ITT: coming out stories i wanna know what its like to accept oneself

>>8711697
just not giving a shit what people think about you and accepting the fact that you will never, ever, ever be straight. not in a million years. never.

it's tough, anon. took me years, but i'm gay. that's the truth, and there's nothing i can do about it.

>>8711697
>been depressed for a long time
>lie down in bed this one time crying my eyes out
>mother comes in and asks what's wrong etc
>several questions later: do you want to change sex?
>absolutely taken aback
>freeze
>shyly say yes

And that's it, no idea how she got to this conclusion I never acted faggy or anything, anyway, my parents don't really understand it but they want to see me happy so they're accepting.

>>8711718
You probably put some of her clothes back wrong.

>>8711735
Yeah, no.
Never touched her clothes.

>>8711738
Accidentally put your own in the normal wash? Forgot to clear browser history? She noticed whenever you played vidya it was a girl character? Acted a little too enthusiastic when dressing up for halloween?

>>8711710
ive known for several years now that i was basically gay. technically, i guess im bisexual, cuz i do like women, but ive always felt a stronger attraction, emotionally and sexually, to guys, and my attraction for women is negligible compared to my attraction for guys, so im effectively gay. over the years, my parents caught obvious hints that i was gay when i was young, but they shamed me incessantly into repressing it. over the years, my family calmed down, but now they have this double-standard where theyll act respectful around gay stranger, but still say that gay people dont belong in our family and theyre sick of gays being everywhere. ive tried forcing myself to get with chicks, but i cant in good conscience get with a girl knowing id much rather be with a guy, so i just end up dragging girls along. im so sick of lying to myself and giving idiots a say in my life. but i wanna come out from a position of strength.

>>8711718
god bless your parents.

>>8711755

>Accidentally put your own in the normal wash?
Never owned any female clothing prior to coming out.

>Forgot to clear browser history?
She barely knows how to use her phone, and didn't really ever browse anything suspicious.

>She noticed whenever you played vidya it was a girl character?
I doubt she'd be pay much attention to this, I'd be mostly left alone in my room, even still, I doubt such a tiny detail would make a parent think their child is trans....

>Acted a little too enthusiastic when dressing up for halloween?
Never dressed up for Halloween as it's not a thing in my country.

I guess some parents JUST know....?

>>8711768
ask her, tell her I wanna know

>be young, gay as fuck and embarrassingly unboyish with my friends, "ironically" practice girl voice at 13 and whatnot
>they still kinda like me and its fun
>late teens, go through trap thigh highs right wing death squad phase
>accidentally pass in public sometimes
>meet girl as trap, our relationship feels like we're both girls for some reason
>she asks if she wants to call me female pronouns after we'd been "jokingly" saying we're like sisters, make a "lmao trannies" joke but say "yeah itd adorable"
>kinda offend her a bit, she says trans girls are girls but i brush it off after thinking of gross hons
>drink a lot, browse lgbt, cut a lot, go to psych id seen before
>hey i think im trans
>hey mom i spoke to my psych today and told her im trans sooo
inspiring right? :')

>>8712701
oh i suppose you want the outcome, mom said oh ok, cried a lot, and admits she doesnt get it but shes understanding and i love her

>>8712701
>trap thigh highs right wing death squad phase
what

>>8712782
uh like /pol/ racism + feminine dicks in thigh highs and totally ironic nazi imagery despite the fact that im not white

maybe it was a 2015 thing

>>8711697
>be 13 years old
>one night really sad and feel like I have no options left
>send a really long email to my parent's about how I have gender dysphoria and I'm really depressed with some info
>the next day I hear my mom reading it because she starts muttering angry comments out loud, I just knew she was reading it
>she confronts me and starts asking questions which I answered in the email but she knows I'm a timid bitch and if she asks me a question enough I'll tell her what she wants to hear
>start crying and tell tell her I just want help
>she tells me it's just a phase and she wishes she could be a bird because she wants to fly but that's impossible
>lock myself in my room so I can get away
>mom tells my dad something, not really sure what because she'll lie to him to make him do things
>he's really really mad, eventually they get into my room and scream at me while I'm curled up in my closet
>they eventually leave me and I hear them screaming at each other in another part of the house
>next day they tell me I'm switching to a catholic school and I've lost my right to make decisions for myself
I'm 21 now, just started self-meding and my parents don't know, been in and out of therapist's and psychologist's offices for my "unexplained depression and anxiety" since 18

me: "i am homosex"
dad: "whatever"
mom: "no"

>>8712923
Don't do 4chan, kids.

