Serious!!!

Not T but.... I don't think there is such a thing as "trans pride" outside of tumblr. Legit trans want to pass 100% as women, not be "a trans" for the rest of their life, and not have a relationship where the other person considers their "disability" as a turn on.

>>8712739
So if I just wanted a legitimate relationship I would be ostracized because I enjoy the aesthetics of a woman but a penis of a man? Am I just out of luck do you think?

>>8712739
Pretty much this. Having people interested exclusively because of something youre at least sort of uncomfortable about isnt a good feeling.

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>>8712739
kek
no straight man without a fetish for traps would ever consider to have a "normal" relationship with them, and this is true for many of "chasers" as well.
Because its socially awkward and they can't have chidren, offspring and shit like that.
So your pretension to be considered a 100% full woman sounds like bullshit to me

>>8712753
I don't mean to sound insensitive because I'm just a dumbass, not an asshole, but isn't similar to how an overweight woman hates her body, but someone comes along and takes her "deformity" and show her it could be beauty?

>>8712719
exactly why we avoid chasers.
we have gone through alot and come out the other side. we know ourselves and who we are.

men interested in trans women are unknowingly repressing. that's a chaser.

why the fuck would i want to date someone who doesn't know themselves and will eventually change who they are when they learn about HRT?

also wanting to date is a testosterone thing. trutranz git married, yo.

>>8712759
Like I said, I'm not trans nor a chaser. but your "pretension" to be 100% their only option for a relationship sounds like bullshit to me. Like the kind of thing an insecure manipulative abuser would say to wear their partner down and make them afraid to ever leave.

>>8712753
>>8712764
has telling a woman you wana fuck//love her because she has big boobs ever worked for you outside a hookup bar?

>>8712764
Kind of? It definitely depends on the individual. If theyre "proud" / okay with it then someone interested in it can be nice, but if theyre ashamed of it someone chasing it feels awful

>>8712775
Well thats just stupid to go up to a woman and say "hey I like your boobs lets fuck" but if you rephrase the question and you're asking me if I was attracted to a woman enough to hit on her because she had nice boobs then yes? What attracts you to people when you don't even know them??

>>8712775
no because usually im not attracted to someone due exclusively to a single body part

>>8712777
Well if they're ashamed then yea I can understand that...but I feel that building a person up and supporting them is what you do for a person when you care about them.

>>8712788
Yeah, but keep in mind that it's not really a great idea to "build a person up" by telling them you find their childhood/teen/life trauma sexually appealing. That's what chasers do.
Imagine telling someone that you are attracted to them because they were molested as a kid.

>>8712788
For sure, but if you wouldnt be into them if they Didnt have that part it can feel like theyre being used for it.

>>8712799
I guess thats true...I guess what I meant to say is that I accept them for that part. If they wanted to take HRT which they probably are because they're trans then it wouldnt even work anyways after a while. And I like women too so if they wanted to cut it off thats fine...I guess this is why I'm so confused lol. I just like everybody and everything
>>8712801

>>8712772
You rly belive in the shit you typing.... lol
also if u are not a tranny nor a chaser gtfo of this thred
>>8712801
In every relationship we use the couterpart for some physical attribute we like to build it up,
attraction for men has nothing to do with behavioral characteristics nor personality, that things may come later but without the basic phisical attraction its game over

>>8712810
Assure them youre cool with it, but dont lust after it specifically

>>8712831
I try to but they just think I chase. Thats the whole reason I made this thread. They always start with "you know i'm trans..." or something like that and I always say something along the lines of "Yea thats ok with me as long as you're ok I'm a guy lol" and they start giving me the 3rd degree and eventually it leads to sexualitity and I tell them I identify as straight and they always come back with so you only want me because of whats between my legs and you can be straight if you know I'm trans. And just get mad. I honestly don't get it.

>>8712767
I always hear the argument that "chasers are repressing trannies", but it just doesn't seem true to me.

I mean, how many of you current trannies were chasers before you transitioned?

