So I'm a 20 year old male who has had sex with other guys multiple times, but once I cum I get the feeling of regret. It happens at times when I masturbate and talk to guys on Grindr. Has anyone had a similar experience?
No. Not a single man in all of human history has had any problem with regret after cumming. It certainly is not something that every man on earth shares in common and talks about constantly and has never been used as a plot point in any sitcoms or books or movies... You are a freak like that crazy woman who talked about bleeding out of her vagina. I heard they put her in the nuthouse and they should do the same to you, you fucking lunatic.
>>8665550
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse
>>8665567
Basically this you dumb faggot
>>8665550
Forgot to mention dating a guy isn't for me either, just having sex with them. Other than the small period where I masturbate and think about guys. I prefer women and cum to I guess straight porn
>>8665592
Congrats on being a typical naive child. If you stopped self-obsessing and actually looked around and paid attention you would realize you're not interesting or unique in any way at all.
>>8665607
Well thanks for the help lol
>>8665614
God helps those who help themselves you lazy heathen.
>>8665550
Nice butt, where ya from?
>>8665638
judging from the "shoes" i'd say europe
>>8665643
Dude, if I was there you'd be way too busy bouncing on my dick and lusting for that cock to feel any regret.
What's your discord/kik?
>>8665650
Not my room
>>8665657
Lmaooooo
>>8665550
Is that your butt OP? I'd smash
To answer your question, yes. It happens. The psychological rationale is that sex is one of the primary drivers of human motivation. Once sex is consummated, one can lose a sense of purpose or sees that sex itself isn't all that worthwhile a thing to pursue, so you become temporarily melancholic.
>>8665607
Why do I feel like this image applies to 90% of the threads on /lgbt/?
>>8665684
Yes that is my butt.
Hmmm that's very interesting. Once I start to masturbate I just get into a totally differently mode
>>8665550
Men's bodies are so grotesquely hideous.
KILL IT WITH FIRE tbqh.
>>8665657
This is what 4chan thinks is smooth.
My God.
>>8666649
>This is what chasers think is smooth.
FTFY
>>8666649
Works on Grindr
>>8665550
There are a thousand Catholic stand up comics who have talked about how this is how all cishet Catholics feel after they cum.
Here's how to fix it.
1. Stop believing in God
2. Stop believing in God
3. No seriously, stop believing in God
4. "b-b-b-but I already don't believe in God, I'm an atheist!"
5. Bullshit, if you didn't believe in God then you wouldn't be obeying the command to fear hell and other stupid bullshit
6. Stop believing in God
Repeat this every day until you no longer need to. It's a lot easier than it sounds. It's easier then addition or subtraction. Remember, practice makes perfect!
>>8665550
kill yourself faggot
>>8666693
Not really a firm believer in religion or a god
>>8666601
objectively wrong
>>8666712
Are you the OP? Because if so you provided evidence that you are, what with that whole "fearing hell" thing.
PROTIP: Saying you believe this, or don't believe this, is not the same as actually believing, or actually not believe, said things
A belief will lead to some physical evidence that it exists. However small. However infinitesimally small. A belief will not yield absolutely zero physical evidence that it is real, along with plenty of evidence that it's a lie. Only lies can do that.
>>8666747
Wait hold up. I never said anything about fearing hell lol
>>8666747
Ever wonder why, before the age of reason, all "beliefs" REQUIRED a ritual to be performed around them repeatedly, and often?
And even in the early days of reasoning, when geniuses invented 20 things a year and were professors in 30 different fields, they had a ritual around all of their studies, a ritual that was repeatedly, blindly and often?
Because it works. A muscle that you contract a certain way using heavier and heavier weights grows stronger, and performs that action more and more easily. A thought, and the brain cells attached, work better, faster, the more repeatedly you exercise them in the ritual of repeating the truth.
You cannot say "there is no god" too often. In fact, you cannot say "there is no god" often enough. Every time is better than the last.
>>8666755
>once I cum I get the feeling of regret
That's exactly what you said. You can lie and say that's not what you said, but it's what you said.
>>8666779
Yeah I said I regret it, but that has nothing to do with fearing hell lol
>>8666788
Yes, it does. There are very few cultures that have ever existed in the world that have experienced sexual shame without the threat of some nasty afterlife from some diety if they dared to enjoy sex. In cultures where their religions celebrated sex, there was less than no shame, dramatics and histroinics when it came to sex became a competition and were a source of pride.
Yeah, you fear hell. You lied again, but you still fear hell.
>>8666803
LOL
>>8666827
You know, no matter how many times you affix lol to the end of your post, it won't fix that whole fearing hell thing, right?
>>8666833
L O L
Going to hell I guess for taking it in the butt too many times
>>8666853
No, you won't. And if you would stop repeating the lies of the straight disease, and instead tell the truth, maybe you wouldn't think about killing yourself after a couple million sperm squirt pitifully out of your penis.
>>8666862
Sounds like a speech from a cult leader
>>8666893
It is designed to evoke strong emotions to get through the thick skulls of those incapable of thought. If you can call something I typed up without any forethought "designed."
>>8666893
It does seem suspicious though that you would accuse me of being a cult leader when I'm trying to free people from the evil of sexual repression delivered via Christianity.
I mean, shouldn't it be obvious that the cult leaders are those others, the ones spreading lies meant to cause unlimited harm and calling it religion?