Transbian General

my gf is studying abroad this summer and i miss her so much :'/
on the flip side i'm getting a cat this week so that's great

>>8601678

I have my first Dr appointment to see if I can start hrt this month.

>>8601716
>my gf is studying abroad this summer and i miss her so much :'/
>on the flip side i'm getting a cat this week so that's great

awwww its okay femanon. How old is your cat gonna be?

>>8601678

https://www.reddit.com/r/LesbianArtists/

anyone like art?

>>8601697
>this pedoshit

>>8601716
aww kitty
you'll have to post photos

>>8601788

agreed

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>>8601678

tfw

>>8601734
18 months!
>>8601811
i certainly will :)

>>8601678
>tfw will never be a girl and have the purest love

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I would like to kiss an attractive girl but only if I was an equally attractive girl too. I am doomed to be a lonely khv male because I don't want to be a fucking male in a relationship with a girl. Yes my penis is small but that's besides the point.

What are my options, I'm 30 so I doubt I could start hrt and have any effect. I mean if I went through it I'd be a 35+ year old barely passing if at all mtf transbian and nobody wants that shit, not even me.

>>8601912
yay

>>8601954

>>8601977

I have friends with FFS and they look fine after so much HRT I don't know? I'd date other transwoman and get srs togethers.

>>8602032
>FFS
Whats that?

>>8602057
facial feminization surgery

>>8601977
i'm three months into estrogen at age 32.

thanks for the kind words. glad to know you don't consider me worthy enough to date based on age alone.

>>8602085

your welcome :)

>>8602085

if you get on the discord we can talk more femanon!

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>>8601977
>>8602085
tfw terrified of telling my age cause its an insta turn off for anyone despite looking much younger

also holy shit starting at 30+ is scary as fuck, in my mind I've already killed myself and got over the fact of being forever alone

any advice?

>>8602139
I'm 30 too lol.

(started hrt at 25 or something though)

>>8602139

Youre fine femanon =) I think just some FFS and weight loss and muscle toning and date other transwomen =)

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>>8601678
bump

>>8602163
it's a total social suicide like restarting the life, I seriously consider moving to another country

>some FFS
if it was as simple as fixing a nose, all the money and risks
the only good thing is I never got fat or buff

I can't believe transbian general is back. Is this because lesgen doesn't have a thread or something?

>>8602340

yw

>>8602340
No its because mtfg has gone to serious shit. Even more so than usual.

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I hope my gf likes the gift I got her.

>>8602496
>I hope my gf likes the gift I got her.

2cute for me omg

this thread

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rV9YnT1MlsY

so cute

>>8602484
how is that possible, more diapiershitters?

>>8602492
new phone who dis?

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>>8602484

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>>8601678
>Post Hobbies, Pets, Stories, Feels
I play vidya and try to draw most of the time but I cant seem to keep myself on a schedual.
I have no pets and I kinda dont want any even though cats are cute.
I dont have a lot of stories and most of them are depressing.
My feels are all over the place because I seem to fuck up taking my hormones at the same time every day and that leads to bouts of crazy depression.
Also:
>TFW too ugly and old to even date other hons.
>Tfw forever alone.


>>8601977
Im 30 and I started about a little over a year and a half ago. The real question is will hrt help you emotionally, because it did with me. Im a hon though (I think. My view of myself is drastically skewed towards the negative).
One of the writers of Her Story started in her late thirties and is fucking gorgeous. You never no what will happen until you try it. You might genetically get lucky.

>>8602885
>tfw no qt3.14 trans girl gf to impregnate you and raise a big family with
two women and their biological children is the ideal family structure. too bad it doesn't really exist.

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>>8601678
I *literally* kissed a girl for the first time three weeks ago
As in like, the mouth-to-mouth, romantic kind of kiss.
I didn't think I liked mouth kissing before this. Turns out I was just kissing the wrong people for the wrong reasons.
Because when it was somebody I really cared about, as a gesture of love as much as lust, it was fantastic.
If not also the fact that it were a gurl

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>>8602993

>>8602885
this is the dream!

>>8602973
I know both of these people.

>>8603007
Yeah! We just made a date for this Saturday and it sounds like she is as pumped as I am.

>>8602993
This so hard

I never really cared about kissing till I kissed a girl I was super in love with.

Now I wanna kiss a lot and the lust hurts so much

where do i buy gf

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>>8603021
In the Picture?! Who are they?

