>tfw born in the 90s

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>tfw born in 1995 and get shit on by early transitioners born in 1999-2001
>Eli Erlick was an early transitioner born in 1995 but still looks like a hon

>Born in late 80s
>Still pass

You just have to be lucky no matter when trans acceptens was born.

tfw '98
tfw early transitioner <3

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>>8566107
>born 1991
>Hrt on my 22nd birthday
>5'10 turbo hun at 26

>born '99
>be pretty gnc
>they just assume it's me being autistic
>forced to wait until 18 to transition
haha i want to die

>>8566208
Gr8 b8 m8 i r8 8/8

Born '99
Wasn't allowed to be feminine growing up, everytime I did something girly (pretty much multiple times a day when I was younger) I was told what I was doing was wrong.
So repressed till I was suicidal at 17. Now transitioning at 18. I could've been an early transtioner if my parents did what was right for me, instead of forcing their norms onto me. Atleast I'm petite by girl standards I guess.

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>>8566335
Unless you're 19 and look like this then you'll be fine. Chillax.

>tfw born in 70s
>everyone thinks I look like i was born in the 90s
Feels good, man

>>8566107
>born in the 90
>in rural poland

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>>8566107
>tfw born

>>8566390
Are you me by any chance?

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>>8566208
>>8566335
not sure if first is bait, but I was born in '98, started transitioning at 18, now 19, been on hrt for about a year, going pretty well, although I'm not much happier, but I feel that's related to non trans issues, I'm say I'm fairly attractive, and I'm short (5'4)

Like you '99 anon I probably could have been an early transitioner if not for my parents being shit and never taking notice of how obviously feminine I was and generally being shit parents (they did at least let me play dress up in girl's clothes when I was little, and play with dolls and stuff, but once I was a bit older they kinda didn't, always made me cut my hair, ect) they accept me now (well for being trans, my mom still calls me weird and a freak, but that's mostly because of my autism and asocial tendencies, although she did cry when I came out) but I still hate living here and plan to leave soon.

>>8566215
Same tbqh my man.

>>8566344
White "peopl"e are repulsive tbqh.

>>8566521
I'm you but weaker

>>8566192
Yeah I was born 91 and I manage to pass. It's pretty much just luck.

>>8566807
>but once I was a bit older they kinda didn't, always made me cut my hair, ect
How did they repress you?

>>8566956
well as I said, making me wear my hair short, making me always dress very boyishly, telling me that it was "weird" or bad when I did girly things like put flowers in my hair, I dunno, lots of things, not as bad as some parents obviously, but they still did repress me

>born in 1991 to deep south christian family

I want to light myself on fire

>>8566991
Same. How did you turn out?

>>8566980
>not as bad as some parents obviously, but they still did repress me
It's all bad, however bad it is.

born in 1990 in a Jehovah's witnesses very conservative Hispanic family didn't come across HRT till i was 26

>>8566996
25 and still in guy mode. I can't act feminine at all without feeling nausea because of the way my family tortured me

>>8566107
>tfw born in 1993 and still haven't started HRT
Pretty sure it wont matter and I'll look like shit anyways.

>>8567012
How did your family torture you? I'm interested in how our stories ended up different.

>>8567010
How is life goes for you now friend?

>>8567039
well I'm happy for the most part, I'm glad i found the courage to transition and it's going well.
it's funny tho cuz sometimes i look in the mirror and think i wouldn't have looked better if was born cis but other times i wish i started in my teens

>>8567032
Physical abuse, psychological abuse, and forced conversion therapy

>>8567068
Oh jeez. You actually got conversion therapy. Fuck. I'm sorry. What exactly did they do? Or you know don't talk about didnyou don't want or whatever.

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>>8566107
>tfw '95
>grew up in rural area
>didn't learn about hormones until 18

>>8567207
That's not even that bad.

>>8567225
Didn't transition until the tail-end of 20 and I'm 6' tall.

