Hi /lgbt/. I come to you because I hope you're a little more rational about this shit than other places online.
My sister, 16, has declared that she is a boy and will now go by Oliver/Oli and use male pronouns. If she were actually trans it would be one thing, but she very clearly isn't. She is a normal teenage girl, slightly scene/emo, but not too bad. I asked her if she plans to go on hrt or dress like a guy and she said no because she's metrosexual (couldn't be that she's actually just a girl...).
Now I know she's just doing this for attention and will likely grow out of it, but how do I make her stop faster? No good can come of this.
>>8628302
>Getting my sister back from the tumblr menace
Didn't even read the rest. Give up your sister is dead.
Also have you considered transitioning since you're on this board? Maybe you could be a pretty right wing girl like blaire white.
>>8628302
You should transition, that will show her what a trender she is.
>>8628302
>If she were actually trans it would be one thing, but she very clearly isn't.
Who died and made you gatekeeper-in-chief?
>>8628302
You need to tell your sister to become a new fangled heterosexual. Heterosexuals are a much rarer New fangled sexuality that the liberals created.
>>8628323
op has obviously done research on it, his sister is a transtrender/tumblr
piss off back to tumblr or reddit
>Comes out as a FtM
>Doesn't want to be masculine/act or dress like a dude
lmao what a fucking idiot
be nice to ur transtwink lil brother wtf ur a shitty sibling
If she's not planning to medically transition, she's not gonna do herself any permanent harm. But if you try to make her stop, she'll just cling to it out of spite and might do something she regrets later. So just let her be a dumb teenager.
>>8628635
This. I'm gonna be straight with you senpai, the best thing you can do is completely go along with her dumb shit and not make a big deal out of it at all. Tumblr types feed on feeling victimized; refusing her name/pronouns/whatever will just pump gas on the fire. Give her zero additional attention and treat it like it means absolutely nothing to you. Advise your parents to do the same.
>>8628302
Kids need the freedom to act like retards
As long as she isn't doing long term harm (ie hrt) let her be her own dumbass
>>8628828
>telling him to gatekeep his brother
>>8628302
Maybe she doesn't want to "transition" because of how people will react afterwards? It's a lot different being a manlet with a vagina than a tomboy. There's people who think it's cute for a girl to want to be a boy so it's not taken seriously and the disgust doesn't set in until after hrt has made dramatic changes. I know when I was a kid I didn't want to transition because I was insecure and cared about what people thought about me. Now I realize I was stupid and will forever regret that choice I made.
>>8628302
>>8628635
>she'll just cling to it out of spite and might do something she regrets later
OP should totally force her sister to stop.
>>8628840
>I know when I was a kid I didn't want to transition because I was insecure and cared about what people thought about me. Now I realize I was stupid and will forever regret that choice I made.
I'm sorry. When did you make that choice? What age did you transition, if you have?
>>8628835
she is a trender who presents female, has no interest in hrt and just wants to be a snowflake
not a real tranny
Your sister is in her "dumb teenager" phase, let her do her thing. Could be worse.
A lot of 16 year old girls end up pregnant, at least if she says she's a dude then real dudes probably won't touch her.
Treat her like a boy.
As in telling her to man the fuck up whenever she lets her bitch tears flow.
>>8628302
OP, I need to break the news for you: transsexuality is genetic disease hence you're already trans but you don't know it already!
Embrace your condition sweetie: wear rainbow socks, play Overwatch, hide your sissyclit in a cage, etc. And let your new brother Olive pound your boipucci with his dildoes.
>>8628835
>brother
>>8629117
Not an excuse. Terence Tao was working at nasa at 14.
Only morons do moronic things such as getting pregnant as a teenager.
Such people should be sterilized.
>>8629885
This is unironically the right answer.
I have seen transtrenders give up with my own eyes after something like that happened to them.
They won't last a week, they won't be able to endure what FtM do because they have zero dysphoria or a male brain.
>>8629916
>play Overwatch
wat
>>8628635
This. She's being dumb, but just let it go and be at neutral about it so you don't encourage her. The phase will end soon enough.
what a trender. im frm, starting hrt in November.
do everything in your will to comply like anon >8628782 said if you dont ill fred the fire. after a few months of it "being normal" she'll probably say oh nvm I'll be a girl again. I know a few people like that.
Most aren't transtrenders but are actually aap in which case there's nothing you can do it may or may not escalate further as they age. Figure out if she reads/consumes homoerotic material like gay porn/fanfiction etc and if they want a penis for sex - stuff like that.
If it's a trend thing then they'll stop and move onto something else eventually so it doesn't matter. Biggest mistake a lot of people make is that all these people are doing it for attention.
If you're here because your transfeminine you're probably AGP yourself, the trait (A*P) is known to run in families.
>>8631387
>Most aren't transtrenders but are actually aap
A cia AAP can be a trender.
>the trait (A*P) is known to run in families.
Don't AAP and AGP run separately?
>>8631559
>cia AAP
>>8631561
>A cia AAP can be a trender.
not sure what cia means but most aap who transition do it for the aap/dysphoria, that comes with aap. Usually with both A*P the dysphoria gets worse with age, but it varies on an individual level too and the subtype, so not everyone transitions physically. 16 is early to come out for aap but I guess it's possible these days, I've seen some really young transistioners that fit AGP type description recently.
Anyway the complete lack of gender nonconformity is typical in A*P trans, some are mildly nonconforming as well, but some don't even meet that level.
I think you might have a different knowledge of A*P. All these people are just on the same spectrum really with different severity levels. (just realised you meant cis instead of cia lol,) there is no such thing as a 'cis aap' they're just lucky in having a mild form that doesn't require hormonal/surgical transition like the others but otherwise it's the same thing and one can move throughout life from non-physical dysphoric to physical dysphoric.
>Don't AAP and AGP run separately?
I think HSTS runs separately from A*P but recently I saw a family in the news with a child that transitioned mtf and then their mum did ftm not long after, and I saw before photos/video and he was really feminine... Seemed aap to me. So now I think maybe the trait runs in families regardless of sex, and it's just not noticed as often because aap is less common than agp, but I could be wrong.