>all trans coming out stories
it realy is /tttt/

>>8711755
So if i am a guy who likes to play female characters in games it means i am gay?rofl

>>8712965
>she wishes she could be a bird because she wants to fly but that's impossible
Your mother is a dumbfuck. Sorry your life was so hard. Good luck.

>>8712979
this

>>8713053
I wish i could be an apache attack copter. And bu cthulhu i swear i'll become one goddammit

>>8711697
but seriously talking, i think my actual best friend suspects something. Fact is, i don't think he'd really accept it, he'd probably keep distance from me... as everyone around me would. What should i do? I know i am bisex since i was like 10,living in the closet for 'bout 20 years now. It's not that bad buuuuuut... a lie is still a lie. Sooner or later it'll have to happen

>>8713087
>bisex
Intothetrash.jpg

>>8713045
>it means i am gay
Not gay hon.

>>8713093
Yep i'm into men and tanks as well. Got problems friendo?

>Decide to find a therapist so I can start hrt
>Girl comes along and she wants to date
>Repress again due to fear of loneliness
>Date for 6 months, break down and decide I have to tell her
>She's cool with it but I can tell that won't last forever
>Decide my mom is next on the list
>She has confronted me twice years before about being gay
>Have her stop by after work and I come out to her
>I'm crying and she's completely calm, telling me she already knew
>Get recommendation letter from therapist
>Gf realizes I'm totally serious and becomes ex gf
>Have to crash on mom's couch for awhile

>>8713332
Dating is the worst.

The only person I ever told was my gf at 18, she was not ok with it and i was in denial for over a decade after that

>>8713667
P.s. she dumped me 6 months later bc of my autism anyway

Always knew there was something strange about me since I was a kid.
Took me until High School to realize I was bi.
My dad caught me fapping to gay pron. My mom was crying about it. My dad didn't really care but my mom gave me a huge lecture since she was super Christian on how it was wrong.
Skip to a few months and I come out to my best friend who I have had for years, he gets super weirded out and never wants to talk to me again.
Fast forward to today and it has been over 2 years. My parents have pretty much forgotten or try to forget I am bi, and I haven't talked to that "best friend" for years which is fine since I was in a new school anyways. I have new friends who all accept me and I accept myself as well. My parents just one day need to wake up and realize that me liking men isn't going away.

>>8711697
in just a short few months, I went from a 4th suicide attempt, to tons of confidence, a stable job, growing career, a great BF, granted, I'm not out to everyone, just a few of my family and a few friends.

Amazing how much was tied to repressing.

even coming out as a gross tranny to mom wasn't pleasant for about a week. she discovered my bra once, when I wasn't expecting her visit, she prodded me, making fun of my slightly less than masc outfit. and felt it. flipped out, didn't speak for a week

She's since come around and has turned helicopter mom. which I actually had to yell at her for. but we're on good terms now. that day she flipped on me, I ran to a friend online to vent, one of the few that knew about my situation, we were close. we ended up talking though the entire night, skip about 4 months ahead, we had a date and I met his folks as girl.

it comes with many complications,
I'll go to my grave before my dad ever knows.
but I'd go as far to say, in most cases, the good outweighs the bad.

I was 100% prepared to cut ties and start fresh once I felt I could pass.

I toyed with the idea of transitioning at 17, went through with it at 20, hormones arrived on my 21st birthday

as for the bad:
I planned out my suicide at age 9. went through with it at 11, sat in the car exhaust, but almost got caught, so I kept weary of parent's time schedules, but could never find a reliable moment to myself.

12, lost house in a messy divorce,
15 attempted again, but I was given bad intel and swallowed a bunch of pills that did nothing. no one knew, so whatevs. 17, took a nap on the train tracks, but woke up alive and well, so I went on with my day to avoid suspicion.
about 6 months later, one girl I was friends with, came out to me as a boy and I just sat there talking, and everything started to click, like I went through so much of the same thought process, but I was really good at repressing memories as a kid.