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>tfw born in 93
>tfw try to come out at 4 years old and fail
>tfw try to come out again at 11 and get beaten by dad
>tfw become a repressed shut in
>tfw come out as a 21 year old hon
>tfw my parents tell me i never made myself clear

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>>8567326
mine said similar thing when I came out, that I was never feminine as a child showed no signs of being a girl, despite me having distinct memories of me wearing dresses around the house and it full view of my parents, liking a lot of my older sister's dolls and toys, putting rhinestone stickers on my gameboy, and a plethora of other things including always asking if I could have long hair and resisting getting haircuts

I'm
>>8566807
>>8566980
btw

>born in 1998
>allowed to keep my hair long thruout life despite family being abusive
>hate myself when puberty sets
>learn about hrt when ~16
>be a fucking pussy and not order until im 18
>19 now and 5 months on hrt idk

at least im 5'2

This thread needs more 90s music themes.

90s for what it's worth were a good decade for music.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OQhbt2c8JqU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ST3pYx0q_Ow

^^It's amazing how this holds up after all these years. If this beat came out today it would still be playing in clubs.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NIGMUAMevH0

^these guys really fell of the map after this one hit, but it's still kinda catchy

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>>8567010

>Hispanic
>Jehovah's Witness

LA IGLESIA ES UNA, SANTA, CATÓLICA Y APOSTÓLICA.

>>8566107

>born in 1995
>never allowed to grow hair, shave arms, or get rid of uni-brow (at least that was my understanding at the time)
>had no sisters and
>have two moments in particular that stick out to me as times I could have come out when I was young, but didn't; there are more, but those are the main ones that bother me
>learned about self-medding and FFS when I was about 16 through YouTube, didn't order any then because I figured they were counterfeits I had never bought anything online or had a debit card either
>math teacher called me, "a traditional male" as a compliment (she's 50 or 60 something from the USSR)
>did not like that comment at all and shook my head no
>still bothers me anyone had that impression of me just because I let my parents dictate my presentation
>I'm also regretful that caused some girls to try to date me, I feel bad for hurting their feelings by rejecting them
>took me until I was 20 to finally start HRT for various reasons, including deciding I was going to kill myself anyway so there was no point in getting HRT

>>8567326

>tfw try to come out at 4 years old and fail
>tfw try to come out again at 11 and get beaten by dad

What were the words you used?

>>8567326
>>8567469

It's kind of relieving that nothing probably would have been done by my parents to let me transition early if I had come out since it's less to beat myself up about, but it's still kind of not relieving.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aKp5v588-Vs

Formed in the wake of Nirvana's Kurt Cobain's suicide, Foo Fighters were a distinguished band to emerge from the wave of Seattle rock bands to emerge in the 90s.

What's notable about Foo Fighter's sound is that they are one of the few memorable bands from the period that wasn't derivative of Nirvana. Instead, the lyrical content tends towards a more aggressive tone and addresses issues of freedom and escaping abusive relationships.

I guess your chances are good to be a good band when you are headed up by Nirvana's drummer, Dave Grohl.

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>>8566107
>born in 95
>conservative Slav family
>didn't figure out hormones even existed until I was 17
>basically immediately started them
>got abused a ton by family, kicked out of home
>but now I'm pretty and passing and people comment on how pretty slav girls are and stuff to me

It worked out I guess.

>>8568319
Do you pass at least?

>>8566335
Same, omg are you me?...

Born '99, every time i did feminine things my mother would scream at me and tell me "Only girls do this" and sometimes beat me.
Pretty much had to "man up" but deep inside i never could bc i was TOO sensitive and cried at every occasion. Almost killed myself doing drugs when i was 16.

Now i just turned 18 the last month and starting transition. Not high standards but eh i just want to live.

>>8568319

>What were the words you used?

When I was 4 I asked my mom when I would get to be a mommy and got very upset when she told me I would be a daddy instead and insisted she was wrong

When I was 11 I showed them both a news article about some child transitioner I found (I thought while typing this that it was Kim Petras but apparently she wasn't out until a couple years after this, but I know it was someone similar) and told them I wanted to be like her and be a girl like her

>born in 97
>learned about nonbinary and genderqueer shit looooong before learning about people who actually transition between genders which really complicated my analysis of what I actually should be doing in response to my dysphoria

Being born in the 90s isn't all it's cracked up to be early-transition wise

>>8568319
I didn't like, directly ever try to come out to them, but them seemingly ignoring and denying my behavior as a kid pisses me off

>>8569640
I was the most gender defiant kid ever in my earlier years. But after a while I just stopped fighting. Why couldn't I have had those liberal parents who transition a kid the second he touches a barbie doll?