Like if a transgender person likes men, are they chasers because men have penis's and are men?? How does it not work both ways?

>>8712830
>if u are not a tranny nor a chaser gtfo of this thred
which are you?

>>8712839
Sounds like bad luck my dude

>>8712853
I blame chasers

>>8712849
men don't care
trans do
pretty obvious difference. trans even came up with the word "chaser" because they care so much.

>>8712839
they sound like tumblr-kin

>>8712843
>I mean, how many of you current trannies were chasers before you transitioned?
that is a good point
I'm sure years ago I would have sought out friendship if I had known someone was trans, but it definitely wouldn't have been a sexual thing

>>8712739
Trans pride exists in Brazil, thailand, etc the western trans community is not worth trying to date or engage with

>>8712891
that being said the concept of a t-lover or "player" does exist and they are wary of men who want to hide etc but they seem to be more often in relationships even in intolerant countries due to this attitude also due to the macho culture in Latin america most of their boyfriends are top only and don't even touch their penis

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>>8712871
completly agree
being a "chaser" its hard at this time.
feel like having to cope aganist all thier unresolved psychological issues who cant handle by themself.

>>8712849
How about this then, imagine a man loses his dick at war and comes home feeling emasculated, worthless, like he's never going to be happy, like no one's ever going to love him, and then a woman comes along who absolutely loves his dick. The primary reason she's with him is because she likes his lack of a dick. During sex all she wants to do is fondle the little hole where his dick used to be for hours. Hell she's even got weird dirty talk she uses that makes him uncomfortable, like in the same way a transwoman might be called a "trap" or "shemale" or "sissy" she just loves to call her man a "pathetic dickless beta". Like she just entirely gets off on this mans severely upsetting physical deformity, he feels like more a fetish object than a partner. If he ever complains about it she berates him and tells him no woman who wasn't into his missing genitals could ever love him. And then one day after saving for years the mans got enough money for phallo, it won't be perfect, but he's finally going to have a dick again, his masculinity will be restored, he shares this news with his significant other, and she flips out and says "if you get the surgery you won't have any worth anymore, I won't be attracted to you and I'll leave you, and no woman will ever be attracted to you because you'll be a man with a gross flesh tube frankenpenis that's repulsive to literally everybody!"


You can maybe see how that might be at least a little bit upsetting for the man in this scenario yeah? Don't be a fucking idiot.

>>8712938
Omg this so fucking much. How do people not get that this behavior is disgusting and wonder why we don't want to date guys like that?

>>8712752
>I enjoy the aesthetics of a woman but a penis of a man
This is the problem.

>>8712719
You're a chaser because people like you want a cock, not pure lovely relationship

>>8712906
Transwomen who have largely resolved their psychological issues aren't likely to give chasers the time of day.

>>8712960
Not necessarily. Can't hunt down the source right now, but there's some evidence aesthetics and desire are in different places in the brain, and both together make sexual orientation

>>8712938
This is good. All chasers should read this.

>>8712938
If I lost my dick I would be OVER JOYED to find a woman who would actually love me enough to actually sleep with me instead of have me pull my pants down and laugh and stare then call me dickless. I would accept that a woman loved me for who I was now if shes calling me a derogatory term then who wouldnt be hurt like that so no one should, which is exactly why i dont say shemale or tranny. but if she wanted to touch it then sure because im not just goign to find something to be mad about when all she wants to do is accept me and she accepts me for something that I cant change.

>>8712961
How can you tell me what I want?? I want love? If you have a cock then ok? its not a big deal?

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>>8712961
Don't shame people for having a sexuality, you asshole.

>>8712961
You're a chaser because you're a tranny who only wants men for their cock...you see how stupid you sound?

>>8713065
Entirely different thing. If you can't see why then you're either full of shit or just genuinely, impressively stupid.