>>8711697
my mum cried a lot, realised I'm still the same person I was immediately before transition, just she didn't know something and now she does, and has done enough reading of her own to understand gender dysphoria as a medical condition that needs treating and treats me more or less the same now as before I came out

my dad sexually assaulted me on christmas eve to try and scare me out of transitioning, I told him I only resorted to transition because I was going suicidal without it, and he offered to shoot me if I'd give him permission to

>>8713729
>my dad sexually assaulted me
If you haven't killed him yet, you've got no sense of right and wrong.

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>mfw coming out and then uncoming out thanks to therapy and anti anxiety medication i can use if dysphoria ever comes back

>>8713952
>unironically thinks anti anxiety meds are a more honest approach than transition.

RIP. when u die can i sue your therapis?

>>8713952
>anti anxiety medication for dysphoria
What's the name of the medication they prescribed you? Out of curiosity.

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>be senior in high school, afab
>really into Adventure Time because autism
>Bubblegum is annoying as hell but Marceline is a fucking 10/10 babe to me, get all confused and sweaty when she's around
>kind of fixating on her because she's sexy and confident, things I wish I could be
>Catholic family so I don't even know that liking girls is a valid option
>My mother is always making me paranoid as fuck because she's always hinting that it's strange I never go on dates or crush on boys at school
>Once I wanted to get a checkered shirt at a store and she told me "that's a lesbian shirt"
anyways this is going somewhere I promise
>watching Adventure Time after school like the emotionally stunted 17 year old I am
>Marceline has a new haircut, a haircut I've never seen before
>She still has very long hair, but half her head is shaved
>I've always wanted short hair, but was afraid because my long hair was the most feminine feature I had
>brain blast that if I gave myself the Marceline cut, I could have short hair and comb it over to hide from my parents
>go to get it cut, my mom always scheduled me haircuts at fancy salons but I just go to great clips by myself
>once they cut it I realize it's going to be harder to hide than I first thought
>drive home, expecting mom to be at work
>for some reason she's there when I get home
>she looks at my hair, her mond buffering as she registers what I did
>says "What is that? That's a lesbian haircut."
>surge of anger
"YEAH MOM
I'M A LESBIAN"
>run out to car, drive to library and sit in the kids section while freaking out
>mom texts me that she doesn't care and I should come home

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>>8714026
i was the one who insisted, i wanted a cure and dysphoria for me comes in the form of anxiety then depression and despair, blocking the anxiety stops that cycle

>>8714036
beta blockers, Bedranol to be exact.

Im off them now as i needed them to get off HRT cold turkey and now that my T is filling the gap i feel stable

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>>8713729
I'm sorry anon, your dad is fucking lower than garbage

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>tfw get a boyfriend
>be masc, straight acting because thats how i socialised growing up
>dating another masc
>tfw still disparage faggots when they appear on the news in front of family even though they know
>tfw redpilled them to the degeneracy of femmefaggots and trannies

>come out
>Parents say they love me but won't let me transition until I'm 18

>>8711697
Me: dad I'm gay
Dad: same

>>8711697
>i wanna know what its like to accept oneself
Your friends and family will (secretly) despise you

>>8714098
Interesting. Mine was definitely more depression and despair though.
I was on anti depressants at the same time as HRT for a while. It made the depression spells less frequent but I felt like it didn't lessen the severity.

Relevent to OP but not: I went through a few months of therapy in the beginning (as one does). Spent a disgusting amount of time self-reflecting at work for about a year and a half (about 20 hours each week).

Something finally clicked. In about a month I went from hating myself, to allying with myself, to appreciating myself to kind of liking myself. I would actually friend me now. Something about accepting ALL the pieces of myself.

I still deal with dysphoria to a lesser degree but the bipolar and anger has been gone for a little over a month now.

It took me a lot longer to accept myself than it did my parents (apparently they suspected I was gay for the last decade, when I came out they were fine and just curious about what my plans were).

>>8713705
>My dad didn't really care but my mom gave me a huge lecture since she was super Christian on how it was wrong.
Your dad could have cared enough to keep your mom from pressuring you.