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>>8602993
I hope to one day know that feel anon. Alas, it may be too late for me. Please, go forth and kiss qts so that I may live vicariously through you!

I'm curious, I've heard the term used both ways so I want to know what the consensus is.

Is a transbian a trans girl who likes/dates other girls, cis *or* trans? Or is it a trans girl who likes/dates other trans girls?

>>8603964
nozomi x eli

>>8605276
I think a transbian is just "trans lesbian" - so, like with regular lesbians, some date transwomen and some don't.
Although I think transbians are probably more open to dating other trans women.

>>8605276
I've heard it used both ways as well

>tfw crush rejects me
>starts a relationship with a pozzed transbian hon

Literally

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>>8605327
>Anonymous 07/19/17(Wed)20:11:31 No.8605327 ▶
>>tfw crush rejects me
>>starts a relationship with a pozzed transbian hon
>Literally

Reminds me of my girlfriend anon, I bet your her posting ;_; I bet this is you wah

>>8605471
this is off topic but that picture drives me nuts.
It promotes this idea that the picture poster is a special snowflake in a world of boring copies which is incredibly dumb. (Also books and make up can coexist).

>>8601725
When?
>>8602139
Dude I'd be down to fuck w a 30 yo transbian and I'm 18
>>8605471
Shit meme, please leave mtfg.

>>8605825

On the 27th I have an appointment with my Dr about getting hormones. My cat just died Im so sad I d k what to do guys. I would fuck a 30 year old transbian and I'm 25 =)

>>8601912
keep us posted

>>8602139

here anon I love you :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-gI06jI_cc&t=10s

Discord server is picking up! =D

How hard is it to get a dominant girlfriend, trans of cis? Are trans girls in high demand with the ladies? it's annoying because I am literally petite girl size. I just want a mommy type girlfriend.

>>8609448
A dominant cis girlfriend thats interested in transgirls might just be the most rare person you'll find in our dating pool. Like one in a billion. If you ever do find one you hold on tight.

>>8609455
There are seriously that few mommy types? What about for finding a normal girlfriend on here, it's easy to get guys talking to you on here, they're basically bursting at the dick. Im finding it harder to find a girlfriend though

>>8609448
>I just want a mommy type girlfriend.

>Tfw only get mommy dom feelings on the rare occasion that you find a guy you are attracted to.

Im a hon so all of this is moot but there was this one time my friend called me mommy and I melted/ had to resist pulling her face into my boobs and cooing. It sucks learning weird sexual things about yourself in public.

>>8609628
>Im finding it harder to find a girlfriend though
I always thought it was like that for anyone looking for a girlfriend. Cis or trans.
Also, Define Mommy type because I feel like we might be working off of two different definitions.

>>8609628

I'm a mommy type

>>8609628
>>8609455
>>8609668
(not cis) I have a relationship where I'm a momy and I have a crazy ass partner

>>8609666
this its always hard to find a girlfriend anon

>>8609666
You sound like the mummy type I mean, would teach me to do my makeup and stuff like that too.
>guy your attracted too, looks like we wouldn't be compatible.
>>8609668
Do you have a contact you could share with me? Maybe a throw away email we could share other contacts with, where I could share a little about myself to see if I'm worth your time?

>>8609681
Would be incompatible,
Sorry I'm tired and trans, which means that I'm at least a little autistic

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>>8609681
https://discord.gg/gKJDfsg
Im in the discord chat as Lauren

I Just want a girlfriend.
But I'm ugly af

>>8609700
Can we chat somewhere else? I'm not at home at the moment, and I don't have discord on mobile.

>>8609681
>>8609716
what's your email love

>>8609672
>I have a relationship where I'm a momy and I have a crazy ass partner
Are you the anon I talked to whose gf was autistic and BPD?

>>8609721
My girlfriend's not autistic or bpd she's just cute and I mess with her haha :)

>>8609720
I just made a quick burner you could contact me on it's [email protected]
Look forward to your message

>>8609705
I, too, am ugly. Per chance we can be uggo together?

>>8609681
>looks like we wouldn't be compatible.
Sorry.
To be fair, this has only kicked in when Ive seen femboys online. I dont think a guy in real life can trigger it.
I would like to see if it can happen with another girl. I basically have no experience with dating or being in a relationship so who knows.
I wish I could get past my predilection to automatically be submissive to a woman. Im thinking its chemical or some deep rooted psychological thing.
Amateur electroshock didnt make me straight but maybe it can fix this?

