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Dating Mid-Transition

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I'm at the beginning stages of hormones and electrolysis. Dating now would almost be false advertising, but at the same time waiting two years to fill that hole in my life is too much.

How do I find a balance?
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>>8562031
>mid-transition
If anyone were willing to date you, they should know what's on.
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I haven't had a gf or bf in 9 years. 2 years is nothing
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>>8562031
Date bisexuals.

>start dating girl
>tell her I'm into crossdressing before we start
>encourages me to transition
>helps me shave and do makeup
>calls me her little girl
>we go out together wearing each other's clothes
>in bed she wears PJ's and I wear a two-piece cami
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>>8562044
That's a seperate issue. Either way I'll tell them I'm trans, but I'd rather not have them see me when I'm in boymode, which is much of the time due to my electrolysis schedule.

>>8562046
I've been dateless since 2012 aside from a few failed ventures on OkCupid.

>>8562047
Hmmmm. That is an idea.
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>>8562031
BERNIE WOULDA WON, GODDAMN NEOLIBERAL SHITHEADS
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>>8562064
Honestly I'd have preferred Clinton to him.

t. voted Trump
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>>8562076
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>>8562114
Don't act like that, I didn't get it all my own way. I'd have rather had half the other GOP candidates to Trump.
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>>8562031
Why would it take 2 years? There doesn't seem to be a significant difference between 6 months and 2 years. Not like after 2 years you'll be completely done either.
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>>8562064
He can still win. Come match me.
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>>8562064
He can still win if you vote on my change.org petition fa m
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Bisexuals probably don't care, and if you actually date a nice person that cares about you as a person, looks come second then anyway.
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>>8562157
>Not like after 2 years you'll be completely done either.
Hormones take about two years for their full effect, a bit longer for breasts. Electrolysis requires I grow out my facial hair, so half the time we're together I'll be wearing a bandanna around my face or unable to wear make-up.

>>8562294
>looks come second then anyway.
In an ideal world, yes, but there's a big difference between beauty and perceived gender.
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>>8564831
More like 5 years, though the last 3 are more subtle, mostly fat/bodyhair changes.
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>>8564858
Source please?

Without seeing that, I'll stick with what my doc at Howard Brown had to say.
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>>8564871
I can't find the actual graphic on their website anymore but it's from Vancouver's trans health authority (their effects table has the same numbers, just not pretty)
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>>8562031
been with my bf that i met when i was 3 months in HRT. we're living together and super happy.

be sure to tell them super early on that you're a girl and mid transition.

just don't settle for less, be demanding, and have standards.
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>>8564943
>just don't settle for less, be demanding, and have standards.
If I looked like you, maybe I could.

>>8564914
Hmmm. Thanks. I'm already ahead of the game in terms of breast growth. Two months in and I'm a B cup with noticeably softer skin. One co-worker noted that my frame has gotten smaller recently. Some of that is due to exercise, but the hormones are definitely having an effect.
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>>8565037
how can you expect people to put you in high value and make you their priority if you don't value yourself enough and prioritize your needs?
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>>8562031
>posting a sanders pic on a lgbt board
You do realize he played in a big role in Putin's plan to put trump in power. He was paid to divide the Democratic party in order to take votes away from Hillary Clinton. Because of him Russia now controls our government and as we all know they hate us
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>>8565063
nice conspiracy theory nerd
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>>8565063
>implying Bernie wouldn't have won had killary not rigged the primaries
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>>8565063
things that never happened: the post
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>>8565044
I mean, I'm taking care of myself, but it's hard to imagine someone dating me while I'm in the process. Perhaps it's the history of abuse talking, but since I don't pass without a wig and am far from the best looking female when I put in some serious effort I don't know why someone would invest the effort to get to know me, in particular when I'm trans.
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>>8565082
>>8565088
>>8565089
>itt trumptards pretend to be democrats
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>>8562046
>9 years
Wow, how?
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>>8565105
>voted for Bernie sanders in the general election