>>8711697
Repressed since I was 5 years old. Kept thinking I would grow out of it. So I attempted to do every thing manly I perceived as a young boy. Learned to fight really well after being beaten up a few times for being a douche.
Ran with a massive clique in middle and high school, started selling cocaine in high school and ended up getting deeper into that world. Well known in my town of 30k people and ended up joining my fathers MC at 18.
For years I was in misery and when I decided to come out? The club just let me go, because they knew I was extremely depressed.
I don't tell anyone what I'm doing for nearly a year, but people had started to tell me that I needed to cut my hair, as I was looking like a female.
My second best amigo at the time is smoking a blunt with me as he asks about my hair as we drive in the country. I tell him and he completely laughs it off and doesn't believe it.
Call friends that know I'm going to transition and they assure him it's true. He proceeds to drink a fifth of bourbon and hours later, he's hugging me and crying after deep emotional turmoil, saying he doesn't care if I'm a bitch or not. He'll love me just the same.
My best friend reacts disgustingly, but comes around a week later and apologizes and gives me a yuuuuge hug.
Family is like "Oh! That's why you were such an asshole all these years!?" Except for my father, whom starts to distance himself entirely. We eventually stop talking.

Things go well, I no longer hate myself and am genuinely happy. Best friend even sticks up for me when I wasn't around and tells people that they actually see me be happy for no reason.

Fairly strong support network, I'm starting to live as a female. Things are absolutely wonderful and for the first time in my life. I have hope. Best friend seems to imply I caused a cascade of people coming out in my home town, says I helped killed bias, even his own. Male friends start to find me attractive.

>>8714316
>>> Part 2
I've been self medding the entire time since I told my gate keeping doctor to go fuck herself after she renigged on her agreement to give me hormones if I could keep my levels right. Says I have to quit self medding now and wait a year as a test.
So, eventually I lose sources of the hormone types I'm not allergic to online, which as it turns out is a lot.
I try 2 other doctors in the area and don't receive hormones except for years down the line.
I start self medding on types I'm allergic to and it causes my body to break out in a rash that has discolored me since and cause itchy pus bubbles.
Deciding I need an alternative I attempt to find another to no avail. Slowly, I begin to lose all the effort and funds I put into transition. I was offered a model position at Torrid, now Im aging rapidly, and at the 18 month mark?
I start to lose hair, plus Im starting to grow back and chest hair. Wasn't long after I lose my passability and start to consider suicide.
I remember selling Heroin and seeing how blissful of a death it seemed. So I started doing Heroin to numb my pain and very accepting of the fact I may die.
A few months later, I look like a hon. Beard, back hair, chest hair, developing bald spot.
I overdose purposely. Am brought back by medics. Never forgave that friend for calling an ambulence.
After years of silence, my father comes to see me at my job. He's using female pro nouns and tells my youngest brother "This is your sister! Doesn't she look good?" Knowing I look absolutely terrible now.

I calmly ask him to stay where he was, when I needed him and go away, I cannot stand fakeness of any kind.
To this day, we still do not talk, but I'm extremely bitter now anyways.
So I overdosed once more and some how survived an hour and a half and being dead for 5 minutes.
At this point? I give up on death, I give up on life. I just am.

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>>8714126
>he took the redpill meme seriously

>>8714098
Oh, look, it's Spartan again.

>>8714147
kek

>>8714170
This.

>>8713711
Glad to hear you're better now. Good luck.

>>8714077
>run out to car, drive to library and sit in the kids section while freaking out
>mom texts me that she doesn't care and I should come home
ayyy

>Date girl for about 2 years in high school
>Always knew I was bi
>Gf was emotionally unstable and emotionally abusive, I couldn't handle it anymore
>Afraid of breaking up with her, thought she would kill herself
>Tell her I am gay, thought it was the easiest way
>Obviously had to tell my parents, my family and my gfs were close
>"Son, why did you breakup with gf?"
>Im not really into girls anymore"
>go back to room
>mom comes in, says she doesnt care
>Dad comes in, says he doesnt care
It was never brought up again, and i get awkward when ever i do anything feminine or see anything gay around my parents. I think they were pretty sincere when they said they didnt care, i think itll be better when i get a bf or something

>me: "Dad, I'm a lesbian"
>dad: "Alright. Oh, next time you see your mom, tell her she owes me $50"