>>8713073
You're fucking retarded

>>8713073
You're so desperate for cock. You're literally trying to come across as a woman. If that's not a desperate chaser idk what is

>>8713121
>can't tell the difference between 50% of the population who tends to rather like their genitals and 0.06% of the population that tends to absolutely hate their genitals and why they might feel differently about certain things
Nah, you're retarded bud.
>>8713129
You know, the way you chasers tend to get so hostile and throw a hissy fit in the face of rejection is part of why transgirls don't like you.

>>8713135
Calm down little boy

>>8713167
Stay mad that no tranny wants to stick their dick in your poorly wiped hairy asshole.

>>8713187
Mines waxed honey. Try doing that to your legs and upper lip sometime

>>8713237
>Mines waxed

Chasers= closeted trans confirmed.

>>8713286
Thought so

>>8713065
>you're a tranny who only wants men for their cock
That's not true, honey. I want men for their body.

>>8713309
Chaser

I'm kind of glad HRT made me pseudo asexual. I was wanting a bf before, but this thread has all the reason why I won't have one now.

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>>8712719
>Can someone explain to me about chasers?
Its a derogatory label used among trans culture to denote an undesirable person. Small minded people that like to build walls instead of bridges have a lot of them: Tranny, Flamer, Chad, Stacy, Robot, Roastie, THOT, Nigger, Trailer Trash, Mudslime, Mudshark, etc, etc, etc. There is a derogatory label for everything in this world. It can only affect you to the extent that you let it.

Think about it for a second do you think starting QB Chad Thundercock actually gives a fuck that in his school some crybabies that watch Chinese cartoons in their room all day dont like him and complain about him on R9K? No, Chad has shit to do so he focuses on that. If you think about it derogatory labels are actually for the losing side of the argument, because the other side is just doing what they want to do and going after what they want in life while people tossing out these labels are wasting emotional energy on something they likely dont even control.

>I just don't understand why if I want to date a transwoman I'll be considered a chaser
The spoon does not exist, there is no spoon.

This is why you cant get what you want, because you are playing their game instead of going to get what you want. If starting QB Chad Thundercock sits in his room all day and argues with R9K about being Chad and skips going to Football practice and socializing with his friends guess what? He loses all of that. You can literally only lose by playing the losers game, make them play YOUR game, rig the rules in your favor and you cant lose faM.

>>8712719
>please help
If you want to buy a house are you going to go knocking door to door pleading, demanding, begging people to sell their home or are you going to go to the real estate listings and try to make a deal with a seller? Improve yourself mentally, physically, socially, financially, and swipe left on the bullshit son.

And thats real.

>>8712719
For what it's worth OP i don't mind chasers. well, i mind most chasers due to the sort of creepy/sleazy way they approach the issue, but i personally don't mind if a guy sees my girldicc as a positive, as long as his attraction to me isnt solely based on that, like i don't want to just be an outlet for a fetish you should be attracted to other qualities of mine than jsut my cock

all in all id consider it a positive if a guy i was with wasnt creeped out by my genitals, but i may be an outlier since i don't really have genital dysphoria

>>8713722
Ay bb girl get those panties off, show daddy your girldicc.
xD xD xD

>>8713722
Its just I'm attracted to a woman (not hairy like a man, not hard and riddled with muscles like a man, curvy features unlike a man, etc.) But I do like cock. Probably because when I masturbate and cum I've been looking at mine for 20 years and it affected me mentally or something idk; i'm no carl jung. But of course I like the other qualities. You can take the finest woman in the world and I'd be attracted, but if she is shit for a person I will want nothing to do with her. thats why I dont understand. Its like have you gave someone a chance to like you or love you? Or do you think their just chasers because they like your penis? Thats what I don't get about the chaser thing.

>>8712719
Nobody really cares as long as you're not creepy about it. If you're the type of chaser to refer to a tgirl's genitals as a "cute little girlstick" then none of them will want to date you.

>>8713757
then you're okay sweetie, i think for obvious reasons a lot of us girls are insecure and we want to just be cis women and be treated liek cis women so i think theres a lot of resentment towards trans attracted men that comes from like feeling insecure and invalidated by being with a chaser.