>explosion of discussion about mommy gfs
The girl I'm seeing does take care of me kinda like that. We've planned evenings where I watch cartoons and play with my action figures and she tucks me in at 9 o'clock.
We're both hype af for that

>>8609750
respondedd

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>>8609756
I dont want to be dismissive of you but this is where I was kind of afraid this behavior of mine would lead to. I feel uncomfortable going this far. Or maybe I just dont understand someone being a mommy type as much as I think I do.
This does sound nice though.
I hope it turns out great for you guys!

>>8609756
First girl that talked about mummy gfs here, I more meant a sor of guiding and dominant role in the relationship, teach me how to me a elegant woman go shopping and help pick clothes and those kind of things. Not an age play girlfriend.

>>8609776
If it's over the line for you that's fine. Do what feels right for you. That's what I'm doing.

>>8609778
Yeah, I remember you talking about that kind of thing, it's just hard for me not to think about the kind of things I've associated with "mommy gf" when I see it. Very strong associations, I can forget they aren't universal

>>8609727
I sent you a couple emails, did you get them?

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>>8609778
>teach me how to be an elegant woman
Thats kind of some thing i know how to do! I used to read books about finishing schools and how to be a good wife and all that stuff.

>go shopping and help pick clothes and those kind of things.
Clothes I cant do. My preferred style is weird goth witch meets whatever the fuck Kevin smith calls that outfit he wears all the time.
Id get weird stares more than I already do so I just stick to lazy college lesbian attire (pants and tshirts)

>>8609784
Good to hear. You guys enjoy yourselves. Im curious, do you guys do any other things besides cartoons and action figures? Like maybe board games or something?

>>8609818
Im not getting them now?! Are you mad anon? I wanted to talk I have broca's aphasia I'm very sick so I apologize I'm talking funny

>>8609827
We went to a retro arcade together at the beginning of this month. And she's going to take me to see Cars 3 this weekend.
Board games could be fun though, thanks for the suggestion!

>>8609830
Ok I'll join discord. I'm not mad at all, I see nothing to get mad about, and I generally try to be pleasant then be angry. I'm rarely angry. And it's fine I'm more then happy to listen to you. I'm not really happy with my girl voice though, so if it's fine with you I'd rather not talk, voice training seems to be slow work

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>>8609778
Thats my dream gf right there. I would be a mommy type myself if I knew how or had any confidence.

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>Tfw no qt mommy gf anymore
I miss being told to do things for my own good and being doted on for being a good girl. Nothing can rival the comfort and devotion of this type of relationship

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>>8610259
>I miss being told to do things for my own good and being doted on for being a good girl
Aw yisss
Is there anything more you'd like to share about your experiences?
Specific things your mommy encouraged you to do? Ways you were rewarded? Etc

>>8610263
She would make me go to bed early if she knew I had work the next day, scold me if I ate too much candy, and made me take my hrt at the same time as her so I never missed a dose just to name a few things.

She told me stories when I wanted, watched cartoons and stuff with me, had a ton of cute pet names for me, and always knew exactly what to say to get me through whatever struggle I had in life. She made me a stronger and more confident person in a way I couldn't achieve on my own before her, and most of that has stuck with me as much as I miss her.

It really made me feel in complete bliss. In exchange I was an unending ray of optimism, joy, and adorableness, while being a fully functioning adult outside of us being alone together. I could lift her out of seemingly any dark place her mind wandered to. Symbiotic relationships are OG

>>8610340
>I could lift her out of seemingly any dark place her mind wandered to.
How could you make her optimistic and joyful?

girls are cute and soft
i want a cute girl to hold me and play with my hair while I fall asleep
i want a cute girl to teach me how to make delicious homemade meals
i want a cute girl to go shopping with me and help me pick out cute clothes
i want to tell a cute girl "i love you"
i want a cute girl to tell me she loves me
i want to make a cute girl laugh and smile
i want to make a cute girl feel special
i want a cute girl to make me feel special
i want to make a cute girl feel like the cutest girl in the world
u r all cute and ily all
:3

>>8610371
adorable anon

>>8610536
<3
im just really really happy and i want to share it with people
ily anon

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>>8610575
*gives you estrogen*

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purest
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>>8610582
<3
are raccoons transbian approved because there were some outside my tent

>>8610348
She was always really hard on herself from lots of different sources, so I'd remind her of all the specific reasons she was special and amazing. Just as she'd comfort me, I'd make my presence like a happy little bubble where her other problems couldn't reach her. The only things that would really matter would be what about her makes her confident and fulfilled. I guess it wasn't enough or not really what she needed. I just hope I helped her as much as she helped me, and that she's happier and stronger now.