I've posted a while back in a similar thread but whatever

>don't ever think about going to a gay bar since they're all in one part of town I never went to
>one day in the car with a straight friend and happen to drive through the gayborhood
>see a bar with a bunch of people outside enjoying themselves
>start having this immense desire to go there at least once
>every few weeks cruise around the block with the intention of going inside but always chicken out last minute
>national coming out day
>might as well do it
>look on youtube for videos of people coming out for tips
>people making a huge deal about being 90/10 bisexuals or demiqueer
>Lose interest about it since I'm afraid of being a drama queen like them
>finally muster the courage to go to the bar
>everyone's really welcoming and kind, and have a great time
>a few days later
>notice that I'm on the bar's Instagram pictures
>instead of rumors and stuff I make an instagram myself and link them to my facebook
>nobody really noticed so for the longest time people either knew or didn't care

Now I basically only really tell people if they ask which is actually pretty rare

>>8714077
that's actually a funny one

I had to come out to my mum four times about being trans, she spent the last six years convincing herself its a phase. At this point I'm just gunna turn up girl mode when I visit for a coupla days next month

>>8714362
Shit son, good luck.

>>8713729
Jfc robin, that's heavy

When your family is fundamentalist, it can be Hell.

>>8714126
>Redpilled
>Posting a black character from a movie
Either you're one of those self hating niggers on /pol/
Or you're an idiot.

Your choice.

>>8715283
no he's just one of those kekistani morons who thinks redpilled means everything

witness the death of a meme

>>8713936
I just try to live my own life as best I can, spent most of my life savings moving away to a different county, getting hung up on revenge would hurt me more than him

>>8712923
Idk why these other posters are acting like it's weird, I went through the exact same thing. Not exactly /pol/ based, but I got very trappy and right wing.

>>8711697
>decide to come out to dad
>ask him to go for a drive at like 9:00pm
>we cruise around for a while jammin out to rush and shit, then we stop at a beach
>we go and sit on the beach and look at the stars for like 20 minutes
>take in the ocean air
>take in the sound of the waves
>sigh deeply like 5 times
>almost pussy out
>tell him i want to chop my cock off
>he tells me "yeah I figured"
>...
>we go get mcdonalds then go home
>things are good
>got hormones like a week later

>>8719908
How did he know?

>>8719928
he found the drawer with grills clothes but never talked to me about it until after i came out

>>8719938
Maybe parents in that situation should talk about it, to ask their child if they are trans.

>>8719941
My parents found my girl clothes once when I was 10 they said you better just be experimenting then last time they did I was 13 and my mom was disgusted and acted like it was nothing

>>8711697

>never tell my family anything
>try to kill myself cus lmao
>spend a month in hospital
>after getting out my mom tells me she's always known and accepts me anyway
>tries to hug me
>put arm out to stop her touching me
>never speak of it again

banter

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>Have very negative relationship with my parents
>Mum invades my privacy goes through my stuff and finds out a lot of media i like has trans women
>Interrogates me until i break down and admit it for the first time to anyone
>They get really mad and tell me how embarrassing that is
>After a really long argument i realize i cant convince them and just beg them in tears to promise not to tell anyone else
>Days later notice everyone acting weird around me
>They told everyone
>"You cant just drop that bomb me anon, think about my feeling for once. I Had to tell them"

So yeah i technically never came out.

>>8715283
Blue person is not a race moron

>>8721422
whats wrong with you

>>8721665
sorry that happened to you. similar thing happened to me, except it was gay porn. for years, my mom would intentionally bring up the incident in front of other people to rub my nose in it

>living away from parents for around 4 years
>repressing and working 16h/das
>Loose all feelings, no pain no hunger/neither bodily feelings nor emotional Ines
>Go to a doc, tell hin everything and that i think i should end my life because it feels the same as being dead
>Go to a hospital for suicidal people, Fall my dad, have a nervous breakdown and tell im everything
>"I love you. It doesnt matter what you will be or what you want to be i will always love you ans try to help you with everything as much as i can"
>Get better slowly
>Dad drove 800km just to fetch me so i wont be alone.
>Move into a new city, get hrt, dont look like much yet but feel ALOT better
>Tell mother about everything, she tries to be supportive but is making fun of me' most of the time, tries to pacify me by throwing money into my face, buys ne a Ticket so i can Go to the sea, buys me clothes, lots of hugs and makes my hair into cute girly hairstyles
>Will never work the Job i did before, started studying
>Tell my friends about it, everyone is very accepting, dont treat me any different from before

So..i think even if i will never look like a cute girl i will still have people who love and accept meine which keeps me going, life just started going uphill after starting hrt

>>8721702
Oh, you're that tranny... Neck yourself.