I should add that chasers sort of bring it on themselves too, a lot of them first come into contact with trans stuff from porn and so they get an unrealistic perception of what trans women are actually like and how to behave around them.

But yeh if you're just a swell dude, that finds me attractive and also likes my bepis then you're fine in my book.

>>8713771
LOL no thats stupid...I'll call it what it is, a penis, unless they prefer to have it called something else. No girlydick or malecunt or something stupid like that

>>8713812
>>8713757
... also, i think more well adjusted and less insecure trans girls will have a more realistic outlook on the whole chaser thing and you might have a better chance with them, except a lot of trans girls aren't well adjusted or confident, so if your serious about findign a trans girl mayeb you should take a page from Daddy Carth's book and you know, advertise yourself on forums like these and widen your potential trans girl dating pool instead of just expecting to come accross one irl that is well adjusted, attractive and is also cool with you ebign a chaser

>>8713812
Thanks there was a lot of arguing in this thread and I thought I started something I didnt want to..but hearing your positivity and reassurance makes me feel better. So thank you for your input!

>>8713828
You know I wish I could talk to you more you seem to be the only one who has given me honest advice without being a troll or anything like that. I figured this was a more serious board but I see /b/ likes to travel...

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>>8713719
thumb up for this guy... welcome to the real world bitches... its the same for women or men
>>8713757
well i am not actually attracted by the cock im attracted by their feminine body
if she have a cock i dont mind at all its even better for me they if she looks good

but the perception u have about someone loving as u are is unrealistic and counter productive

Being a chaser is fine as long as you never actually touch my dick. Like I can respect you as a man with an attraction to transwomen, but once you start wanting to touch/suck/get fucked by(I arranged these in order of how pathetic they are mind you, especially if you want to get fucked like that is the biggest turn off) my dick then you're a beta faggot and I literally don't have it in me to muster any amount of respect or attraction towards you, like you're not even a man in my eyes anymore at that point tbhonest.

>>8713941
gl then

>>8713845
thanks boo, yeh it's easy to forget that even tho this is /lgbt/ its jsut just a board on 4chan, i used to liuke the sort of non challant ironic, detached attitude that 4chan trolls had towards lgbt topics cuz it was a contrast to the straight faced serious way in which these topics are usually treated irl, but hoenstly this board (liek a lot of 4chan) is fileld with a lot of insecure and pathetic people and a lot of the negativity and bs can get you down, like seeing these posts saying trans girls will enver pass, sometimes gets me down but i jsut remind myself that the real world isnt anything liek thsi mongolian basket weaving forum

>>8713976
actually it is , its even worst

>>8713987
ah yeh you can get beaten up irl or whatever but i live in a liberal western european city, most people are polite when they find out the whole tranny thing, u gotta rmemebr even trannies can live fulfilling happy lives irl, the kinda self pitying bs that goes on in this board is hoenstly comparable to how pathetic /r9k/ is

>>8713976
the difference lie between the fact ppl will never say these things in the open because is socially unaccepted but they still think it in their minds

>>8714017
i think that's true to a certain extent but i don't think its wholey apt, i think 4chan attarcts a particular kind of person, one prone to self pity, and lashing out at others, yeh people may judge me for ebign a tranner, but the reality is most people irl are too busy actually living their own lives to actually care whether i have a cock or not

>>8714025
thats true if u are not trying to have a relationship with them and just casual interaction

>>8714037
yeh that's true, a lot of people wouldn't wanna shack up with a tranny, but then again that group probably has an overrepresentation of the uneducated, frankly i wouldnt wanna get with many of them either, idk maybe our experiences are different because of where i live and also my age, but youd be surprised how many people wouldn't mind gettin their dick sucked by a tranner, (most of them may be too embarassed to tell anyoen about it but still)

>>8714062
if im posting in this thread i dont mind for sure

>>8714062
educated! lol its not a thing u can acquire by education thats bullshit

>>8714113
openmindedness and a liberal attitude often is correlated with education, ignorance will often breed prejudice

