I figured this would be the only online LGBT "community" where I could ask this question without being written off as a troll.
Gay males-how do I push myself up the ol' Kinsey scale and away from heterosexuality? I'm tired of women. I have a lot of emotional baggage around them and I'd really rather just start playing for the other team than spending years with a shrink trying to deprogram myself.
Problem: I'm a Kinsey 1. Attractive men are rare as blue roses to me. I've known some very attractive transgender women, but have no interest in being seen as a "chaser," and the only female-identifying people I've ever met who wanted to keep their dicks have had severe mental health problems unrelated to being trans.
So far I'm considering finding some gay porn that I can enjoy and then just forcing myself to masturbate to that exclusively for a few months until I start to notice my tastes broadening. I just wanted to see if anyone out there has done this before, has any tips, any warnings about side effects, etc.
>>8554639
Gay men can be just as bad as women, though. Especially the bottoms.
>>8554653
I'm absolutely sure that there's truth to this, but it's totally irrelevant to my purpose on this board.
>>8554639
Repressing tranny here, also interested in this.
>>8554639
As much as I want to help you with this, running away from your problems with women would be seriously unhealthy for you in the long run. Find someone close to talk about this before finding someone new, or else youre going to hurt them. No reason you cant decide to date men though.
>>8554712
>running away from your problems with women would be seriously unhealthy for you in the long run.
[citation needed]
>>8554712
>something something not loving pussy enough is unhealthy something something
Yeah, found the woman.
In case it wasn't clear, I want as little to do with people of your configuration as possible. Don't post in my thread again, thanks.
>>8554639
Firstly I think you're rude.
Secondly, a guide to being more gay bi a Kinsey 4-5 bi girl (these advices are gonna be the gender opposite of what I think makes me homo leaning):
Interact with more men than women
Interact with more queer men in queer spaces (LGBT advocacy groups, clubs)
Make eye contact with guys you're somewhat attracted to, purposely copy their body language (aka read a "signs someone is attracted to you" article and act that way around men more... stealthily so it's not like you're leading them on or creeping them out with false flirting)
Read every "how to suck dick" article
Read every "how to have anal sex / how to be a good top/bottom" article
Specifically fantasize about male crushes and pleasing them sexually
Naturally be more homo leaning
Look more gay so that straight girls avoid you or otherwise improve yourself in a way that the gay community appreciates to increase your chances there and "force your own hand" when it comes to available partners (which most bi ppl try to avoid lol)
>>8554639
I won't be like other anons and tell you to Face Your Fears™ or whatever, so here's some advice.
Take a step back and figure out what makes men attractive to you. Figure out the emotional, physical, and mental features you find so stimulating about those blue roses.
With that information, actively seek out more of it. Yes it can be in porn, but it can just be images (non-fully nude), media (movies, games, art), or just people in your city.
Actively invest yourself into that world. For example if extremely buff men do it for you, finding a good gym, finding gym buddies, attending bodyweight competitions, etc. are all great ideas. Again, use this sort of logic to any other trait you find attractive in men, for example you're not going to find many highly intellectual beings trying to press 400 pounds if intellect is your thing.
Find male voices you're interested in. This doesn't have to be sexual whatsoever. It can be a podcaster, a youtuber, etc. and listen to it. There are some male hypnos out there too but that leans into sexual play often but there are 'alpha male' audios too. This is so that you focus on enjoying male tones more, it'll broaden your tastes, because quite often looks don't match up with tone, but in your case it's great.
Finally, get into yoga. Yeah I know, stereotypical homo, but it's all about focusing on breathing and how your body feels. The more you focus on your body, how good it feels to get stressed and stretched out, the more I think you'll in general appreciate the male body. It's what happened to me.
Anyways, the above advice isn't some silver bullet. You won't become a 6. Your life would be better though.
>>8554739
I feel a great deal of aggression towards you simply because you've identified your gender. I can understand how this would seem rude. It is.
That said, everything about this advice other than "interact with queer men in queer spaces" gives me stuff to think about. Even the queer one gives me stuff to think about, in a bad way.
I really have never used /LGBT/ before, and I didn't realize queer ideology was accepted by any members here-though with an anon imageboard, why the fuck am i surprised that everyone believes everything?
>>8554755
Thanks for this. This and, ironically, the post above yours, are already the most helpful advice I've received. I listen to a lot of Podcasts and respond to voices a lot, so I'll be thinking more about how I respond to what sorts of voices.
>>8554706
We're all in this together, buddy. Hopefully someone pops up sooner or later ITT with more insight into your circumstances than I have.
>>8554809
>respond to voices a lot
Check out reddit gonewildaudio if you're as sensitive to voices as I am. A lot of the stuff is m4f/f4m, but there's some really good m4m stuff that you might respond a little too well with. Unfortunately due to reddit's format you gotta put in a little effort to wade through the mediocre.
>>8554639
If you are trying to become /fit/ then you are on the way of moving to the right on the kinsey scale desu. We also could swap sexuality if you want to. I'd rather be straight than gay.
>>8554639
Watch yaoi anime
Gay is more than just having sex, it's also romance.
>>8554639
>itt internalized homophobia
>>8554639
start with shemales/futa, progress to femboys/traps and eventually you'll get to liking billy herrington
>>8558670
heterophobia*
All you need to know.