
Light brown

>>8733998
Ohh anon you sound like a lil cutie <3

>>8734054
Dont lead me on anon

>>8734063
Kind of hard to do that over the internet. Just saying you sound like a good snuggle partner.

>>8734078
Th..thanks

>>8734102
No problem ;)

>>8734111
What state?

>>8734211
Ontario, Canada.

>>8734219
Damn it. I'm in Texas

>>8734234
Too bad, if things were different I'd cuddle the shit out of you :\

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>>8734259
Making me chub.. Now am confused

>>8734271
dawwww anon I'm sorry. But to be fair I've been chubbing since you said don't lead me on...