>>8714140
it's pure fantasies u can educate ppl to threat another person with whatever gender they have as a peer but u CAN'T teach them to be sexually aroused by them that's another story and thats what u are claiming

>>8714162
thats not what im claiming, im claiming that human sexuality is complex and nuanced, and a lot of people who find a trans person attractive do not act on those feelings and in fact hide them and often overcompensate with violence and mockery because they are ashamed of it due to prejudice

im simply saying that someone with a more openminded attitude to life and sexuality would be more comofrtable with acting on those feelings of attraction

I'm completely fine with chasers, I wouldn't even want to date a guy who doesn't like my penis.

>>8714213
that another story
im perfecly agreeing with that

>>8714227
See thats what I'm thinking! Like you date a guy and open up you have a penis and they just laugh or call you gross...like you'd rather deal with that than someone that goes "oh thats fine I like transwomen's penises". Like...I dont get the chase argument!!! Lol

>>8714242
I'd rather my bf think it's gross and ignore it than for him to be a fag about it and want to mess with it.

>>8714242
it dosent matter if he like it its a unaware chaser
i think u got a big misconception of what a "chaser" is

>>8714262
its more complicated than this if he want only to mess with your cock hes a total gay

>>8714279
I mean yeah it's more complicated than that, like ideally a bf would be entirely neutral to it, like not dislike that it's there but not want to mess with it as well, but between a guy who loves the dick and a guy who's grossed out by it, I'd much rather take the guy who's grossed out by it.

>>8714284
its a fantasy,no guy can be neutral to a thing like that; he like it or he disgust him

>>8712719
Trans women have to label people attracted to them as fetishist, because to do otherwise would invalidate them.

>>8714284
on a certain level i can undertsnad where you're coming from but one also ahs to bare in mind that a man disgusted by a part of your body isnt very likely to be with you, this goes for cis women too who may have something disgusting about them

>>8714299
I mean I doubt there's no guys who'd be entirely neutral towards it, there's at least a few. I've been with people who outside of asking whether or not I want to be touched their seemed pretty neutral towards it.
>>8714308
Tell that to the millions of immature 18-24y/o straight boys who say they're grossed out by a vag but don't mind fucking one. Also I'm actually with someone at the moment who can see past my genitals but still very clearly looks forward to the day where getting rid of them is a more realistic option for me, so I know some people can get past a dislike of it.

>>8714326
maybe beacause u are smoking hot and want to fuck u in the ass so badly who they can pass about your dick but relahionship its another story

>>8714338
I guarantee you I'm not "smoking hot", and we are in a relationship actually. The fact that we have an actual emotional connection is probably why they're willing to look past it.

>>8714347
sounds like bullshit to me

>>8714347
congrats u got a cover chaser ;)

>>8714371
>>8714387
>being this salty that a trans girl could get a bf that isn't a closet gay dick fiddler 'chaser'

Run along gayboys

>>8714271
I probably do hence the start of this thread?

>>8714387
Probably not the smartest chaser on earth then seeing as how he's offered to pitch in money on me getting a penectomy.

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>>8714428
keep dreaming

>>8714450
prolly not

>>8714428
>>8714450
Just because he isn't attracted to your genitals doesn't make him not a chaser.

There are other aspects of being trans he can be attracted to.

>>8714527
no the anon ur replying to but, yeh ive heard a few guys say that but honestly i always just sort of assumed it was just them trying to seem less creepy and make it seem like they care about mroe than just the girldicc, what other aspects of beign trans are chasers interested in?

>>8714585
>lack of female socialization
>submissiveness
>"slutiness"

this ones come to mind
there are probably more, but you would have to ask actual chaser

>>8714585
feminine good looking face, pretty round ass, big boobs and a pretty slim fit figure

>>8714599
bullshit

>>8714602
ahh but u can get all those in cis women

>>8714613
>bullshit
What part?

