How can I met someone organically?
It feels like everyone on the different apps only want to hookup and I don't want any kind of sexual experience I want romance I want cuddles I want a partner someone for life but I don't know how to do that
>>8654797
Sry op if I'm derailing slightly but:
What is 'organic' in this case? Is there anyway you can maybe turn online dating into an organic form (like as a change in perspective)?
For example, do you think the occasional chats which to lead to anons chatting elsewhere (I assume it never leads to anything)? It's online but still seems organic.
I'd say you just have to stick it out, dating online can work, you can find people who don't want to just bang but if you're using something like say grindr you have to be infinitely patient.
>>8654797
you meet people irl
or hang out in discord servers
>>8655065
Dunno meeting someone offline or if it's online, just not expecting someone that will ask for a fuck in the first five minutes, dunno a coffee or a movie, something that if it works dunno could become a relationship
>>8655104
I still always think it's down to luck. Which is only enabled by patience. I could try specifically saying try x app and say y thing but it wouldn't be much help, you'll be different and have different needs. All I know is all of my friends are slowly getting SOs with varying levels of trying and most of them are from tinder, and most of those seem fine.
It's a bit of a cop-out answer I know, but try and shift your mentality a bit, you'll gain motivation maybe and see more easy going. And, just be patient and avoid sounding sleazy and maybe leave on your bios not down for just fun etc.
That's the only shitty advice I can offer, else do you live in britbong by any chance?
>>8655147
No britbong, I live on the country that britbongs want to steal the Falklands from
>>8655174
>Pretending the Falklands belong to Argentina