What's the appeal of butt-stuff?

>>8620302
bi MtF for reference
>what's the appeal for the bottom?
I really enjoy taking it because it feels like really good, especially the feeling of getting "filled to the brim". Also it's very nice to know my partner recieves pleasure by using me that way like it becomes a mutual thing. Like I started doing butt stuff before I ever started touching my penis, it just came naturally to me and gave me more pleasure than masturbation ever did but I can't speak for other bottoms how that went. I just really like it.

>Does it actually feel good to some people?
Yep very much so :)


>Do you just enjoy making your partner feel good by letting him fuck you?
Yes that too ;)

>>8620302
If your attempts at trying hurt, then you did it incorrect. Pain is not a necessary part of anal sex.

But to answer your question, yes. It feels good. The anus has pleasure receptors. Do you find that passing a large bowl movement can be just a little bit pleasurable? If so, take that and remove the nastiness of shit, have that process repeated with every thrust, and combine that with actually being with a sexual partner, and it's not hard to see why it can be great.

And for cis men, it can be even greater since the prostate can be reached from behind.

>>8620302
>Does it actually feel good to some people?
God yes, cumming from my ass feels way better then using my penis, to the point that I don't even like to cum without something inside me anymore, it would feel wasted, the pleasure is just so much less....

>Do you just enjoy making your partner feel good by letting him fuck you?
That feels great too. Knowing that my partner is getting off from fucking me makes me feel super submissive and that makes anal even better :)

I've always been really subby, and likes to play with my ass before I really started masturbating so I think my body is kinda programmed to feel good that way. It's probably not so good for everyone.

>>8620302
A question OP. partly to get more info, partly because I'm too invested in vidya atm to write a full answer immediately (which could be very long.)

When you tried it, what did you do? (ie, toys, techniques, any details etc.)

Also do you want to like it, to be better at fucking your partner or just an intellectual curiosity

>say you're not into butt stuff
>allocate the label of a top to yourself

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one of several things op

-The object you're using is too large to start with.

-You're forcing said object to fast (not enough foreplay)

-You're not using enough lubricant

-You don't know what spot you're trying to hit once the object is in your rectum

The next time you get into the shower use some shampoo or lubricant, lather an index or your middle finger and stick that finger into your bum while making the "come here" motion with the finger so that your pressing against the back of your penis (from the inside) You should feel a firm bulbous ball shape in the anus. When you find it, massage it with that finger or firmly press it with each exhale of breath. That is your prostate or the equivalent of the male G-Spot (aptly called the P-Spot) if you keep massaging and or pressing it you'll achieve a very nice orgasm that is usually a few orders of magnitude more intense than what you can experience from regular penile stimulation.

pic related.
Oh, and on top of giving a more intense orgasm, it also makes you ejaculate a much larger volume than normal.

>>8620302
>exclusive top
>tried butt stuff

Girl bye

>>8620589
Used my fingers when i was like 15-16 since I've heard that people are into buttstuff and tried to find out why (spoiler alert; I have never found out)
It's most def an intelectual curiousity
>>8620678
>be tall
>have a dom personality
>imagine yourself destroying the bp of a cute twink every night
Think I'm a top, Anon.
>>8622479
I was like 15 or 16 and couldnt imagine how someone could feel pleasure outta there so I experimented. Spoiler alert, i'm 20 and still don't know why.
>>8622472
Those are some really good tips, thanks for that OP, but I don't think I'll ever go there. I'm happy being a top. Was just really curious about what bottoms find so appealing.
Quality post regardless

Cos i like being held down and pounded