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How do I know if I'm a lesbian?

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So, long story short: I'm not sure if I'm bi or gay. I've been questioning my sexual orientation probably since I was 10, because at that age all I drew was girls and their bodies (and always with pretty tight clothes). It's like I've always had a fixation on girls, but in my childhood I pretty much was friends with both genders and never really had a crush on anyone.
Nowadays, I still find a lot of girls cute and think about how pretty they are. Sexually speaking, I've masturbated to both girls and guys, but considering my fetishes, it's been mostly girls.
I have a boyfriend I think I'm in love with, and we've done some sexual stuff I have definitely enjoyed, but I think this could be related to my kinks, since his penis isn't that attractive to me.
Female genitals aren't very appealing to me either, but if they're really nice I can definitely get horny looking at porn videos of them. I'd also love to kiss a girl desu...
Soo, tldr: how do I know my sexual orientation. Is there any way to know. And even if I was bi, I'm still pretty confused about which gender I'm more attracted to. Shit's complicated.
Pic related, that girl is so pretty istg
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>>8664610
>>8657310
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>>8664610
>I've masturbated to both girls and guys
That's bi
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>>8664610
>I've masturbated to both girls and guys, but considering my fetishes, it's been mostly girls.
What scenes did you imagine?

>but I think this could be related to my kinks,
What kinks?
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Ok quoting a bitch but I do like this way of thinking of bisexualatiy

>I know this question is just an expression of your immaturity, but it annoys the shit out of me when people frame bisexuality as a false dilemma between genders. It’s not.

>Go fall in love. Go get your heart broken, and then go do it again. Find out what it takes to be in a long-term relationship regardless of either of your genders. Learn about yourself. Figure out the kind of person you want to be and the kind of life you want to live.

>Go do all that shit, and when you’ve finally grown up a bit, when you’ve wrapped your head around the wonderfully messy and messed-up complexity of interpersonal relationships, when you’ve come to terms with how little control you actually have over your romantic destiny in the first place, maybe then you’ll realize how ridiculous it is to reduce major life decisions about potential life partners to something as ultimately inconsequential as “penis vs vagina.”
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>>8664610
>I have a boyfriend I think I'm in love with, and we've done some sexual stuff I have definitely enjoyed
You're not a lesbian, kinks or no. You're bi with a strong female preference who settled with a man anyway, as nearly all of them do.
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>>8664610
>boyfriend I think I'm in love with, and we've done some sexual stuff I have definitely enjoyed
>Female genitals aren't very appealing to me either
You're bi, this is not even a question you should have to ask. As for what you prefer, it's clearly your bf at this time. Worry about what person you'll be attracted to when you're single.
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>>8666849
weeell this is embarassing but I'm really into breast expansion, weight gain and bimbofication. Weight gain applying to both girls and guys. It seems like I'm aaaybe into fat guys.
>>8667300
yeah i also wonder why most bi girls settle with men. but im probably also one of them so
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>>8669369
>looks at that photo
>doesn't immediately recoil in horror
Yeah you're bi. And you're fucking disgusting.
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>>8669373
i mean i think hes pretty good looking
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>>8669395
It's just the proof that you're not a lesbian. A photo like that would send any pure rugmuncher into a terror induced coma.
t. lesbian
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>>8669408
I'm straight and that pic sends me to vomit.
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>>8669433
>not liking a thicc hairy man
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>>8664610
Consider a thought experiment. If a transgender MTF dropped her pants in front of you, what would you do?

Your answer will determine your sexual orientation.
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>>8669513
Honestly, if she passes very well and is cute, I wouldn't mind having sex with them. I'd also totally have sex with FTMS in all of their forms, my only exception is MTFS that don't pass well. They're not very attractive...
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I think you're gay, I was in the exact same situation until I slept with another girl and now I know I prefer women
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>>8669558
>prefer women
>exclusively into women
They're different things. If you "prefer women" you're bi, if you're lesbian, you're "exclusively into women." OP is clearly bi.
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>>8669524
If you have sex with her like any other man then you're not lesbian.
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>>8669601
Now even our partners are getting persecuted.
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Why do you feel like you have to be any kind of label? Why put yourself in a box like that? Kind of silly really. If someone comes along and pushes all the right buttons with you and makes you happy, then just be with them. Simple. Labels are BS. lol don't make it so complicated
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