>>8722430

i dont know which tranny you are referring to but i am not a tranny

i just have lots of other brain problems

>been with my cute twink bf for 2 years
>thanksgiving
>sitting in my parents room
>already nervous just thinking about it before i walk in there
>"i have to say something"
>choke up and i cant get the words out
>i dont know what to say
>"whats wrong, talk to us. Did you get in trouble? Did you get in an accident?"
>"whatever it is we'll fix it"
>it's not something you can fix
>ive had a couple gf's before in hs but i just want you to know i have a boyfriend now
>"a boyfriend? How's that?"
>i just like both things *facepalm*
>well anon i raised you not that much different from your brothers, youre old enough now we're not gonna tell you hoe to live your life
Days later, check with them if my bf can come over since i still live with them and dont wanna freak em out more
>dad is it okay if my bf comes over?
>"Your what?"
>My boyfriend Anon
>"I dont like that, why dont you find a gf and have lots of kids"
>i get upset and i think about how im still in college and how tf that's an option when im studying an engineering degree im not just gonna throw my life away and have even more kids on top of the little shits that my brothers have running around the house, freeloading off my parents
>"dad, i wish you would understand. Id appreciate it if you understood me and who i am"

>>8722692
The whole thing confused me about how they felt. Initially they said they werent gonna tell me how to live my life and were still accepting but kinda reserved about me having a boyfriend. Then they tell me to ger a gf and have lots of kids.
We havent talked about it since and my bf comes over but we just stay in our room and do cute shit together. My parents never say hi to him. I just wish that theyd ask me about him or tell me to invite him to come over for a bbq. I wish i was more comfortable talking to them about him and his family and how theyre nice to me and everytime i go over to his place i give his mom a hug and play with his nieces and we sit in the living room and watch tv and we go over to his aunt and uncles and hang out with his cousins and how accepting theyve all been of me

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>Be 17
>In the closet but slightly fem
>Been hanging out with the new guy at school for the past few weeks
>After school we go to my place to play some vidja
>We're there by ourselves since my parents both work
>Suddenly he tells me "you make me feel strange"
>Ask him if I did something
>His face is turning red
>Be socially inept so begin apologizing
>Next thing I know his tongue is half way down my throat
>First kiss.jpeg
>When we come up for air I tell him I've never kissed anyone before
>Some stuff went down and he ended up doing me on my bed
>Look at the clock
>Wtf, how is it 8pm already?
>Realize my door is half open
>My parents have probably been home for almost an hour
>Hear my mom downstairs
>"Sounds like Molly is here"
>Molly is my older sister and a notorious whore
>Friend says "uh oh, I should probably go. I'll call you later"
>Walk him to the door
>Stopped by my dad
>"Aren't you going to introduce your friend, son?"
>I become full autistic
>Friend handles it like a pro
>Even talks about football with my dad for a few minutes
>After he leaves dad tells me that "your new friend seems nice. Sounds like he knows a thing or two."
>I'm sure Dad meant about football but I got super embarrassed anyway.
>Mom says "Anon... You sounds like your sister."
>Oh, would you look at the time? Time to GTFO

Ended up dating him for a few years but going to different colleges made it hard. Still really close and hook up from time to time.

And that's how my parents found out I'm a faggot!

>>8722704
Iktf feel really well anon. My family acted accepting and it was good at first but then they started talking about how it had gone on long enough and I needed to move out of that phase. And then my bf's family was really accepting and kind and I loved spending time with them. The worst part is eventually we broke up and I miss having that kind and loving family to look forward to visiting more than I miss him at this point

>be 17
>arguing with parents about my (female) friend
>father asks me if we're a couple of dykes
>blurt out that we are
>parents leave the house. say they will be back in an hour and make sure I'm gone with my stuff before they get home
>haven't seen or spoken to them in 26 years

>>8713045
TFW you play oras and may is fucking terrible and playing as her sucks and seeing her as your rival is the worst *does bow thing*
Fuck that bitch.

