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what has a bigger dating pool? cis gay man or straight trans

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what has a bigger dating pool? cis gay man or straight trans woman?
totally not weighing this in to my decision to transition
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Is definitely say Cus gay men
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I found my dating pool probably doubled in size when I transitioned to be honest. But I was a very feminine, awkward, boy who had a face like a 12 year old (at 19). I transitioned into a passable, fairly good looking girl. So gay men never wanted me to begin with, and after transitioning I've found dating really easy, but I think it all depends on how passable you are. Just do what makes you happy anon, even if dating becomes slightly more difficult it will still be worth it if you end up liking yourself. Just don't transition for the sake of getting dick. It won't be worth it.
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Gay men theoretically have a bigger dating pool but straight trans will have an easier time actualizing on the dating pool they do have.

Let me explain. To be gay in this society is still a very "awkward" thing. It's not something you just wear like a badge on your sleeve or just bring up like a topic of greeting to other people "by the way, John, do you know I like dicks?"

This makes it very difficult to scope out potential partners in practice, in the real world. You don't really know whether or not the object of your perusal is even capable of reciprocating your affections, and in fact the odds say no. Most men are het. Most men you will meet in day to day life through hobbies or shared interests will be het.

So you have to resort to the scum of the dating world to find anybody - gay bars, Grindr, and weird dating sites. All big hives for pozfags. It's hard to know who you can trust if anybody unless you've known the person for years. Some people will still find matches through this, and good on them, but it's limiting nonetheless. You can't go up and start chatting up a man with any expectation that it will go places like a het man can with a woman or a woman can with a het man.

Straight transwoman have none of these problems. They don't need to resort to tinder though many of the autistic ones on here still do, they don't need dating sites or the fetish community. They can go to the fucking club and pull. And if they're cute enough (and trust me, to drunk het guys the standards are not the highest), they will pull.

The biggest problem an mtf has to face is not number or quality of partners, but whether or not those partners will be comfortable accepting the fact that the transwoman was born male. If you take away all the people saying they'd be uncomfortable sleeping with a tranny the dating pool is likely smaller than the gay + bi male pop but a transwoman will have an easier time finding and building relations with those that aren't uncomfortable.
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Why don't trans people just settle for chasers, assuming they are attractive?
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>>8682844
Pretty good post
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Cis gay men. Do not listen to people who say otherwise.
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>>8682547
>maybe if I take these pills I can lie about my sex and seduce straight men

You are absolutely disgusting.

I hope Trump makes it a felony to not disclose your birth sex prior to sexual activities.

>>8682896
Straight men would never be into other men, no matter how "passable" they are. Who else would be interested?
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even starting before puberty, these kids still have manly faces and don't pass. Why is it that? The tranny in the picture has an incredibly manly face and a huge head and he/she is only 13. If you watch her videos, you can just fucking see a man. And he is only fucking 13 and started hormones at 12!
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>>8682896

The exact definition of a chaser seems to change, but under some definitions a chaser cares far more about the trans person's junk than the actual trans person. Basically, they're just a sex object, and that's not enjoyable in a long term relationship
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>>8684489
>anon getting btfo in his own thread hijacks another one with the same pic
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>>8683729
>deception meme
OP isn't asking because they want to deceive, they are asking because it's fairly reasonable to want to know how a life change like transition will affect your dating life. Deception is not a reason people transition, and people who think it is are showing their true sociopathy. Not everyone thinks like you.
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>>8682776
this basically, it's all about how attractive you are

people who complain they have no one to date are usually unattractive
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