>>8610945
That sounds really beautiful anon. Sounds like a really sweet relationship.
How did you girls meet?

>>8610992
In some a loosely mtfg videochat room. I'm gonna have to stop talking about her though. The wound is kinda fresh in a way, and I feel myself falling back into sadness that I've worked hard to overcome... It was sorta nice to talk about it in this light tho, so thanks for listening

>>8611075
Thats fair enough anon. And it was easy to listen to, it's a really sweet story.

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Why would anyone change genders just to end dating members of said gender? Are they just obsessed with masculinity/ femininity or is it because they get off to lesbian porn and want to live out their fantasies? Im sorry if I offend anyone I'm just genuinely curious..

>>8611720
You may as well ask why anyone likes girls. Biology
>muh ur just a fetish
No

>>8611720
Your whole line of questioning is flawed. Nobody transitions based strictly on who they want to date or what kind of sexual fantasies they have.
That kind of choice is simply not made so lightly, and it usually factors in how a person sees themselves and wants to be treated in lots of non-sexual contexts like around their family or at work.
And the worst part is that no matter how much thought we put into this, no matter how much vetting by doctors we might have to go through, we'll still have to deal with strangers who think they know who we really are better than ourselves.

are cis lesbians allowed in?

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>>8602139
You can do it, just don't ever give up!

>>8611975
Why would you want to be?

>>8611990
Maybe she's got a thirst for chiccs with diccs

>>8611975
Sure, why not. I like friends.

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Lonely mtf looking for a gf or a "good friend"
Preferably asian or white, I'm asian myself.
SoCal, LA/OC

any transbians from slav europe?

>>8611720
for the exact same reason cis women don't take T and transition when they find out they like women.

I'm sorry guys I was sleeping and not adding members and the mods didn't know how to add anyone on the discord! The servers picking up a lot.

>>8611720

Because I just love being a female. I have always had the feeling of being in the wrong body my whole life and it gets worse as I get older.

im a dumb transbian and im travelling to some stupid weed swamp in europe to see my gf

its gonna be fun

gf (trans) has been talking to me a lot about suicide bc of her dysphoria. apparently she plans to do it in a couple months. she seems serious and I can't stop crying. what do?

>>8613111
is she in therapy or on meds?
maybe try to get her on those or if worst comes to worst get her to the psych ER so she can get help.

>>8613135
She's not. She lost her insurance. Thus, deeply worried about her.

Tfw I want to try my ass off to get a new fancy job with medical benefits so I can ask her to marry me and she can get on my insurance. That's not crazy, right?

>>8613150
No anon, wanting to try your damned best to help someone you love who is currently hurting and in a very bad situation is not crazy. I don't know how feasible your plan is, but trying to make these kind of elaborate plans just because you want her to stop hurting is normal.

I wish the both of you the best.

>>8613170
thank you, that really means a lot. :)

>>8610340
I wish I could be like that, I never matured past being a teenage asshole and never learned to express my love and give and receive

>>8613150
Rekindle her hope for the better any way you can, I honestly wanted to off myself and gave up on life entirely, only a delusional hope of transition (and maybe not wanting to hurt my parents) keeps me alive.

>>8613135
>psych ER
not sure about that

>>8613623
>not sure about that
Why?

>>8613623
I understand that's hard to do, but sometimes, (not always) it can be the right thing.
That said I've had negative experiences with psych ERs myself

>>8613850
What were your negative experiences?

>>8613560
Don't worry, you have it inside you. It takes a special person to open up your vulnerabilities to. Not saying they have to be a gf, but someone who you feel so comfortable with that you can express and explore your emotions with. Just like riding a bike it requires a hefty amount of trust, and after you're done you'll always know how to ride it. I believe in you anon!

>am male
>Fine with being male, mostly
>Want to have lesbian relationship dynamic, but most cis straight girls don't
>Fug

>>8613877
involuntarily hospitalized twice. Where I live they just have to think you're a threat to yourself or others, or that you can't care for yourself in order to be hospitalized

>>8614264
How bad for you was being hospitalized?

>or that you can't care for yourself
What qualifies as that?

>>8614249
>mostly
???

>lesbian relationship dynamic
???

>>8614321
Yeah, that's how I feel about my feelings too. I probably am just trying to avoid thinking of myself as trans so I don't have to deal with any of the shit that goes along with that

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How do I shop for clothes without worrying about people's looks?

