How do you know if you're actually in love with a man or

You stop pretending like meta attraction exists and the problem goes away.

Can someone explain what "meta-attraction" even is? I googled it, and half the results just point me back to /lgbt/.

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>>8618846
Do you feel like you're socially "supposed" to be with a man?

>>8619098
AGP trannies who are not into MEN but into men validating them and making them feel like women

>>8619125
Like this isn't a common motivator for cis women? Aretha Franklin even wrote a song about it. Apparently every straight woman in the world is AGP now.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dEWuAcMWDLY

>>8619162
>Isn't this a common motivator for cis women?
It totally is. Blarchardians are a bunch of literal autistic wannabe cultists.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z20_RW4I0F0

>>8618846
I was in a kind of weird reverse meta-attraction thing at the start of my relationship. I'm MtF, p much only into dudes, but I'm currently dating a girl(and honestly I hope she'll want to be with me forever). At first I felt really validated having a cis les be into me, and she also made me feel validated by being a cis girl whos more masc than I am. For the first good few months I was happier than I'd ever been, I was an awkward boy-mode tranny with no self-confidence and here there was a tough butch les girl who genuinely saw me as a woman, was into treating me like a girl and doing all the 'man stuff' in the relationship, was attracted to me as a woman, idk, just made me feel like a woman. It was great, I was practically obsessed with her, I was clingy and needy, a helpless fool in love. Then a few more months passed and the initial relationship honeymoon phase thing passed and my outlook on my relationship began to dim. I wasn't sure if I could be in a relationship with a woman, I'm not sexually attracted to the aspects of a woman's body that make her a woman really. But then eventually I got over feeling like that too. I realized that even if she wasn't entirely sexually appealing to me or if my initial reason for being attracted to her wasn't because of how she is physically, she's still the person I'm in love with, I enjoy being intimate with her because I love her, being in love with her makes me attracted to her even if her sex isn't really my taste. Now the meta-attraction thing has kinda went away now that I'm more used to feeling pretty and feminine, and I don't think I'll ever be quite as enthusiastic about sex with her as I would be with a guy, but eh, I'm happy as could be. I love her.

>>8619162
no

>>8619230
you sound like my gf, in fact I'm not fully convinced this ISN'T my gf.

>>8619162
Cissies need no validation of being women, what you thinking are other ways men make them feel good and bring out the best in them.
The key difference is that straight cissies are fundamentally generally attracted to men while AGPs are more attracted to women. But most women are incapable of making you feel like a woman.

>>8619305
Does your name start with an A?

>>8619372
Nope, an R. Guess you're not my gf, but she is the reason I started going on this board.