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Helo Wise Gays of interwebs
No idea why I'm writing this. Possibly just want to know your opinion on this matter and soz if I'm in a wrong section or something
I'm a straight dude and I was always indifferent about gay people. I just thought just let them do their thing. Even had a few gay friends.
And well one of my lesbian friends set me up with this bi girl and me being shy and awkward I took quite a while to ask her out. While my friend really started to push me to ask her out and made me feel relay uncomfortable. I kind of started becoming relay stressed and paranoid all the time that my friend wanted to be with her. We were all in the same class and when we were all there I would start shaking get cold sweats and stuff. Then on her birthday I was like fuck it and asked her out she agreed. It was good I loved her but she relay avoided contact and that just kept continuing to fuck with me and about a month later she broke up with me possibly from my insecurities I thought but then I realised that shes a lesbian.
After I got over her I tried finding other girls and I just started realising that only ones who interest me are all ether bi or lesbian. Then I realised that I would not want to be with a bi just in case something like that happens again, Lesbians will never have any interest in me and most straight girls just seem either really bitchy or really boring.
So after accepting my loneliness I just gave up on everything didn't even watch porn for like a month and then I think I went back to normal but now I think I'm starting to develop hatred for gay people. I just really don't want that to happen but every time i see something LGBT related somewhere it just makes me a bit mad, kind of sad and lonely too...
So anyway good job to you if you read all of it and thanks, as I said no idea what I'm looking for advice, supportive words, your opinion or being shouted at? But the way my life is going I might not be able to care about anything at all soon enough.
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youre projecting your experience with one person onto every person in a group that they happen to belong to.
Im not saying dont do it, but youre definitely limiting yourself
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As a lesbian, I can assure you that incidences of bi women leaving women for men are far, far, FAR more common than the other way around. The odds are overwhelmingly in your favor even if you suddenly become exclusively attracted to bi girls.
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>>8631571
thats odd, I wouldve thought a lot of women who'd call them selves bi were more likely to be lesbians who are afraid to fully leave the closet.
thats got to be annoying for lesbians though
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>>8631571
These stats are totally fine though. Gays are hardly 3% of the population, and 9% of bis are dating the same sex. So the odds are actually pretty good.
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>>8631397
Well if you don't like straight women and you don't like lesbians or bi girls, then maybe you should try dating trans girls. You obviously seem to like the female form so this shouldn't be too big of a leap for you.
Alternatively, you sound pretty beta so if you're at least a little bit cute then maybe you'd feel more secure in with a guy. As I said, you sound beta so you'll probably have to be the bottom and compete with all the other bottoms out there.
Lets face it though, you haven't got many options and you have nothing to lose. So just give in to the dick already.
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>>8631491
Damn! reading this post made me realise I'm turning into Hitler xD
>>8631571
never seen the statistics before thanks! This gives me a tiny bit of hope.
>>8631617
Yeah I think that's what happened in my relationship. If i can call it that...
>>8631887
Being in art college it seems more like 80% of people are Gay or bi.
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>>8634019
Trans girls yeah sure if they look like women well... they are women.
And yeah I'm pretty beta for the most part but I have balls when I need them. But I don't find anything attractive about guys me and my friend were talking a while ago. Why do women even like guys, we look discussing and gross.
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