>tfw had a whole wardrobe but went into repression and threw it all away.

>>8614249
If I could I would totally turn you into my qt transbian gf
<333

>>8614399
I've done that

>>8614351
What do you mean a lesbian dynamic?

How are your relationships not like that?

>>8614589
Everyone wants me to be the manly man and be generally dominant in the relationship, at least so far

This thread is really cutesy so sorry to mess with the vibe but how do you deal with being the only male bodied person with partners? I recently had an experience of a threesome with my two dfab partners and the dysphoria was a big issue.

>>8615006
There are girls who like to be the more dominant side of a relationship and are into guys. They're hard to find, of course, but they do exist.

>>8614399
have a friend go with you or shop online and return things if they don't fit

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tfw unpassing and asocial

>>8615756
>Me
>friend
Kek

>>8615721
generally hormones and srs are what people do against dysphoria im p sure?

after some point i think the only thing you can really do is to realize that your body isn't male but female, just not the same as the one a cis woman might have. You're just as much a woman, just a bit different.

>>8614300
it was worse the second time, just because I had a bad psychiatrist, and there was virtually no counseling.
Can't care for yourself usually applies to elderly people who can't take care of themselves sucha s feeding cleaning up etc.

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>>8602885
>>8602979
>>8603019
That type of family structure would be damaging to any male child that you had, and you'd probably either rape him or forcibly feminize him to be like you.

>>8616973
I wouldn't push my mental disorders on him.

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/tlg/, what do you look for in a gf?

I want to know if I have a shot.

>>8618880
Kind, supportive, cute, early to mid 20's preferably, willing to go to concerts and watch shitty anime with me, loves to cuddle, and dom/top

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>>8618897
Damn, that sounds like me to a T. Got a discord?

>>8618986
sorry anon but there's like a bajillion different reasons why i wouldn't be a good gf
thx for asking tho <333

bampu

>>8614399
Think that you are buying them for your gf

>>8614136
Thank's. It's very true you need someone you can trust. But I feel awkward being nice to people. I guess mommy didnt love me enough and daddy was literally never home.

>>8618986
post your discord then

>>8618880
basically this >>8618897 but added with them able to support themselves financially. its not fair to either party to be so responsible for the other person

are you still a gold star lezbo even if you dated a girl pre-transition (no sex stuff, just feelings uwuwuwuwu)

how do I get a gf while also being scared of having a gf

>>8619286
Why are you scared?

>>8619300
I think I got it wrong, it's not that I'm afraid of having one, it's that I'm afraid of putting myself out there and actively trying to get one and plus I have a fear of rejection.
Also, I tend to do this thing where I lie about myself when talking to people online because I'm not very comfortable with my actual self and the lies can range from being dumb things that there's no logical reason to lie about to more important things that I should be honest about with people I'm trying to build a connection with, and I want to try and fix myself a bit before I start dating so I don't get dependent and clingy.
TL;DR I'm emotionally retarded also I'm a sperg so that might have something to do with it.

>>8619330
I get that too, fear of rejection and insecurity...
not lying but Im very secretive.
I'm trying to be more open to the people without seeking relationship or having any expectations really so I don't care about rejection.
And try to keep contact with good people and it's easier to open more to them. At least you could find some friends and become more secure about yourself, I feel.

>>8619424
I think I should get a therapist to help work me through my feelings because whenever I try to do it on my own I just get really confused and sad.
Also this is part of the reason I don't think I should have a gf because I'd probably try to rely on her to be my therapist and I wouldn't want to burden her with that.

>>8619511
>have a gf because I'd probably try to rely on her to be my therapist
That's not a bad thing at all, if you have an understanding close person it can be better than therapy (bad serious disorders that need qualified help). And it feels good when you can help your significant other and emotionally heal them, its not burden.

But if you have an option to get therapy then sure, try it.

>>8619538
>And it feels good when you can help your significant other and emotionally heal them, its not burden.
I've actually never thought about it like that before, I just assumed people would see me as disposable and drop me for someone more emotionally stable. What you said makes a lot of sense though, thanks.
Part of the problem is I'm averse to change/taking action and I probably wont do anything and I'll just keep going day to day as if I was happy, I just like to talk about it as a possibility that I could do someday but so far, someday hasn't turned into today.
>But if you have the option to get therapy then sure, try it
Thinking about it, I could always try my school's counselors but idk if they'd be able to help or relate to anything I'm saying

>>8619538
>>8619596
Therapy is waaaay better than just have close people. Close people are important, but therapists are specifically trained to help you manage thoughts and change the way you think.