>>8714098
That's a sexy guy

>Always liked wrestling with other boys in kindergarten and found myself looking at their butts whenever I could.
>In 3rd grade a friend and I would do stuff together in the bathroom during recess.
>Finally jerk off to gay porn for the first time in Fifth grade. Jerked off 5 more times that day
>Bi church guy makes advances on me and we hook up on the DL, but never went any farther than Blowjobs.
>8th grade year I'm really into trading pics. with people online.
>Forget to hide the pictures and mom gets on computer because hers is updating
>She finds me trading pics.
>Before I go to bed in called downstairs
>There is a police officer
>Is scolded and screeched at about the dangers of the web.
>Upstairs mom asks if I'm gay.
>"Yes"
>She hugs me and says shes there for me, grandmother goes on a rant about how the newer generation is corrupted, and other Christian shit. Dad is surprisingly caring and supportive.
>Punished for one year, but my mom lifts it after she catches me playing Grid 2 with my friends at midnight.
>Dad starts buying me different underwear that he thinks gays like (Calvin's and AC).
>I can finally hang up those male posters I always had hidden under my bed.
>I'm more cheery and open now.

I didn't come out so much as being forced out of the closet due to my stupidity.

>>8721702
Kill yourself

>>8722515
The one who tells everyone who disagrees with them they are a straight christian pedo disease. If you're that person I wish you nothing but pain and suffering.

>>8722998
>>Dad starts buying me different underwear that he thinks gays like (Calvin's and AC).
Ugh...that's...absolutely...repugnant. I need to puke. The fuck is wrong with your family ?

>>8711697

You can never accept mental illness.

>>8722739
topkek

>>8722951
:(

>>8721687
Coding is a thing.

I mean, remember, that's Chris Rock.

>>8723183
>:(
Yeah, I felt that was for about 24 years but "finally" got over it.

>ask a bunch of really obvious questions about gay people in my youth
>everybody knows
>secretly want to be a boy
>get suicidally depressed in college
>not getting out of bed, dropping out
>come to terms with it after years of "I'm just a really butch lesbian"
>feel better thinking of myself as a man
>tell my dad in a car ride
>he's really awkward
>accepts me though
>tells fucking everyone
>grandma trying to convince me to be feminine
>neighbor taking it well
>stepmom taking it well
>sisters taking it well
>grandfather says nothing to me about it but he's cool
>seeing a gender therapist in two days

Life is okay.

>>8723527
Good luck. Maybe some day I'll reach that point.

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>>8711697

>Be growing up
>Act a bit girly
>People make fun of me
>Think I must be a girl
>Get older
>Feel dysphoric in my own skin
>Time passes
>Realize the dysphoria actually came from thinking I was a girl because people made fun of me
>Accept I am actually a man
>No more dysphoria

>bi gf and i have a spat, break up
>mom thought we were just really good friends, a few years later asks what happened
>i say she can ask about the situation but i won't explain it myself
>"was it about something rude you said?"
>no
>"was it about drama with your other friends?"
>no
>"was it something else about you two?"
>kind of
>"is she gay?"
>no
>"are you gay?"
>do you think i'm gay?

apparently she asked offhand and didn't actually expect me to say yes. we talked about it a little and she cried the next day but now we're cool

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>>8715030
i have the same thing with sociel media
i live in a majority conservative country with no lgbt equality rights
but i just decided to be like fuck it, and started posting the gayest shit on my ig and liking lgbt pages on fb and nobodys saying anything so i guess im safe
i noticed that most people dont really care, it's the vocal, hateful minorities and governments that oppress people

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>Be 15
>be repressing hard
>hairy as fuck
>small burn gets a noticeable chunk in leg hair
>decide to shave it all off.
>feels nice
>a week later mother notices and proceeds to flip out and confiscate all my razors.
>wat
>Tells everyone every time I enter the room.
>complains about my newly long hair
>every person confused by her behavior.
>repeat for 2 months.
>her friends start making drunken visits to my room to ask if I'm okay.
>feels rapey man
>week later
>sleep on train tracks
>wake up fine
>cry

decide I can at least try, every thing else ends in suicide attempts
>2 years later
>finally get job
>2 years later, move out and order whoremones
>come out to one friend
>she was dropping heavy hints for 2 years
>we both knew
>she helps me with makeup and dressing myself like a functional human.
>mother makes impromptu visit one day.
>Turns out she had a key made
>finds my clothes since I hadn't cleaned and flips out.
>don't speak for week.
>she comes back
>apologizes
>anything to help
>pls do nothing
>proceeds to tell 7 members of her friends and family.

