them str8 boys/trans? Help

>>8656506

If you are thinking about transitioning to be with straight guys, bad idea.

>>8656539
nah, i know, but I'm just trying to
sort out this thought process. at times it does seem like it wants to go there, but I wouldn't do that. thank you for that.

>>8656539
friendo that's literally what hsts is supposed to be about

>anon is agp
>"don't transition, it's only a fetish"
>anon is hsts
>"don't transition, you're just gay"
hmmm really blanchards my rays

Tbh I think you're only in it for the excitement, I'm kind of on the same boat, I'm straight but I like it when gays hit on me and chase me. Makes things more excited. Where are you from OP

>>8656582
I think it's more the fact that statistically, there are a lot of straight guys who want to fuck us, but not a lot who want to date us. So if OP is only transitioning because he thinks it will fulfill some kind of Disney Princess fantasy, he (or she?) is setting himself up for heartbreak.

>>8656506
> I'd be really happy if I was seen as a girl by a boy I loved.
See, here's the thing. If you are genuinely, legitimately trans, then you wouldn't think about transitioning for someone else. You'd be doing it for you. If you're unable to contextualize your femininity outside of a relationship with a boy, then you aren't female, you're just really, really, gay.

>>8656997
"genuinely, legitimately trans" is a meme.

>>8657014
No it isn't you fucking moron, stop spreading dangerous misinformation. OP is getting ready to make a serious, potentially life-ruining mistake, and you're gonna give him the green flag?

>>8657064
We can all give her advice but trying to gatekeep her isn't that.

>>8657014
>>8657064

But trutrans is a meme. OP just wants straight cock and is playing with the idea of going trans.
I don't think OP is seriously considering it, first at 27 there is no way he is going to pass and just by browsing this board, you realize that the only "straight" cock trans get are chasers.

>>8656582
Except Blanchard approved transition for both types and never said not to for either of your fake reasons.

Whoever says them is someone who doesn't know Blanchard and lies about the types... like you!

>>8656506
Maybe you're asexual.
Or just afraid of intimacy.
Do you ever have sex with anyone?
If so, are they straight or gay?

>>8657235
>at 27 there is no way he is going to pass
"Passing" is a meme. HSTS's don't worry about whether or not they're going to pass, because A) transitioning is a necessity, not a choice, and B) HSTS's don't usually have to put a whole lot of effort into passing anyway. It comes naturally to us; electrolysis + voice practice = never getting sir'd again.

>>8657503
>HSTS's don't worry about whether or not they're going to pass, because A) transitioning is a necessity, not a choice
Lolno, HSTS transition if they think they can pass and get over it and live as guys if they don't think so.

That's rough. And weird. It's both of those. And yet, as a straight/pan blend kind of guy, it seems sweet. Although I might just be sympathetic because of how you're almost screwed and it makes me want to hold your hand. Could be that.

>>8656958
i'm from new york, but I live outside the country now

>>8656997
I understand that, but to be fair I'm happy if anyone sees me in a more female light -- even coworkers.

>>8657359
it could be one of those.
I do have sex with strangers/hook ups from time to time but I have to say I never truly enjoy it. I do watch gay porn, and they are usually gay men but back in NYC I would find straight men too. but, i'm not a big fan of anal (especially being a top, not a fan) and i'm mostly into pleasing the other person. so i probably do need to look deeper and figure out how much pleasure I actually derive from these hook ups.

>>8657784
aw :)

thanks so much for the responses, guys

>>8658219
Sounds like you're a typical gay guy who worships straight cock because isn't gay.
Get therapy for your internalized homophobia.

>>8658279
was already prepared for comments like this, thanks for the feedback but not very helpful