>>8618880
smart, serious, tall grad student top

>>8619740
Why a grad student? Looking to share the stress?

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Im so fucking done w women.. every woman ive dated since coming out has been either obsessed with me or batshit drama.

I cant do cis girls anymore desu

>>8619833
>she didn't realize MtFxMtF is the purest form of love a billion years ago
:smug:

>>8619833
Were they normies, or queer/chasers?

bamp

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>>8619837
hello pls be my gf and gib me headpats

>>8619862
this one in particular is a normie and after i wouldnt sleep with her she started sobbing and saying things like its because shes fat....

no its because you were drunk and rubbing my friends dick and i saw you.

she obviously only wanted to hang out with me to get laid because apparently Im just easy. no.

>>8620362
will you rub my girl tinker?

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>>8620365
depends on whether or not youre going to lick my supple conetits

>>8620371
tbqh I am down.

Not sure if am welcome here, but not sure where else to post it. My cis wife considers herself mostly straight and said I need to keep my dick in working order or else. Been on HRT for three months and it's still fine for now. Is 'use it or lose it' for real?

>>8620509
dump cis wife whore and get a transbian gf

>>8620509
no.

but losing your ability to make genetic children is so I suggest sperm banking

Im a year in and the girl benis works just fine

>>8620528
Thanks, already took care of it before starting. I hated having to masturbate.

>>8620515
But I love her :(

>>8620536
she clearly doesn't love you and only wants you for sex desu senpai

dump her

>>8620536
>considers herself mostly straight
you know it's not going to last
you'd drop her too if she got on T and asked you to call he mr. Kyler

>>8618986
I want exactly what that other girl wants too, wanna chat, so we can maybe someday cuddle? Got an email we can organise where to chat on?

>>8618880
Confident, intelligent, a big dreamer, dom with some switch mixed in, geeky in some cliche aspect like anime or vidya or comics, mid-twenties, willing to cuddle forever, very kinky or at least not judgey about it, and doesn't have to be super cute just 6+/10 and pass

If I had to be picky, I also adore dark hair, toned bodies, and glasses.

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>Unpassing hon
>fat
>nigger

Im going to be forever alone but I experience relationships and intimacy vicariously through yuri comics.
Am I still a transbian if Ive only known the touch of another human once in my life, involuntarily?

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>>8623068
Take care of yourself, lose weight - you will get selfesteem and your dreams might come true.
And have some inspo.

>>8623068
Move somewhere with a bunch of progressive white as shit people like Vermont or Maine. I'm pretty dark and I seriously never get clocked by white people.

>>8623104
holy shit is being black easy mode in disguise

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>>8623104
Thanks for the kind words. Ive been trying to lose weight but there isnt a real grocery store here so I just rely on The Employee dinning room and garbage food I buy from the general store.

>you will get selfesteem
I havent had self esteem for my entire life. I dont think its going to happen. I appreciate you trying though.

>have some inspo.
....I cannot believe this woman exists......christ....

>>8623403
>holy shit is being black easy mode in disguise

I dont think so, Tim

Seriously, Im not sure. The only other black transwomen Ive seen are famous people that dont really offer any definitive proof because of course famous people are going to look amazing.
Granted, Ive also never seen another transwoman in real life either, so maybe my data is skewed. Im sure there are SOME black hons other than me.


>>8623333
>Move somewhere with a bunch of progressive white as shit people like Vermont or Maine. I'm pretty dark and I seriously never get clocked by white people.


Im currently doing seasonal work in Wyoming and trying to figure out where Im going to move. I never though about Vermont or maine. Is it expensive there? How liberal is it? Ive only ever lived in red states and a change would be nice.

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>>8622017
>>8622401

If either of you have Discord, hmu at KingoftheTigers#3999

>>8623946
>King
But I'm only interested in pure love fampai

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>>8623997
Don't let my love of masculine titles dissuade you from believing my love is nothing but pure~

what does it mean if i'm a lesbian who wants to suck a trans girl's dick
am i gonna lose my gold star?

>>8624622
>is having sex with a girl sex with a guy?
no sweetie. my gf and i are proud gold stars and we suck each other's gts all the time

>>8602705
???