>Feels wat man

>>8711718
That's really sweet, I'm jealous.

>be in high school
>talking with friends
>they tell me they wanna set me up with this ugly chick
>tell them to fuck off
>"It's alright anon, we know you're gay"
>apparently I did actually tell them at some point
I literally cant remember when I came out to them

>>8729615
Your mom is a bitch. Seriously, fuck her. It's none of her business if you shave your fucking legs, and it's damnright abusive to bring it up all the time. I'm honestly surprised she didn't flip out harder when she found your clothes. Cis people don't get being in the closet. My mom had to tell my sister and didn't understand why that pissed me off. I'm sorry for people like you.

>>8730551
>Cis people don't get being in the closet
Different anon, but this. I''m not out to anyone in my family except my sister. Huge mistake. Now whenever she wants something she threatens to out me to my parents. Straight / cis people have no fucking idea what it's like to have to hide your identity, and how terrifying it is to open up to someone about that part of yourself and then have them turn around on you.

>>8730339
My fucking sides have transcended to a new dimension.

>>8714139
This is completely reasonable man. When your not an adult your brain cant properly make these decisions. Im not making any judgement on you personally but your parents are doing that so you dont make a mistake

>>8712965
Parents are so fucking stupid, god damn.
>>8714147
>>8715015
Haha what the fuck

Okay so I came out to my family as a tranny back to when I was 21. My dad and sister were easy to talk to, but my mom? Oh man.
>be a conscript in the military
>trying to come out to my mom in the bedroom
>she thinks I have cancer or some shit
>calmly explain the situation to her
>"were you sexually abused as a kid?"
>"you're going against god and nature"
>"these hormones are going to give you cancer. No way you're taking them"
>"do you want to be a girl to have sex with boys? You don't have to be a girl to do that you know"
>"transvestites become freaks who can only work as hookers"
>"you are not going out as a transvestite out of this home!!!"
>"this internet has influenced you so negatively"
>Thiswasn'tsuppossedtohappen.jpg
After two years of arguing and me trying to educate her on trans stuff as well as being 9 months on mones, she has accepted me and is improving on her stances, but come oooooon. Did I have to spend two years on trying to convince her? Almost ran away once and was physically stopped by my parents like 8 months ago, and we had the "hey I want to start presenting female on the outside" like a week ago. Progress!

>>8730551
She's clinically bipolar so just about everything is difficult.
Even telling her I made an A in class can be stressful.

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Mom:
>"oh honey, you'll never be a beautiful woman. Your head is just too big. I still love and support you no matter what"
Random family friend who was staying in my room on vacation confronts me on her last day here: >"sooooo does that mean you like wearing high heels and dresses and stuff? You're going to hell. Look up this website. See it says right there, gay people and transvestites go to hell! It's in the Bible!"
Godfather:
>"I love you! I'm so proud of you! I got your back no matter what anyone in your family says! But you have to promise me you'll tell your dad"
Father:
"Do you think I'm dumb?! I already knew that. You're not really trans. Trans people aren't even real. I knew this one guy who dressed up like a last and stopped talking to his family. Those pills are gonna give you cancer. Smoke weed if you're depressed. You need to stop taking those pills! Men need testosterone! Please see a therapist!!"

In that order.

>>8731378
>Those pills are gonna give you cancer. Smoke weed if you're depressed. You need to stop taking those pills! Men need testosterone! Please see a therapist!!
my dad told me the same exact thing

>>8731394
Those poor, delusional men...

>>8731378
Is your mom skullsize autist?

>>8731585
They are men, they need testosterone. MtFs, on the other hand have a malformed brain where some sexually dimorphic areas are closer to those of women so I'd say they're better off with estrogen.

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i told my mom about how i like to fap it to traps and she wasnt as supportive as the media implied she would be..

>>8732273
Greentext everything.

told my mom a few years ago was kind of awkward though since she went like "whaaat" all in shock, never spoke about it again but she's fine with it