Please, democrats and republicans are both stupid platforms that exist because of mutual shitiness
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>>8565063
>this is what Hillary_Dogs actually believe
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>>8565147
>le hur dur russian hacking is just a conspiracy
For years you right wing assholes have been making up conspiracies about Obama but now that there is solid proof that Trump works for the Russians you take cry and take your tinfoil hat off? I don't have an image of someone laughing hard enough to post in response
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>>8565177
>solid proof

Where????
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>>8565177
>solid proof
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>>8565186
>>8565192
You're one of those stormtards who think mainstream media is "fake news" aren't ya?
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>>8565063
I hope you got paid for this post
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>>8565201
we're not the ones throwing conspiracies out in the air
nice projection tho i r8 8/8 no h8
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I'm glad the thread gave me advice on tips on how to date while in transition. Off-topics comments were kept to a minimum and advice was constructive.

Thanks y'all!
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>>8565201
I wouldn't dare question the stellar reporters here at CNN.
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One last bump.
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>can't handle being single for two years
Normies are so weak, lmao
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>>8562076
>voted trump
>anyone surprised he has terrible taste
Kek
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>>8566908
True, two years is such a pathetically short amount of time.
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>>8562031
When I just started hrt I started with a fuckbuddy type deal with a guy a few months beforehand and then we started dating. I started growing tits and stuff and he doesn't even seem to notice. I've kind of hinted at it and I told him I might be trans and he just kind of ignored it. So I just keep doing my thing and he never mentions anything to me.

So maybe just try and find a guy that isn't like some stereotypical femfag that screeches at vaginas and you'll be okay. The guy I'm seeing says he's gay but he's been with a lot of girls before and he almost exclusively likes femboys and twinks. I made no mention of being trans when we initially me though.
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>>8567935
I'm into women for the most part. Although watching dicks explode is funny/entertaining, manly physiques turn me off.
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>>8569135
Halp, please.
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>>8562046
24 year old kissless virgin here.

Who bids more? Anyone?
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>>8562064
It might be a longshot but if you match my donation we can crowdfund a time machine
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>>8570476
Spicy.
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>>8562064
>BERNIE WOULDA WON
The fix was in.
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>>8571963
This desu, the 2016 Dem primary is going to be future politics textbooks' literal actual example of the fix going in and what a modern politcal machine looks like.
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>>8562031
Fuck Trump
Fuck Bernie
Mike Pence for president
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>>8565105
>this is what hill shills believe
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>>8574144
I've never seen someone with worse taste in politicians, drop off the face of the planet and fly into the fucking sun
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>>8574227
"No"
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>>8574227
Of course someone from /tttt/ wants Mike Pence.
He can give you the cure for AGP, r..right?
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>>8570468
Well I'm actually the same so at least you're not alone.
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>>8562031
>be 20y/o me
>make tinder acct cause lonely, find a bi person (I didn't actually know he was bi until later, but gave no fucks and wanted to see)
>meet up, tell him im trans within the first 5 mins. He's bi, and pretty excited about the whole thing
>we fuck, b/c 6 months of ronriness sucks
>end up dating
>3 years later we prolly getting married soon

It's not false advertising, I felt awks as fuck about dating as a guy, but he was super understanding of my hatred of certain organs, and called me by my name as well as referred to me as she from the start. No harm can come from looking, OP. Just be careful initially, make sure you have a few conversations before actually meeting up. I met him at his house, but that probably wasn't the safest decision had he been any different.
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>>8562031
There are people who would date a trans woman who is still early or mid in her transition. I'm one, but I'm a trans man and probably live across the country from you.
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>>8564831
>>8564858
>>8564871
>>8564914
>>8565037
The trouble with you guys is that you all try to predict life by looking at charts like looking at quasi cosmic horoscopes. It's bullshit and just create the opportunity to fail very badly for at least 2 years if not much longer. When people like this realize they're not going to be like their perfect shemale porn star fantasy in 2 years time that's when cognitive dissonance takes over.
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