>>8601678
Everyone here is most likely mentally ill. Romanticizing lesbian love with their infatuation with wanting to be a girl. What was it Anon? The anime, the stories, the pictures? Lesbians want to love real girls, not you. You'll never get to achieve your fantasy, seek help.

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>>8625811
It was the anime watashiwamoshimoshidesu

>>8625811
This isnt 2d transbian general.
We are real girls.
And sometimes real girls like other real girls.
And when a real girl and another real girl love each other very much they lay down on the couch together and watch reruns of house. And when they are nice and comfortable they both start to vibrate at inhuman speeds to the point where their molecules seperate and they pass through each other, depositing dna into each others bodies. They stop vibrating, buy a modestly sized apartment, and then have a baby.
And thats where gay babies come from....wait, what where we talking about?

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My gf liked the gift I got her!

the discord is gross

are cis lesbians welcome in the discord?

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>>8601678
Girls are fun to cuddle!

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>>8627628

>>8627598
Sure! It's not exclusive. There are bi trannies too.

Think of it as trans lesbians and people they might date.

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>>8627650
Maybe a little.

>>8627650
this reminds me so much of my ex.

So I ending up dating one of my dear friends who is a lesbian.

Now she is fully fine with my body and me being a man, I thought I was too but well.... we both enjoy me crossdressingand I am starting to think maybe.... I would be a lot more happy with being a woman full time. Would make things a lot more easy to explain how we are a gay relationship.

Only thing is while I am totally for HRT but a little worried it would effect my penis and balls. Would like that intact while yeah, everything else works with becomes a transwoman.

Any thoughts or advice? Would mean a lot.

I've never used discord for anything. What do people do in a discord for a general like this?

I'm an mtf who is only into other mtf, but like, as a gay thing rather than lesbians. I'd never tell anyone I've been with. But like for me its basically twinks with boobs, which is cool because genuine agp is gross and yaoi > yuri. I just needed to get that off my chest. Pls send hate and call me a chaser.

>>8628421
they chat like a old IRC chat room :)

>>8602885
No you aren't dipshits

The trannies balls dried up on E

>>8628569
>genuine agp is gross
fuck u

>>8627628
Ah, I see - too good for /mtfg/ now, are we?

>>8628417
wrong gen to ask that, but you sound very AGP, my dudette

>>8628569
HSTS GAMP

>>8629157
>fuck u
Don't be like that baby. Lets both dress up like Link and make sweet twink love to each others' boipussies. I'll think about how hot it is that our Y chromosomes are touching as I nut inside you.

>>8629180
>HSTS GAMP
Sounds spooky.

As a straight cis guy reading this general makes me want to kill myself.

>>8629161
i mean
it's trash
but this is looking pretty dead too

>>8630259
that thread over there?

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>>8630475
is it even a thread anymore

>>8630504
not really

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>>8630562
Yeahhhh... It's a shame this thread is dead, but I guess the discord I'm in will suffice.

>>8630259
Hmph. You'll come crawling back.

>>8630573
I wish I had the confidence for tranny discord, but I'm pretty everything with a deep voice

>>8631466
>I wish I had the confidence for tranny discord, but I'm pretty everything with a deep voice

no one uses voice in the server

>>8631512
I guess that wouldn't be so bad then

>>8602885
Mfw this is literally my gf and I. I'm the fat cis pan one and she's the slim taller trans one. Except she's bi

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>>8633583
tfw 'm a mommy to my girlfriend :)

>>8633635
I'm the mummy gf to my gf to!

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>>8633645

>>8633645
So do you mean mommy as in the context of your gf being Littles?

>>8631512
>no one uses voice in the server
So where is this tranny discord?

>>8633583
Where do you guys even find a gf? Especially a trans gf? Ive never seen another transwoman in real life (as far as I know)

>>8634351
>So do you mean mommy as in the context of your gf being Littles?
Oh God no not in my context at least. I'm strictly against age play, but I'm a mummy Dom. I always preferred the term over """mistress"""

I play the dominant role in our lives.

>>8634354
Literally 4chan. I didn't chase transwomen tho, that's probably a huge different. Made friends, meet her through friends, she happened to be trans

>>8634412
I think I am too but it comes out naturally when around guys I find attractive (which may as well be women, all things considered).
I haven't had a chance to actually see if it comes natural with another woman although I got called mommy once by a friend of mine whom I have a longstanding crush on and lets just say it great and terrible things to me.

>Literally 4chan. I didn't chase transwomen tho, that's probably a huge different. Made friends, meet her through friends, she happened to be trans

Maybe Im bad at this but how does one even makes friends on 4chan? Should I just hang out on /soc/ or something?

