gay male sexual anxieties, volume II

>>8609616
if you don't actually want to have sex with a woman and it isn't due to low self esteem or something like that, it isn't true bisexuality. you could just find women aesthetically attractive. makes sense if you're looking at pics where they're dressed and photographed beautifully. it's more artistic than sexual.

>>8609633
Male bisexuals don't exist. all bisexuals are either gays with low self esteem who don't have the courage to come out to themselves or straight guys who claim bisexuality because its trendy.

>>8609655

hmmm what you say may well be true. Sometimes though I will put on a rihanna music video (or some kpop) and fuck myself with a dildo. I watch the dancing and exult in the ideal feminine beauty while also imagining a big man giving it to me. I guess this is a gay fantasy?

Other times I will see a sexy girl and my thoughts will be irresistibly drawn towards sex with men. Almost like the hot girls cause the gay urges... which of course the rational side of me knows is absurd.

So is this kind of confusion still sounding normal for a gay male?

>>8609655
I don't really know what to say except that you're wrong

>>8609655
>Male homosexuals don't exist. all homosexuals are either bisexuals with low self esteem who don't have the courage to come out to themselves or straight guys who claim homosexuality because its trendy.

You have no idea what you are talking about.

>>8609616
Is this a weird new form of AGP or just HSTS egg?

>>8609616
It means you still consider a woman's validation something meaningful, that's something you learned from heterosexual culture. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Essentially one of the roles we have designated to women is a type of 'judge' they help seperate the great men from the weak ones.

So the fantasy of a woman validating your homosexuality is fine. I'm going to take a guess that in your fantasies you are ontop of the man and the woman finds that "strong".

As for women in fiction and fantasy, there's nothing with that either. Another thing hetrosexual culture taught you is to appreciate the female form and certain feminine roles. Again there is nothing wrong with that either. Consider the opposite, would you rather be unable to enjoy all these video games and movies with women in them?

>>8609882

Curious about these acronyms. What is HSTS? AGP is auto gyno philia?.. or something? I've heard that some of this stuff is like neurotic transphobic mens rights guys saying that they have these "fetishes" and are not actually gay/trans

>>8609902

Thanks for your post.... such a relief that someone understands whats up. That all makes a lot of sense.

>>8610154
Meaningless drivel from the acronym generation

bumping because have similar feelings

>>8609616
I'm going through the exact same thing..

I don't think about fucking girls ever but thinking about fucking guys get's me really horny. I have always had problems getting hard with girls, but I haven't had an actual sexual experience with a man except two horrible ones (both guys I found unattractive and I didn't fuck either of them which is what I would prefer).

I'm hesitant about going with the gay label because I haven't had an actual experience with a guy to see if that's what I'm actually after.

I still find girls aesthetically pleasing but no part of me actually wants to fuck them.

>>8614175

yeah well... I've tried over and over again to find the perfect girl and be the perfect boyfriend. I've had all kinds of sex that a man and woman can possibly have, and I eventually realized with 100% certainty that I don't want to be with a girl that way.

If you have a strong preference for guys I would advise you just admit you're gay (or "queer"). As you get older it will increasingly become clear that it's the only way to be happy.

You can still have wonderful fun with your girlfriends. And if you really end up not liking men you can always go back to being straight whenever you want. No one's keeping track of everyone's stated orientation.

>>8609655
I'm 25 and I've openly sucked and taken dicks since I'm 15 to the point where everyone was shocked when I made a reverse coming-out by falling in love with a girl who is now my girlfriend

>>8609655
As someone who's had a cock up his ass while eating pussy and loved both, I say you're wrong.

>>8616322

How many years have you two been together?