When approaching and dating feminine gay men, is best to treat them like a masculine male would with a straight woman or approach them like you would with any male?
depends on what kind of homolust they have
>>8581737
I can't speak for everyone, but I would absolutely melt if someone were to treat me like a girl.
>>8581737
This shouldn't even be a question. They're feminine for a reason.
>>8582237
I'd love that as well.
>>8582248
I wasn't sure completely though since they technically are men.
>>8582237
>I would absolutely melt if someone were to treat me like a girl.
I'm sorry to here about your serious medical condition, maybe one day they'll find a cure and you'll finally be able to experience the feeling of being treated like a girl anon.
>>8583104
Generally speaking, people present in accordance with how they wish to be treated
That isn't to say that there aren't personality-manly femboys, but generally if they're presenting feminine it will make their day if you treat them as a girl
>>8583104
Depends on the approach. If the dude is trying dumb stuff like negging me, or trying to play some sort of mental game, that's extremely frustrating. If he offers to just buy a drink and be chivalrous, that'd do the trick really well. For me, the stereotypes apply. If he's funny, nice, smart, and treats me well, I'm into that. If he tries to get around normal social interaction with tricks, it's transparent and disappointing.
Basically, TALK to me like a guy, TREAT me like the feminine person I'm trying to be. IMO
>>8584754
This makes sense.
Plus, guys buying me things because I'm cute makes me go all fluttery inside.
I look the part but don't really act it. Other than unconscious body language stuff like posture perhaps.
I'd prefer to be approached in a friendly but laid back manner where you strike up a conversation so we can get to know each other, making sure to tell me you think I'm cute so I don't have to autistically guess if you're into me or just a very social person.
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