Why is sexuality the only thing people love to hang over your head just because you have an inclination towards something? Someone can choose to be vegan, but this doesn't mean meat stops tasting good to them, they just make an active decision to alter their lifestyle choices for personal reasons, but their not expected to identify as an omnivore just because meat still taste good to their tongue, but if someone wants to make sex choices contrary to their orientation its seen as a bad thing.
Because stigma obviously you mong