>>8634351
>So where is this tranny discord?
https://discordapp.com/
https://discord.gg/JffNrt

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Can you even become a transbian if you're really not into girls?

I'm asking because there's this girl who is my friend and she keeps talking about going out with me and so on but I'm not really into girls though I also am confused because I wouldn't mind getting hugs from her.

But I think of said contact more in a ""I'm lonely as fuck and hugs are nice"" instead of ""I think she's hot and I want her to be my gf kind of way.""

I also don't want to lead her on while she thinks I'm into girls which is probably the reason I'm feeling worse right now.

Also the reason I asked if I can force myself into becoming a transbian is because I feel like this is probably a golden chance to have a good relationship with someone, she really likes me and I feel bad about letting her down.

Also I need to go buy food for my dog so I will be back later sorry if I don't reply for a while.

>>8635791
*You* can, yes.

>>8635791
Give it a try.
You seem like you arent really sure about being straight (maybe you are bi?) . Just make sure she knows you arent sure about actually being into girls so she can be aware of whats going on and not get her hopes up too much.

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>second year of titty skittles
>finally passing consistently, but dressing kind of androgynous for the aesthetic
>still poor and depressed
>meet older girl on discord (like 5-10 yrs older)
>turns out she'll be in my area soon
>she is super qt femme in person and really lewd
>turns out to be really dominant during sex and i end up calling her mommy
>just gets her more into it
>few months later she pays for me to go visit her
>call her mommy whenever we're alone
>she calls me her kitty
>takes care of me the whole time that i'm with her
>feeling less depressed and being productive
>i have to leave but she makes plans to see me again soon
>confused when she starts sending me money
>says it's my allowance for being a good pet

tfw sugar baby to mommy gf

>>8635703
>Maybe Im bad at this but how does one even makes friends on 4chan? Should I just hang out on /soc/ or something?
It was a country general that had off site chats and meet ups. Soc would be a good place or any hobby you have that had a discord.

>>8636834
>TFW this is my relationship to but now she just gives me all her money to manage and I buy her gifts with it.

Its a weird mix of findom (which she asked for) and sugar baby

>>8636834
Good for you. I just got into a really nurturing relationship that I'm extremely grateful for, but I've never been in an allowance kind of arrangement and I hope I can enjoy that someday

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i don't get it is america that full of trannys that trannys siking other trannys is a common thing or somthing?
or is this just a 4chan thing?

Ps :im just asking out of curiosity

>>8636950
it's really nice. i didn't even intend for anything like this to happen, and it took me a while after getting an allowance for the first time to get used to accepting money without an expectation of it being paid back

she recently offered to pay for my electrolysis, but i'm still a little worried that i'm taking advantage of her or something ;;

>>8635842
OK I'm back.
So, even if I did give the try, like I said I feel zero sexual attraction to her, like the best I could do is maybe lay down there or help her with something but it wouldn't be real at all.

She's an awesome girl though which is why I feel bad about this stuff and like I said I'm totally fine with cuddling her and maybe even giving her a kiss in the cheeks.

Unless I found a way to get really into girls I don't think I would be a good girlfriend for her at all.

>>8637094
I definitely appreciated my partner explaining that she likes listening to me and letting me do what I want to do.
I believe now that it's what she really wants.
So I guess my advice to you is verify and trust. Give your partner a chance to reassure you that they really want to do this for you.

>>8637031
This

>>8637164
mhm, i talked to her about it and she said that she knows when she's being taken advantage of, and also that doing this stuff doesn't actually cost her very much given her income

>>8636834
wow this is hot
>she calls me her kitty
tfw this will never happen to you

>>8635791
if you are bi more into men but you like her yes it will work but if its just
>I'm lonely as fuck
then its not going to work as anything but friendship, Im afraid

>>8637031
>trannys siking other trannys is a common thing
it is actually, it's very natural

>>8637031
Wanting to be with someone you're attracted to/share something deeply in common with shouldnt be that hard to understand.

>>8637031
>is america that full of trannys

I would love to think that but I haven't seen another one yet.
I look like shit, though, so maybe they are all hiding to stave off the stormtrooper effect.

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>>8629155
not if she froze her sperm first!

I love girls so much!

>>8637031
I would personally never date a non-passing tranny. Even a passing tranny would turn me off, since I would no longer feel validated, and our relationship would make me feel more like a tranny.