>>8714617
so what i like it both at least if u are mostly straight
conversley i think more effeminate gay guys like trannys with more masculine traits and use them as a fall-back

>>8713719
you definitely arent chad, carth, thats why youre whining in a thread about names people call you, dumb nigger. could you be more obvious

if you had shit to do you wouldnt come her to lie about stuff nobody cares about and reply to yourself because the only real replies you get are hatred. you are a terrible person and its easy to see because you put your shameful inadequacies on display... you writing theses about people incidentally calling you names clearly denotes you as the person with nothing to do while the people mocking you dont give it much thought at all, and if someone just said nigger fifty times in a post youd whine about it in gigantic paragraphs trying to psychoanalyze why someone thinks youre a fucking jungle ape. im sorry you are afraid of bullies carth, maybe you should go somewhere else and enjoy the company of people who like obnoxious gay niggers who pretend to have jobs and a life

>You can literally only lose by playing the losers game
like all your justifications and lying. are you trolling carth? you're describing yourself. a loser who engages in loser activities, except its false to compare yourself to chad: chad doesn't care enough to come to /lgbt/. also alpha males dont rationalize everything they do with autistic rambling excuses

>And thats real.
says the manlet nigger, "real life is like a real estate metaphor even though i dont own a house and live in my toyota yaris parked under the freeway"

shouldve used a crack analogy, god know niggers love their crack or as i call it "coon candy"

>>8714665
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtwJvgPJ9xw
basuhsauhsauhasuhasuhsauhasuhasuh
autism

>>8714665
okay but whats with all the hate Carth gets, like op made a thread asking about why t girls dont liek chasers, Carth gave his opinion on the matter, like u may think hsi opinion was stupid or contrived or whatever but if u feel the need to interupt a thread thats already moved way past Carth's original comment, only to write out some spiel about why u hate Carth like boo u come across a bit pathetic

>>8714665
Carth being insecure bitch doesn't invalidate what he said here,

>>8714686
t. carth

>>8713719
im not this dude btw
>>8714665
>>8714685
i smell this turning in a flame thread

>>8714685
really carth? replying to me three times? really?

>>8714710
stop replying to yourself, nothing he said was helpful in any way. if you want to be alpha stop giving a fuck what anyone says and do whatever the hell you want with confidence. there is no formula to being successful in life. hes like a nigger trying to sell his version of "the secret" but for dumb, low self esteem chasers. its nonsense and a lot of sophistry and empty words that sound like truisms, but actually are not going to help because its all vague and coming from someone who hasnt ever succeeded at anything.

>>8714686
shut up carth, dont ever call me boo. transwomen are not stupid and they are not something you own or control. fuck off idiot. i get sick of your insistence that anyone actually wants you here. you are annoying, pretentious, and oblivious to social cues. you legit have autism and need to go fucking chase somewhere else like susans. i do not for the life of me know why non lgbt people come to this board

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>>8714686
>boo
Typing like a true spook.

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>>8714761
>i do not for the life of me know why non lgbt people come to this board

>Carth
>non-lgbt

She's AGP you insensitive fuck

>>8714736
>>8714761
>>8714787
like im not invested in this so i wont arue with u but for the record im not Carth

>>8714811
only carth responds to my bait, so why did you reply? because youre carth. "im not carth," so youre carth only children and idiots say "im not the retard! im defending the retard! im someone else!" you might as well say youre carths brother who gives a fuck no one defends carth

>>8714788
carth posting a white guy pretending to be black, the irony

>>8714789
lmao

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>>8713941
>hey I'm a huge twinkle toes fag that takes it up in every orifice possible and wear women's clothing and mentally ill and suicidal cause I look like a man
>still look down on other fags though as if I was a cis hetero person that actually looks human

You trannies can be such fags sometimes

You're ugly men with mental illness, get over yourselves and mutilate yourself already and just die

Chaser here. Meeting up tomorrow with a MTF trap. He says he's a virgin so I'll take it slow.

Any tips on converting him into a live-in sex slave? I need to get him dependent on me. It's obvious that he doesn't have much going for him in life. Crossdressing seems to be an escape for him.