>>8569672
Iktf:*(

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>>8569672
>>8569674
Me too, I guess they just wanted to ignore it to see if it went away, fuck I hate them

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>tfw agp born in 1990
>tfw never stood a chance

>>8566107
>Born in early 90s
>Sent to cultist protestant private school
>Act feminine
>Sent to pastors to be "cured of the gay"
>Listen to them yelling and shouting and "casting the devil out of me"
>Asked why if I'm still attracted to boys
>Say I always preferred girls
>Asked why I act like I'm gay
>Say I don't act gay
>Tell me feminine is gay
>Tell them feminine is girly
>Tell me girly is gay
>Tell them girly is girly
>Tell me I can't be girly and like girls
>Tell them I am
>Everyone more confused than when it started

And so it wasn't until the transgender phenomenon 4 or so years ago now that anyone had the vocabulary to actualize what was "wrong" with me.

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>>8570247
>Christians can't understand something
Shocking, truly.

>>8566335
this is me 1:1

>>8566107
What does time have to do with being gay? Sorry heheh I'm a transgirl lesbian and I don't plan on transitioning so I don't know this stuff heheh

>>8570279
If you were born later you had a higher chance of learning about trans stuff earlier and transitioning earlier + more progressive environment
It's a trans thread, not a gay one

>1994
>1994-2015 too involved in school to seriously think about transitioning.
>FF to 2016 when i'm 21 to learn about hormones and my life explodes into this beautiful world of degeneracy.
Oh well, at least i'm smart with a degree and people say I almost pass/would date.

>>8572980
unless you're literally a Terrence-Tao-level genius, this isn't a great excuse

>>8566107
>born '96
>family is pretty conservative, specifically remember my mom talking about an FtM friend she had in college and wondering why anyone would change their gender
>once i hit 10 or so i start being as andro as I can in that environment, and they start changing when I come out as bi at 13
>by the time I'm 15 my dad realizes I'm at least super feminine for a guy and asks me after my mom and I have a fight on a family vacation because I'd been shaving my legs
>he asks if I want to be a girl
>say "probably"
>he does his little grin-sigh he's always done, and calls a therapist
>mom is awful and refuses to let me get hormones until 18
>don't come out to anybody except parents until 18
>dont start hormones until summer last year because drama
>could have started at 15 but didnt until 19
>puberty hit in full swing when i was 16
just fuck my shit up
i came this fucking close to dodging the bullet but my mother refused
at least I'm finally passing by a year in, haven't been misgendered in over a month and boymode fail 100% of the time if I try that still.

>>8566208
>>8566807
>>8567480
eyyyyyyy /1998/ pham

turnin 19 in 3 months
JUST got on Bica+Estrad last month
(rural burgerland, regrettably DIY)

I feel like if I'd waited even 6 more months it would have been exponentially worse

>>8566107
1994, started hrt 7 months ago, and I'm slowly turning into a bitterhon with how jealous I am of everybody I don't want to do that, i want to die instead

>>8568426

Heh... no.

>>8568617

That seems pretty direct to me. Your parents have either forgotten or are trying to absolve themselves of guilt by pretending it never happened.

>>8568969

Who ever said that being born in the 90s was good for early transition?

>>8569640

I think just ignoring what you did can kind of be understood though. It's not like there's a 100% proven manual for raising children out there, much less one for raising trans children back then. At most, your parents probably thought you were gay. It's the behavior modification that I think parents should know they shouldn't do. The denial that you ever did anything is problematic though.

>>8569672

>Why couldn't I have had those liberal parents who transition a kid the second he touches a barbie doll?

Seriously.

>>8570247

>actualize

Verbalize.

>>8570275

lol.

>>8573258
Blame auto correct, the fact that it is spelt ize not ise is proof of that alone. Screw US English, truely plebeian.

>>8573190
>I'm slowly turning into a bitterhon with how jealous I am of everybody
Why?

>>8573471
Because everyone else gets to be nice pretty girls, and are great at making effort towards it, it seems like, when I am a weakminded pathetic blob stuck in my bed that does nothing to help my own transtion ;_; and it makes me jealous and then I hate people and then I get bitter :(

>>8573533
I'm sorry anon, that sucks, but you can be one of those people! If they're putting in the effort and you aren't, then you can put in that effort and get there too.

>>8566107
>>tfw born in the 90s
Unless you were born in 1990 ...